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BadMrFrosty (0)
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Depends entirely on the girl. My current GF loves it so I dont feel at all bad giving her what she enjoys. If that were not the case, I dont think I could do it.
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06-16-10 12:11am
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lk2fireone (0)
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No. I don't appreciate seeing it, wouldn't enjoy doing it. I realize it's a power trip, but to me it's simply abuse.
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06-16-10 01:42am
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nadiencendia (0)
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I don't think I could do that, even if the girl asked me to. The idea of domination, power or humiliation is not a turn on for me. At all. This doesn't mean that I find it immoral, if it's consensual for both parts, but for me it's just disturbing to watch.
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06-16-10 03:55am
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Jay G (Disabled)
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While I love rough sex and BDSM as a fantasy, for some reason I can't transfer it into real life, even with very willing partners. Too many years of being trained to treat women like queens probably gave me both the rough fantasies and the inability to actually do them in real life.
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06-16-10 05:31am
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Denner (0)
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Never been a part of my sex life - and never will be - nor in fantasy/porn fantasy - I've always disliked roughness in sex/love and life in general....
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06-16-10 06:53am
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turboshaft (0)
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It's all about consent for me; how 'rough' or 'abusive' something is comes secondary to whether or not a person even wants it (both giving and receiving). I'm certainly willing to give--well, try at least, I'm a humanist and not very much into hurting others--if there is a person who is willing to receive and enjoys it.
Porn is obviously different; it's fantasy and we assume that it's completely consensual as well so we shouldn't feel too guilty about more "abusive acts."
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06-16-10 12:25pm
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messmer (Disabled)
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I ended up changing my vote from "maybe, if she says it's okay" to "I don't think I could" because the former implies that "I" requested rough sex and she complies, something I would never do. If "she" requested it (and some do like it rough), who knows?
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06-16-10 01:23pm
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Sevrin (0)
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I went the other way actually, from "No", to "Maybe". It's not something I would seek out, but you never know what a partner might be into.
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06-16-10 03:30pm
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RagingBuddhist (Disabled)
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Deepthroating if she's comfortable with it. Abuse, like slapping, isn't my thing.
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06-16-10 04:59pm
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graymane (Suspended)
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Heyeeel no! As much ranting that I've done on this forum attacking those sub-humans who do this crazy stuff, to say otherwise suggesting approval would make me a world-class hypocrite.
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06-16-10 05:01pm
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RagingBuddhist (Disabled)
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Deepthroating is an art and/or talent. As long as it's not forced. I don't think it belongs in the category of abuse.
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06-16-10 06:01pm
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pat362 (0)
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The slapping is a resounding no because that turns me off when I see it in porn. Deep throating is an art form like ragingBudhist said. This is the kind of thing that she wants to try and you should not try to force your d..k down her throat.
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06-16-10 06:24pm
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Drooler (Disabled)
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Never have been into abuse. I think there's enough in regular life, and you don't even have to go around asking for it. It finds you.
To me sex is about pleasure and abuse isn't pleasurable. If my gf said she wanted sm, I'd say "nfw," and, "You read me wrong. I guess you'll have to find a better qualified asshole than I am."
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06-16-10 06:40pm
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Lionheart (0)
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Couldn't do it in real life, but that is what porn is for. Even then some of the roughest scenes I have seen are too much for me that I start to feel disturbed with the violence being portrayed.
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06-17-10 02:24am
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PinkPanther (0)
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You got to be true to yourself when it comes to sex or you'll just feel like an asshole. I experimented years ago with bondage and "abusive" games and it wasn't enjoyable at all. On the other hand, nothing makes me happier than to do things that make a girl cum like crazy. Pussy-eating, fingering, stroking, massaging, fucking with condoms with odd bumps and ridges - they all get the kind of reactions that I really like getting.
Slapping and choking a sexual partner don't have the same appeal or deliver anywhere near the same thrill.
Girls do like rough sex, though - many of them.
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06-17-10 07:00am
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host2626 (0)
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You forgot one option: "I don't want to".
As if everyone was constantly daydreaming about doing these things. No.
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06-17-10 08:07am
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Khan (Suspended)
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just a test, please ignore
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06-17-10 11:54am
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Capn (0)
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No. There is more than enough violence & abuse in the world without adding to it. :0(
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06-17-10 12:54pm
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dracken (0)
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I like seeing it to a certain degree, but I agree that it has to depend on the girl if she wants it or not. What I do hate are the "rape" scenes like Max Hardcore used to do. It was just pointless humiliation and it would make me feel bad by the end of the movie.
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06-17-10 06:09pm
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yote78 (0)
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No. I love female beauty (especially the naked variety) too much. Despite the fact that I'm a big porn hound, I respect the girls I see on the 'net, just as I respect (almost) all the girls I've had sex with. They give me something I very much crave and b/c of that, I don't think I could deeply hurt them, physically or emotionally.
Then again, I've never met any girl who didn't appreciate a little consensual playful roughness. And who says deep throating is "abuse?" If a girl is willing and able to do it, I wouldn't stop her.
(From the results of this poll so far, it looks like a lot of guys agree with me.)
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06-17-10 09:36pm
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Homegirl (Disabled)
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I hate abusive porn. Not for me.
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05-27-20 07:37am
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