Was a member approx. 6 months prior to this review.
Pros:
Lots of flirts and women who contact you.
Large number of members
Lots of variety ethnically, by age and body type
Cons:
Ridiculously expensive. You get zero for free.
Many unbelievable profiles
Search is by state. Parts of New York would take a whole day to get to. Needs a better way to search.
Takes too much effort to get any worthwhile leads.
Bottom Line:
I never signed up for a dating site before I tried this one. I had heard that people who were looking for the same sex were not welcomed.
Adult Friend Finder was the one I decided to try. I was more looking for a no strings fling than for a new relationship. If I could find even one new friend I would have been happy.
I have heard you should trust your gut. I made a mistake and I saw this as soon as I opened the site. For a “free” membership all I got was a page with prices for a gold account. One month was $40, which would have been a lot for a porn site.
I decided to test things out before going in whole hog. I did not post a photo and said the least I could in my profile.
Within the first few minutes I saw something I never would have guessed. Flirts and flirts and flirts and requests for contact by the dozens. In order to send the members emails you had to buy a certain amount. I think it was about a dollar for each email.
Women of all ages were interested in me. There were twenty year olds who were gorgeous as well as women older than me who looked like they were desperate. Over the next three days, it was filling my inbox with literally hundreds of messages.
I decided to answer a select few and bought a package of twenty emails for about twenty dollars. Don’t quote me on the amount as this was a few months ago.
Mostly I did not get any replies. The ones who did reply tried to get me to send more emails. If I had wanted to, I could have spent hundreds on emails.
The more profiles I looked at the more I thought many were fake. Too many looked like models, too perfect and why would they be looking for a fling online? Unbelievable. Some lived so far away that obviously I would not contact them. So many lived in Chinatown in New York, but in the commercial areas that were only stores. Fake addresses.
In the end I met no one and cut my losses by not buying more than the first twenty emails.
For sixty dollars I got zero. It was not worth even sixty cents.
Current Member for over 1 year (at the time of review).
Pros:
Lets go for it!
+Caters for three customers the sex hungry, picture collectors and bloggers/friendship seekers
+tall people short people,fat & thin, those that live 1000's of miles away and your neighbour! they are all here!
+pictures, videos and audio from REAL people.
+Gold members can do very specific searches.
+Gold members have a lot of control over accounts.
+Your rewarded for adding your picture.
+Weekly emails of those members you may like
+The fact it shows you new members on the site
+The chance of a shag, friendship or love!
+18000000+ members
Cons:
Bad thing here we go grab a chair!
-The price for gold membership.
-The fact that when you search you get what your looking for but they may not be keen on you!
-Every thing is a bolt on!
-The fact they try to get you to sign up to alt.com.
-Not everyone's real!
-Nothing is really available to free members!
-The points system!
-The email system!
-Members who are on AFF but not for more than 3 months (this must be a large number of the 18000000 customers)
-The fact they have a monopoly on this market!
Bottom Line:
The long and short of it is how do I sum this site up? Its the kind of site you love or hate, being a member for over 2 years I guess I must love it.....
If your after a quick and cheap shag well I still think the dance floor at a night club is your best bet, if your looking for long term love I think it could be found there.... but could be hard to find! But on the other hand your looking for a long term good time I think that's what this site is built for.
I cant rate the updates they happen every minute by its customers, I cant rate its quality of videos pics or audio,they are from its members! But what I can tell you is its not slow, its not perfect but some how its faults iron out, Id be lying if I told you it was like your old pet dog that smells but you love :-) it more like putting a Gordon Ramsey meal in front of someone on a diet..... they try it and have to finish it.
The site just provides a service and I think if you look at it like that its very overpriced! but it could be providing something very life changing so is it that expensive?
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