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| 11-20-12 11:04am - 4415 days | Original Post - #1 | |
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Ergo Proxy (0)
Active User  Posts: 52 Registered: Dec 22, '07 Location: Germany |
mind over body? "Make the best of what you have." Usually I support that sentence, but recently I struggled with the "what you never can have". While indulging in my sexual needs with an eventual partner or solo there are pictures and fantasies in my head which are either physically not possible or dangerous from a medical point of view. It would be some kind of relieve if I EVER had some dreams concerning that stuff but, alas, I have seldom lucid memory of them. I know this sounds like complaining on a very high level and a little bit pointless. Just want to get it out of my system and (eventually) start a nice discussion to cheer me up a bit. All hail to the hypnotoad! | |
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| 11-20-12 11:12am - 4415 days | #2 | |
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Capn (0)
Active User  Posts: 1,740 Registered: Sep 05, '09 Location: Near the Beer! |
I am not sure if it helps, but fantasy is so much more controllable than reality & doesn't have the repercussions that the real world has.  Cap'n.  Admiral of the PU Hindenburg. 2009 PU AwardHilarious Post of the Year 2010 PU Award ( I would have preferred it to be Helpful Post of the Year for Guys who Hate 'Retail Therapy' ) :0/ Sanity is in the eye of the Beholder! | |
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| 11-20-12 01:27pm - 4415 days | #3 | |
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rearadmiral (0)
Active User Posts: 1,453 Registered: Jul 16, '07 Location: NB/Canada |
One big advantage to porn is that we can indulge some fantasies. There are lots of things I love watching in porn that I don't think I'd really want to try in real life. Or would I.... | |
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| 11-20-12 02:11pm - 4415 days | #4 | |
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messmer (0)
Disabled User  Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
I handle "what you can never have" through the written word. I either go to places like Literotica, ASSTR etc. to get my fill of improbable, if not downright perverted fantasies, or I write them myself. Writing is a hobby of mine and allows me to bring into existence sex scenes that are meeting my libido's needs exactly. Some can be pretty bizarre, but I have the comfort of knowing that they are harmless because it's between my keyboard and me and no one is affected by even my wildest dreams. Okay, call me weird if you must!  | |
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| 11-20-12 03:32pm - 4415 days | #5 | |
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Cybertoad (0)
Disabled User  Posts: 2,158 Registered: Jan 01, '08 Location: Wash |
Cybertoads Take : Fantasy take one, they are drinking a nice bottle of wine she is feeling a little frisky after three glasses and decides he has to many clothes on., stripping him down she decides she will also go down on him later this leads to ..... Reality in real life Reality Take One they are drinking a nice bottle of wine she is feeling a little frisky after three glasses and decides he has to many clothes on. But then realizes she is feeling a little gassy and excuses her self, returning from the bathroom she then begins stripping him down and decides she will also go down on him. Having had three glasses him self, he also realizes the bathroom is a good idea, but fears he may lose his new erection. This is why fantasy is great you can leave out the parts that make it why fantasy and reality will never merge as one   Since 2007 | |
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| 11-22-12 12:06am - 4414 days | #6 | |
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Ergo Proxy (0)
Active User Posts: 52 Registered: Dec 22, '07 Location: Germany |
Recently I came across some stories which were immensely satisfying for my perverted mind. Maybe I will try some writing myself but I am afraid I lack a lot of talent there. All hail to the hypnotoad! | |
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| 11-22-12 02:25am - 4413 days | #7 | |
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graymane (0)
Suspended  Posts: 1,411 Registered: Feb 20, '10 Location: Virginia |
Maybe somewhat waywardly unconventional, 'ol buddy (as are all we pervs)... but you ain't nowhere near that person wearin' that bag over his head. But, given the fact you are, indeed, an extraodinary author....one could get the idea da-man does kind'a push the envelope in his passionately unrelenting internet pursuit of "mature women" and specific application of tasteful underware and lingerie....  | |
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| 11-22-12 10:27am - 4413 days | #8 | |
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Micha (0)
Active User Posts: 321 Registered: Jul 04, '10 Location: san jose ca |
Hey Ergo, It's obvious you know a lot of words and have a sense of how they can go together. Paint pictures ! It's a skill that will not diminish. unless life also gives you water and sugar, your lemonade is gonna suck. | |
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| 11-22-12 01:35pm - 4413 days | #9 | |
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messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Just let your libido guide you, EP, your grammatical or spelling errors will be between you and your word processor. I can assure you I don't create any master pieces myself, but writing is something that has always been in my blood, and I don't restrict myself to writing sexual fantasies alone. As a matter of fact writing was an integral part of my second career. Too bad that my aging brain is doing so much to defeat me these days as I keep groping for words I knew all along but which just won't materialize on demand any longer. Except for half an hour later when I no longer need them!  | |
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| 11-22-12 01:42pm - 4413 days | #10 | |
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messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Thanks, graymane, once again you are too kind, and I am grateful that I can take off that bag now! I just wish that my relentless pursuit of mature women in lingerie would finally show some results! Sigh!!! I am getting the feeling that web owners just aren't listening to me! How humbling!  | |
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| 11-22-12 11:47pm - 4413 days | #11 | |
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graymane (0)
Suspended Posts: 1,411 Registered: Feb 20, '10 Location: Virginia |
"humbleness" has struck a cord, Sir messmer. And from the tone of that cord is my tune and refrain of a similar pursuit..... one of which, (up to now) not expounded upon enough to truly galvanize it's station in the minds of my fellow PU brethren: (Drum roll please!) Perhaps the more perceptive among our PU crowd have already picked up on the only combination of entities from these sites that do for me what I really want. Simply put: Pleated and/or light (summer)dresses which are complimented by full panties (preferably cotton). (The presentation will include her dress going through a number of strategic lifts, with the desired result showcasing ample flashes of her thighs and panties. This is followed by either hot solo action (always done on her back) or seduction leading up to sex between a couple (always and only done in the missionary position). Contrary to established protocol, the obligitory (he/she BJs and doggie style sex, should never accompany this scene, and always be left out Now, I employ thee please, how easy will this be for me to find?  | |
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| 11-23-12 10:47am - 4412 days | #12 | |
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messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
^I'll go along with you ... partially, graymane. We watched a movie from the fifties the other day and both my wife and I burst out: My God, women looked so pretty in their dresses back then! But I vehemently disagree when it comes to the "cotton panties." In our day it was nylon, perlon, rayon, silk, satin, rather than cotton. I see nothing exciting about cotton or another later invention, pantyhose! Hope we'll remain friends! | |
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| 11-23-12 04:43pm - 4412 days | #13 | |
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graymane (0)
Suspended Posts: 1,411 Registered: Feb 20, '10 Location: Virginia |
LOL ..... (you'll rarely see me using this abbreviation cuz the written word has long passed that would elicit that level of outburst) however, Congrats. you're a winner. Pantyhose and nylon turn me off like a toothless warthog. An' yes, we're still friends. Jus' a matter to agree to disagree. Cotton panties dug so deep in my consciousness as a hot-blooded kid growing up that its ingrained to taking precedence over all else. Ya gotta understand that was IT in underwear, and as close as we got to see what covers that forbidden moist terrain that I craved so desperately to get my teeth into (literally) Alas, I may as well wish to find the end of a rainbow. | |
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| 11-23-12 06:16pm - 4412 days | #14 | |
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messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
It is marvelous how our later tastes are so often influenced by what we saw/experienced in our youth. I guess I was a late bloomer because, by the time I got my first glimpse of a pair of panties, cotton had gone out of style and nylon was King (or Queen). I remember that back in my childhood everything was cotton .. and in my case, it was the scratchy kind! No fond memories there. | |
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| 11-24-12 09:52am - 4411 days | #15 | |
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biker (0)
Active User  Posts: 632 Registered: May 03, '08 Location: milwaukee, wi |
To creat my fantasy I line up pictures form one or more sets to make a storyline and add captions to them to emphasize the story. The Paint software I got with my Windows XP works great for this. After many years I realised the pron industry was not going to even come close to creating a scene that matched my fantasy and I would have to do it myself. Even my own efforts are not perfect, but give me some satisfaction in my creativity. As for the the porn industry I find it better to let them surprise me. They do come out with some exciting scenes that please me. The secret is to stop searching for the perfect ideal and be open for new experiences. Ergo proxy, There are many direction to follow and I hope you find one that satisfies you. I know I followed several different paths myself. Warning Will Robinson Edited on Nov 24, 2012, 09:55am | |
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