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| 03-03-12 09:00am - 4677 days | Original Post - #1 | |
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messmer (0)
Disabled User  Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
It's getting bad! I just got finished deleting the bookmarks, complete with passwords and user names to three different sites, because I was actually getting agitated about daily updates that left me absolutely cold. It was always the same routine: click on the site with anticipation, look at the samples of today's update, give 'em a low score and then sign out in frustration. I still had a couple of weeks to go on two of them, and over a month on the third. I think my days of subscribing to the same handful of sites over and over are finally a thing of the past. They've gone from erotic to blah! At least for me, because I do not blame the sites themselves. Times have changed and, along with the times, so have tastes. End of rant, no response required. I simply had to get it off my chest.  | |
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| 03-03-12 09:10am - 4677 days | #2 | |
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Capn (0)
Active User  Posts: 1,740 Registered: Sep 05, '09 Location: Near the Beer! |
Yes, surely some enlightened Webmanager is going to properly support both of our niche requirements soon!  Cap'n.  Admiral of the PU Hindenburg. 2009 PU AwardHilarious Post of the Year 2010 PU Award ( I would have preferred it to be Helpful Post of the Year for Guys who Hate 'Retail Therapy' ) :0/ Sanity is in the eye of the Beholder! | |
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| 03-03-12 09:51am - 4677 days | #3 | |
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pat362 (0)
Active User  Posts: 3,575 Registered: Jan 23, '07 Location: canada |
I don't know if this is a good sign but I believe that the demise of Megauplaod is going to have a major positive impact on the porn industry because the guys that were stealing content no longer have a platform to upload it so why steal it. Long live the Brown Coats. | |
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| 03-03-12 10:53am - 4677 days | #4 | |
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messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Your faith is stronger than mine, Cap'n!  | |
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| 03-03-12 10:58am - 4677 days | #5 | |
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messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Trouble is it won't have a positive impact on what I am looking for, Pat. This IS a new age with new tastes and I can't see how we could possibly return to what I like if millions of young pervs are insistent on seeing flesh from the beginning of a picture set or DVD. I really, really miss that "tease factor" of a model stripping gradually out of more than just a dress/jeans and thong. | |
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| 03-03-12 12:34pm - 4677 days | #6 | |
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Ergo Proxy (0)
Active User  Posts: 52 Registered: Dec 22, '07 Location: Germany |
I guess Onlytease and their derivatives are no option because they lack the hardcore content? All hail to the hypnotoad! | |
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| 03-03-12 01:16pm - 4677 days | #7 | |
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Capn (0)
Active User Posts: 1,740 Registered: Sep 05, '09 Location: Near the Beer! |
OnlyTease even lacks softcore content. Even sets which are claimed to be 'nude' often aren't.  Now if there were guaranteed softcore full body nudity, that would hit the spot fine for me. Cap'n.  Admiral of the PU Hindenburg. 2009 PU AwardHilarious Post of the Year 2010 PU Award ( I would have preferred it to be Helpful Post of the Year for Guys who Hate 'Retail Therapy' ) :0/ Sanity is in the eye of the Beholder! | |
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| 03-03-12 01:51pm - 4677 days | #8 | |
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Ergo Proxy (0)
Active User Posts: 52 Registered: Dec 22, '07 Location: Germany |
Yeah, maybe it's only for fabric enthusiasts (like me  ). Maybe they come up with a different concept in the future. All hail to the hypnotoad! | |
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| 03-03-12 07:10pm - 4677 days | #9 | |
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graymane (0)
Suspended  Posts: 1,411 Registered: Feb 20, '10 Location: Virginia |
A thought-provoking thread, Sir messmer. If the old adage is true and works for us ..... "What goes around, comes around." then we may choose to interpret that, and another old saying: "the old becoming new again" to mean (with luck) that the porno-entrepreneurials will find good reason to again incorporate some of the grand old porn that got us so immersed in this stuff in the first place. On your behalf, however, what with all the sweat an' tears you've surrendered searching for what's out there that you're longing for but eludes you, it is my fervent wish that within our remaining voyueristically productive lives... that prophesy becomes reality and brings it back around to our liking. | |
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| 03-03-12 07:19pm - 4677 days | #10 | |
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messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Sadly, you are right, Ergo Proxy! I expect a set to go past the tease to fully nude, or at least have it show all the important parts!  | |
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| 03-03-12 07:23pm - 4677 days | #11 | |
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messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
I am a fabric enthusiast myself: satin, nylon, silk, yum. Any model clad like that is a sure hit with me .. but .. see my other post. They HAVE to divest themselves of that fine fabric. It they did that would be the site for me! | |
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| 03-03-12 07:30pm - 4677 days | #12 | |
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messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
I am afraid it won't be within my life time, old friend! Women would have to become willing again to feel a little bit uncomfortable in attire that consists of nylons, garter belts, slips, nylon panties etc. for the sake of their men, and I know in my heart that this one, as well as the generations to follow, will prefer the comfortable casual wear and cotton they got accustomed to. And a whole new generation of males will have developed a casual wear and cotton fetish and will clamor for that rather than what we are dreaming (drooling) about!  | |
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| 03-04-12 12:59am - 4676 days | #13 | |
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Denner (0)
Active User  Posts: 1,217 Registered: Mar 03, '07 Location: Denmark |
From Dr. Denners Clinic Dear Mr. Messmer Normally this clinic do not take cases online – but in your situation, I'll make an exception. Our immediate diagnose based on your first description is that you - alas - have caught a somewhat severe case of general porn fatigue. A disease well known among veteran porn users around the world. And again - alas - it's like an epidemic. Apart from the fatigue we at the clinic also believe that the suppliers of the drug are getting lazy, greedy and seem more and more to lack fantasy.  The best cure we can recommend is a short or longer period of "Cold turkey". It helped this doctor and a lot of other porn addicts. It's - another alas - the best advise we can give at this moment. Get well soon. Dr. Denner  "I don't drink anymore - I freeze it, and eat it like a popcicle" | |
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| 03-04-12 09:24am - 4676 days | #14 | |
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pat362 (0)
Active User Posts: 3,575 Registered: Jan 23, '07 Location: canada |
^I agree with your recommended treatment but sadly I don't think it will help except in the short term. The type of porn that messmer is looking for is disapearing and may never comeback or it may take a long time in returning. Even I have a lot of issues with most of what passes for good porn these days and I like gonzo and HC porn. Taking a break helps you to recharge your porn batteries but the stuff you want is still not there when you comeback. Long live the Brown Coats. | |
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| 03-04-12 09:57am - 4676 days | #15 | |
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messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Dear Doctor, thank you for your advice. I actually agree with you that porn fatigue can play a part in finding most updates boring because it has happened to me in the past, but, in my case, Pat is closer to the truth. Times have changed and with it the material being offered to the public. Because most Porn Users are much younger than I there won't be many that clamor for photos or videos that, to them, are vintage. I was under the impression, for the longest time, that women's desire to wear sexy lingerie, and men's desire to watch their women wearing it, would be eternal, but the porn industry and the remarks of some younger women in connection with the subject, plus the eager consumption of the "new" porn by the majority have proved me wrong. Sincerely, m. | |
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| 03-04-12 09:59am - 4676 days | #16 | |
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messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
I agree with you completely, Pat! See my response to my dear friend, Dr. Denner! | |
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| 03-04-12 11:24am - 4676 days | #17 | |
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Capn (0)
Active User Posts: 1,740 Registered: Sep 05, '09 Location: Near the Beer! |
M., my good friend! Fashions do go in cycles so it is likely to come around again. In the mean time try: Pin-UpWow Retro Queens pinupglamour.com Perhaps most promising of all: donovansdarlings.com It isn't 100% there, but it should restore your faith that some women still enjoy dressing in more traditional sexy clothing. Cap'n. Admiral of the PU Hindenburg. 2009 PU AwardHilarious Post of the Year 2010 PU Award ( I would have preferred it to be Helpful Post of the Year for Guys who Hate 'Retail Therapy' ) :0/ Sanity is in the eye of the Beholder! | |
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| 03-04-12 04:21pm - 4676 days | #18 | |
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Tree Rodent (0)
Active User  Posts: 708 Registered: Oct 29, '08 Location: UK |
I was going to say the same thing as Dr Denner. Cold turkey for about four weeks minimum should do it. We're all becoming too blase about the fantastic amount of cheap quality porn out there. Maybe there are one or two niches each of us may like, but not get from run of the mill porn sites. But if you're a porn lover, there is a lot to be happy about, at least we certainly should be happy. We only need to enjoy 0.5 per cent of the porn that is out there to be permanently engaged in watching porn every hour for every day for the rest of our lives (no matter how long we live), and frankly for me, that is too much time watching porn. Sometimes hobbies have to be left alone for a while, for the love to return. Messmer you have explained your situation, but if you have a computer, find a different hobby for a while. You may not be able to get out, but access to a computer and tv are two things you do have. | |
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| 03-04-12 06:23pm - 4676 days | #19 | |
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messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Thank you for those valuable hints, Cap'n. I shall tour the sites tomorrow! As to fashion going in cycles: where are the crinoline, the bustle, the whale bone corset, the wasp waist, those ugly, ugly flapper fashions etc.?  | |
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| 03-04-12 07:18pm - 4676 days | #20 | |
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messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Thank you, squirrel, my friend. I agree with you in principle but here is my problem again: Even in the very beginning of watching porn there were many picture sets (no decent video at that time) that left me cold. Our fetishes and favorite niches develop in our youth and something evokes an erotic response in us if we are being reminded of it. In my youth women went around fully dressed and this is what I miss in today's porn, that they don't start off like that and then gradually reveal all, rather than indulging in the modern habit of diving right in by wearing a dress, thong and a pair of shoes only and taking that off within the first few frames or pictures. I keep talking about possibly having a lingerie fetish or panty fetish or a love of mature women fetish, but it isn't really .. it's more a longing to see women as they used to dress fifty years ago and, of course, the period lingerie looks more natural on them than it would on a teenie. And with each year that passes there is less and less of a chance of finding the right material as new generations develop new fetishes and things that turn them on. Who would have ever thought, only ten years ago, that there would be such a thing as a smoking fetish? Who would have thought thirty years ago that "hairy" would become a fetish, as well as a turn-off to many? Do I spend too much time with porn? Undoubtedly, but I really don't believe that a prolonged absence from it would give me back the materials (nylon, rayon, silk, satin) or the attire (stockings w / nylons and garter belt, full backed panties, slips, bras) .. especially bras!! Does anyone wear a bra these days? Do you see my point, my friend. As long as I can still look at a set of pictures and get aroused by beautiful women in their intimate apparel, then it is not ennui or over indulgence that makes me talk about being bored, it is the feeling of having been passed by, of never being able to get back what I really crave or if I do get it it is in drips and drabs, as happened with the subscriptions I gave up on in discouragement. Sorry about the rant .. and you were quite correct in your observation that pre-occupation with any hobby, to the exclusion of just about anything else, can lead to boredom. | |
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| 03-04-12 08:57pm - 4675 days | #21 | |
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Cybertoad (0)
Disabled User  Posts: 2,158 Registered: Jan 01, '08 Location: Wash |
Messmer, I too woooould love to see porn like this return. Playboy while tame by any standards of today, had a way of keeping a mans eye on her. Especially the early days of cable playboy when stripping was the norm. Hustler and Penthouse dabbled in the seduction racket but it has gone by the way side. I have found few and and far tidbits, that show clothed to nude. But I keep about 100 or so classics like these. I hope to see some day it return  Since 2007 | |
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| 03-04-12 11:38pm - 4675 days | #22 | |
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Capn (0)
Active User Posts: 1,740 Registered: Sep 05, '09 Location: Near the Beer! |
Welcome to our crusade, CT! Cap'n.  Admiral of the PU Hindenburg. 2009 PU AwardHilarious Post of the Year 2010 PU Award ( I would have preferred it to be Helpful Post of the Year for Guys who Hate 'Retail Therapy' ) :0/ Sanity is in the eye of the Beholder! | |
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| 03-05-12 12:06am - 4675 days | #23 | |
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graymane (0)
Suspended Posts: 1,411 Registered: Feb 20, '10 Location: Virginia |
That reminds me, Messmer .... I have boxes of vintage Playboy Mags stored in the attic... some dating back to the 60's and (if not stolen) the fifties. I'm sure there's ample eye candy befitting your taste somewhere embedded in all those copies. I know it's a stretch, but if you think you'd like to have some or all of them and know of a practical shipping method, then you're welcome to them, my friend. Hell, probably wishful thinking, but they may bring more than the freight costs by selling them on EBay or Craigs List. Why haven't I done that? Too lazy and not up to the task, I'd say. If I knew exactly what to look for, I'd leaf through the whole batch and just tear out the pages that I think you'd like. As far as my attachment to the Mags go, well I'm having to move soon and I won't have the space to keep them. dumb perhaps .... but the idea jus' whizzed by me while reading Cyber's post. Oh, if you're tuning in Mister Khan, your keen sense of observation hopefully will relent to this as not being a ploy to sell or dispose of my wares over the internet .... jus' a single proposal dedicating my appreciation and valued association to a fellow PU brother. | |
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| 03-05-12 05:10am - 4675 days | #24 | |
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Denner (0)
Active User Posts: 1,217 Registered: Mar 03, '07 Location: Denmark |
I'm not surprised - but kind of filled with joy: This thread shows once again how kind, civilized, friendly ect. this forum is - with participation of so nice people. (unlike quite a lot of other forums) And we in this forum, I could imagine - may be looked upon by outsiders as "porn-weirdos" - with maybe contempt, a danger to society ect. But little do they know!!!! Have a fine day, evening, night, all (Dr. Denner has checked out for now - but Denner remains) ...to you great bunch "I don't drink anymore - I freeze it, and eat it like a popcicle" Edited on Mar 05, 2012, 05:14am | |
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| 03-05-12 08:16am - 4675 days | #26 | |
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Denner (0)
Active User Posts: 1,217 Registered: Mar 03, '07 Location: Denmark |
It's almost incredible how The Squirrel can put some things into very few words: "We're all becoming too blase about the fantastic amount of cheap quality porn out there. Maybe there are one or two niches each of us may like, but not get from run of the mill porn sites." Just got to say this: Well put!! And then on: "But if you're a porn lover, there is a lot to be happy about, at least we certainly should be happy.".........Agree! I could add - in my somewhat limited English: Porn will always survive and folks like us will get back and back and back ... even with a couple of breaks in between....porn is here to stay!  "I don't drink anymore - I freeze it, and eat it like a popcicle" | |
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| 03-05-12 08:24am - 4675 days | #27 | |
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Khan (0)
Suspended  Posts: 1,737 Registered: Jan 05, '07 Location: USA |
As an aside ... This site has now been added. You may enter your remarks at: https://www.pornusers.com/review/donovansdarlings/ Former PornUsers Senior Administrator Now at: MyPorn.com "To get your ideas across use small words, big ideas, and short sentences."-John Henry Patterson | |
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| 03-05-12 09:04am - 4675 days | #28 | |
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Tree Rodent (0)
Active User Posts: 708 Registered: Oct 29, '08 Location: UK |
I very much agree with what you say. That there is nothing, or very little which caters for your particular taste still surprises me. Porn is like tv in one sense. It tries to appeal to as many as possible, and falls into homogeneity. My suggestion and Dr Denner's, is not a cure, more a way of dealing with the lack of your favourite material. The following may be a poor analogy, but imagine if you love dining at a high class restaurant with top class food washed down with some vintage Dom Perignon. If that restaurant closes and you end up in the local fast food diner six days a week, you start to lose your appetite. If however you are stuck in Ethiopia, or the middle of some desert, where there is very little food for a couple of months, that fast food restaurant begins to look very good indeed. Now how about forking out for a month's membership to that one site you refuse to pay for, but which appeals? Quality over quantity any day. Sometimes it pays to pay. | |
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| 03-05-12 09:10am - 4675 days | #29 | |
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Tree Rodent (0)
Active User Posts: 708 Registered: Oct 29, '08 Location: UK |
Couldn't agree more Denner. This site has survived longer than most. What effect the economy is having on PU/TBP no one knows except Rick and Khan. It would be a shame to see it close, as the community here is an exceptional one. Two important things are imo, make the newbies welcome, and when you joing a porn site, use the link from PU/TBP. | |
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| 03-05-12 10:09am - 4675 days | #30 | |
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messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Thank you, graymane, you are being very kind and generous. I couldn't accept your offer though because I don't think my wife would be impressed with a box of Playboys ending up at my door. She tolerates my porn habit but that would be too much, even though I don't even look at Playboy as porn anymore! | |
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| 03-05-12 10:15am - 4675 days | #31 | |
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Capn (0)
Active User Posts: 1,740 Registered: Sep 05, '09 Location: Near the Beer! |
Sounds like an ebay job to me! ( If they have an 'adult' sectiion, of course!  ) Cap'n. Admiral of the PU Hindenburg. 2009 PU AwardHilarious Post of the Year 2010 PU Award ( I would have preferred it to be Helpful Post of the Year for Guys who Hate 'Retail Therapy' ) :0/ Sanity is in the eye of the Beholder! | |
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| 03-05-12 10:22am - 4675 days | #32 | |
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messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Just a quick addition: I, too, am impressed with the civility and friendliness in this forum, that's why I spend half of my waking hours here. And, come to think of it, my time spent at the porn sites that I subscribe to isn't actually all that long. With most of them I'm done within minutes (ignoring the download time of a scene or set). "Porn Users" is my addiction and will remain my addiction as long as the members stay as tolerant as they are now and as long as TBP keeps the site going! If I didn't see all the by now familiar and appreciated regulars and their posts on a daily basis I would really be lost because I look at every one as a friend and a welcome visitor to my home! | |
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| 03-05-12 10:48am - 4675 days | #33 | |
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messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
I'm thinking about it, Squirrel. I'm thinking about it! I still wish our friend's DVD site hadn't gone under .. he was the best when it came to niche content.Talking about niche content, I wish there were a site listed at TBP that imitated "Southern Charms" but where you wouldn't have to subscribe to the, mostly mature, models individually but got a whole bunch of them for a certain subscription fee. I remember the site well and with great fondness from the olden days, when ISPs still provided the usenet to their subscribers, because it consisted mostly of true amateur wives, girlfriends, unattached women next door, stripping and they mostly wore "natural wear" rather than the glammed up stuff one sees so often nowadays. I know, I know it was wrong of me to download from the usenet, Khan, but I've been faithful to paysites ever since! Rallying cry: Back to NATURAL! No more enhanceds, no more tattoos, no more piercings, no more glamor! Just the girl/woman next door in all her natural glory. If breasts sag, let them. I a belly develops a bit of a handle, let it! If the thighs get a bit heavy, let them. | |
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| 03-05-12 11:10am - 4675 days | #34 | |
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messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Hi CT, I never had Playboy in the early days of Cable, Canadian Cable Companies simply did not provide contents like that. Now they do! Wish I could have seen the stripping! One thing I do hold against Playboy though is the fact that their ideal model had to look like a Barbie doll with big breasts, which in my opinion led to the abundance of enhanceds we see nowadays. I had the Playboy channel recently and unsubscribed within a month because there were simply too many bolt-ons as well as too much make-up when it came to the majority of the models.  | |
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| 03-05-12 11:34am - 4675 days | #35 | |
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pat362 (0)
Active User Posts: 3,575 Registered: Jan 23, '07 Location: canada |
I'm going to put this out but is it possible that the reasn why I and many others like the old Playboys is that all the models were natural and photoshopping didn't exist yet? I have no interest in looking at photos of women who look like they were created by a computer. I want to see the beauty of the imperfect body. Long live the Brown Coats. | |
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| 03-05-12 11:58am - 4675 days | #36 | |
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messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
In that case I wish I had viewed the old Playboy Magazines, Pat. Natural is how I like the models as well. This must have changed over the years because ... see my reply to CT! | |
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| 03-06-12 08:16am - 4674 days | #37 | |
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Denner (0)
Active User Posts: 1,217 Registered: Mar 03, '07 Location: Denmark |
Oh, good friend....I really support that: any effort to keep this site going. And - of course - join a site using the TBP link - the other reason to do so is obvious: Nobody else has - over the years - given us PUs better deals....nobody!  "I don't drink anymore - I freeze it, and eat it like a popcicle" | |
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| 03-06-12 12:30pm - 4674 days | #38 | |
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pat362 (0)
Active User Posts: 3,575 Registered: Jan 23, '07 Location: canada |
I feel bad about what I'm going to say but the main reason why I always use the PU/TBP link to join a site is because they usually have the best deals and if they don't then their price is not any higher than another site. I will sometime join a specific site if i get a spoecial email offer that is significantly better than what PU pr TBP can offer. Those are rare but I still get them from to time. Long live the Brown Coats. | |
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| 03-06-12 08:47pm - 4674 days | #39 | |
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jberryl69 (0)
Disabled User  Posts: 1,000 Registered: Nov 27, '10 Location: neverland |
I don't know Mez - this quote disturbs me - Are you spending too much time sleeping? If it ain't grits, it must be a Yankee. If you're going to lay her head over the pool table and fuck her throat, get your fucking hand off her throat! | |
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| 03-07-12 09:10am - 4673 days | #40 | |
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Cybertoad (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,158 Registered: Jan 01, '08 Location: Wash |
Agreed, I know there was some degree of airbrushing in Playboy. But that was to take away what they felt was defects in the picture and to enhance breast shadows etc. But I agree what was weird is play boy went from grace and beauty and went to as was put bolt ons, the breast are more often face. I know allot of people did not care for Anna Nicole, however her western, and beach shots back in playboy and on the playboy channel was amazing and natural. Miss the good ole days , when : Porn was art and directors cared about what they shot. Since 2007 | |
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| 03-07-12 09:23am - 4673 days | #41 | |
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pat362 (0)
Active User Posts: 3,575 Registered: Jan 23, '07 Location: canada |
^How about the early Pamela Anderon Playboy shoots? Long live the Brown Coats. | |
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| 03-07-12 10:31am - 4673 days | #42 | |
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messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Relax, jberryl, it's only a figure of speech! I do spend a lot of time here, though!! | |
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| 03-07-12 10:34am - 4673 days | #43 | |
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messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
My sentiments exactly, Pat! I love natural which means imperfect! | |
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