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| 08-09-12 02:19am - 4518 days | Original Post - #1 | |
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signexpo (0)
Suspended Posts: 4 Registered: Jul 25, '12 Location: India |
Can Sex Exist Without Love? A dear friend between the spaghetti and the fruity red, ask me: "Does sex without love exist?" I was not sure what were more tasteful, the spaghetti, the red or the question. Yes, tasteful, because is just matter of taste, some would enjoy it and others would not. What do you feel? Regards sign expo | |
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| 08-09-12 06:03am - 4518 days | #2 | |
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marcdc1 (0)
Active User  Posts: 139 Registered: Jan 10, '07 Location: New York |
I'd say sex can exist without love (we are after all writing on a forum dedicated to porn). My experience is that the trust that comes with love makes for he hottest sex. In short the two are not mutually exclusive. I think it's a very interesting question and I look forward to seeing what how the rest of the community responds. (Do I see a future poll question?)  | |
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| 08-09-12 07:36am - 4518 days | #3 | |
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Khan (0)
Suspended  Posts: 1,737 Registered: Jan 05, '07 Location: USA |
I feel you are posting just to display your forum SIG. Just as you have done with your other two posts here. If I continue to feel that way, I will be disabling your ability to have a SIG.  Former PornUsers Senior AdministratorNow at: MyPorn.com "To get your ideas across use small words, big ideas, and short sentences."-John Henry Patterson | |
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| 08-09-12 07:54am - 4518 days | #4 | |
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Cybertoad (0)
Disabled User  Posts: 2,158 Registered: Jan 01, '08 Location: Wash |
Maybe cause I am a porn degenerate LOL, but the answer is simply yes. After all Viagra and alike do not work off of affection, but attraction. People like to care about the person but escorts and alike male and female exist because of basic human needs. I found the question kinda weird being in a porn forum lol. After all we all may be fond of the stars we view, but unless there are closet stalkers most just enjoy without committing, well except to a 30 day subsription lol  Since 2007 | |
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| 08-09-12 08:22am - 4518 days | #5 | |
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jberryl69 (0)
Disabled User  Posts: 1,000 Registered: Nov 27, '10 Location: neverland |
Maybe signexpo is really Bobby Jindal in disguise. As governor of Louisiana, all he does is promote his right leaning self for national office. He was, of course, smart to switch from Hinduism to Catholicism and witness a exorcism which in the end makes you think he really believes only in himself. How do I feel? I feel that if I had to get in bed with Bobby, there would be no love except for myself and I'd immediately end my life. If it ain't grits, it must be a Yankee. If you're going to lay her head over the pool table and fuck her throat, get your fucking hand off her throat! | |
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| 08-09-12 10:26am - 4518 days | #6 | |
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HeatherMcXxx (0)
Suspended  Posts: 73 Registered: Jul 30, '07 Location: Providence, RI |
An odd question, I think. Sex is a physical activity that need not require romantic connection. The sex trade wouldn't exist otherwise. Chances are the whore you're banging in room 205 isn't your soulmate. I'm not even convinced that being in love makes for better sex. Being freed of any bond may result in a more honest, passionate session. To each his/her own. Maybe I'm not grasping the essence of the question. "Whoever has the vagina is in charge." - Megan Fox | |
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| 08-09-12 12:11pm - 4518 days | #7 | ||
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RagingBuddhist (0)
Disabled User  Posts: 893 Registered: Jan 23, '07 |
I'd tend to agree with Khan's take on this because, at least to me, the answer to the question is obvious. Anyone who's ever had a fuck buddy can tell you that sex can definitely exist without love. Is it better or worse without the commitment? I'd say yes and no. No-strings-attached-let's-just-get-each-other-off sex can be crazy fun. On the other hand, when you really care about your partner, there's an added depth to your encounters. Apples and oranges... Sarcasm is a body's natural defense against stupidity. | ||
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| 08-09-12 12:12pm - 4518 days | #8 | |
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Ergo Proxy (0)
Active User  Posts: 52 Registered: Dec 22, '07 Location: Germany |
"Can sex exist without love?" Dude!!! Sorry signexpo, but I am going out on a limb here and claim that you are either retarded to pose such a stupid question (yes, there are indeed stupid questions), or, like Khan said, you are posting to display your forum SIG. Either way, just wanted to display my own humble opinion. All hail to the hypnotoad! | |
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| 08-09-12 01:10pm - 4518 days | #9 | |
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messmer (0)
Disabled User  Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Strange question, after all, there is such a thing as the sex trade. If some of our users engage the services of an escort they are not looking for romance. We are all collecting pictures and videos where the performers do not have the slightest romantic interest in each other. Except maybe for Otto Bauer and Audrey Hollander!  However, having said that .. I could never engage the services of an escort, I could never have casual "buddy" sex. For me, there has to be that combination of love and sex. That's why my life time batting average has been extremely low. And I'm not ashamed of it. There's nothing like holding the one you love, after sex, and feel that emotional, almost spiritual oneness that comes with a loving relationship. OTOH, can you masturbate without love? That's a definite yes!  | |
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| 08-09-12 04:02pm - 4518 days | #10 | |
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marcdc1 (0)
Active User Posts: 139 Registered: Jan 10, '07 Location: New York |
Perhaps Khan is Khan is right and this thread was not opened with the intention of fostering an honest conversation. That said, I'm interested in this second question. Is sex better with love? I can see the logic of a "hey I just meet you... let's get freaky" encounter. It seems to me when there is a bond of trust you can ask for more of what you want. Yes that 1 night stand may be perfect for "trying out that move" but how do you say "I've seen this really hot thing in a porn movie, I'd like to xxxxx" with someone you're with for the 1st time? Of course, I've lived a terrible sheltered life and never had an encounter without emotion. So, what do I know?  I'm interested to see where this goes. | |
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| 08-09-12 08:08pm - 4517 days | #11 | |
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PinkPanther (0)
Active User  Posts: 1,136 Registered: Jan 08, '07 Location: Oakland, CA |
I suppose that there are people that don't get erotically aroused unless they are emotionally involved, but I would say that is a very small portion of the population, so, yes, sex without love is entirely possible and, I would think, goes on most of the time, for all the reasons mentioned by others. | |
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| 08-09-12 09:02pm - 4517 days | #12 | |
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graymane (0)
Suspended  Posts: 1,411 Registered: Feb 20, '10 Location: Virginia |
"Can sex exist without love?" Maybe Tina Turner has a more settling answer in a song she made popular back in 1993: "What's Love got to do with it?" You may have to draw your own conclusion from the lyrics ... but it works for me. Speakin' for myself?: Jus' send me over a curvaceous beauty (with leggs to die for) who's primed for gettin' laid, and I can assure you before she leaves she'll know she's been through a sexual hurricane.......an' the only place love will show up, if at all, will be in the form of a green-back c-note cluched in her sweaty palm.  | |
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| 08-10-12 06:05am - 4517 days | #13 | |
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marcdc1 (0)
Active User Posts: 139 Registered: Jan 10, '07 Location: New York |
Well said! I think I really should have lived more before I got married! | |
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| 08-10-12 07:16am - 4517 days | #14 | |
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pat362 (0)
Active User  Posts: 3,575 Registered: Jan 23, '07 Location: canada |
Based on what Khan wrote then I assume the original poster was just screwing with us(no pun intended) so he will probably not add anything else to the conversation and his statement was so vague that I don't feel like it's worth discussing what he meant to say. Now if someone wants to start a thread about whether it's possible to have sex with someone on a regular basis and not fall in love with them then I'll gladly discuss it but I think this thread can simply fade away. Long live the Brown Coats. | |
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| 08-10-12 10:40am - 4517 days | #15 | |
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Micha (0)
Active User Posts: 321 Registered: Jul 04, '10 Location: san jose ca |
Can Sex Exist Without Love? I don't care a whit. I am acronym impaired. 1. What is a SIG? 2. One displays a SIG to what end? unless life also gives you water and sugar, your lemonade is gonna suck. | |
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| 08-10-12 10:40am - 4517 days | #16 | |
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messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
While the answer was obvious it still elicited some interesting responses, Pat. I am still amazed that people could hand money to a complete stranger, no matter how hot, and have sex with them. The moment it becomes a commercial transaction, sex (for me) turns into nothing more than the temporary appeasement of an appetite. Let me stress that this is purely personal, that I see nothing wrong with others availing themselves of escorts or prostitutes, but for me I would "wilt" the moment I handed money to a woman for a sex act. | |
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| 08-10-12 10:45am - 4517 days | #17 | |
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Khan (0)
Suspended Posts: 1,737 Registered: Jan 05, '07 Location: USA |
A1. SIG is just short for signature. A2. For promotion purposes and to create back-links to influence search engines. Hope that helps Former PornUsers Senior Administrator Now at: MyPorn.com "To get your ideas across use small words, big ideas, and short sentences."-John Henry Patterson | |
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| 08-10-12 11:22am - 4517 days | #18 | |
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marcdc1 (0)
Active User Posts: 139 Registered: Jan 10, '07 Location: New York |
I'm such a n00b. In regard to A2 would this be a method of search engine optimization? Or is he just cloud seeding - hoping some will follow? (to perhaps malware?) | |
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| 08-10-12 12:34pm - 4517 days | #19 | |
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Drooler (0)
Disabled User  Posts: 1,831 Registered: Mar 11, '07 Location: USA |
I remember when our pet cat got nailed in the back yard. Translation: Yes. I wanted something new, so I left England for New England. | |
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| 08-10-12 01:31pm - 4517 days | #20 | |
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Khan (0)
Suspended Posts: 1,737 Registered: Jan 05, '07 Location: USA |
No idea really. SE optimization has always been one of those ever-changing things that I didn't bother following. I heard the spammers feel that links from popular sites helped their placement. Former PornUsers Senior Administrator Now at: MyPorn.com "To get your ideas across use small words, big ideas, and short sentences."-John Henry Patterson | |
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| 08-10-12 02:00pm - 4517 days | #21 | |
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messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
How do you know they weren't in love? | |
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| 08-10-12 03:14pm - 4517 days | #22 | |
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Denner (0)
Active User  Posts: 1,217 Registered: Mar 03, '07 Location: Denmark |
Sex without love..sure. Or else the human race would be extinguished.....long time ago. "I don't drink anymore - I freeze it, and eat it like a popcicle" | |
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| 08-10-12 06:00pm - 4516 days | #23 | |
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marcdc1 (0)
Active User Posts: 139 Registered: Jan 10, '07 Location: New York |
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| 08-10-12 06:01pm - 4516 days | #24 | |
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marcdc1 (0)
Active User Posts: 139 Registered: Jan 10, '07 Location: New York |
I Guess it's a compliment to PU Forum to be popular. Thanks for replying. | |
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