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| 03-19-09 07:41am - 5757 days | Original Post - #1 | |
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HotMandy (0)
Suspended Webmaster Posts: 12 Registered: Feb 03, '09 Location: London |
Blowjobs and Bonjela Hey Guys. I thought I would get a bit of discussion going (and some advice!) about blowjobs! As I have just got a new man I really want to drive him crazy with the best blow job ever... I have heard bonjela is really good (check the blog in my sig for more details) so would love feedback on this? Have any of the guys experienced it? Thoughts? Also any discussion about what makes head really good would be amazing. Thanks in advance xxxxx http://hotmandy.wordpress.com | |
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| 03-19-09 10:56am - 5757 days | #2 | |
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GCode (0)
Active User  Posts: 386 Registered: Feb 23, '09 Location: USA |
Yo, I'm guessing after looking up bonjela that it sounds like it would do nothing but maybe have numbing qualities. Personally, I have never heard of it in the USA but it sounds like 'oral gel' which is used for pain relief for teeth. Kinda sounds like the altoids myth I remember in high school when the girl adds altoids to her mouth when giving head. I personally tried this and I found it was pointless, there was a little stinging involved which didn't help at all. I suppose it added flavor for her but i'm sure their are better products for that if that is a problem. What are the rumors of this that you heard? I could see something like it numbs the throat for DT'ing or something? -GCode Sexted From My iPad | |
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| 03-19-09 11:30am - 5757 days | #3 | |
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exotics4me (0)
Active User  Posts: 664 Registered: Jan 12, '07 Location: USA |
I did what GCode did and looked it up, got the wiki page, and I'm not even for sure how that would add to the blowjob, at least not for the one receiving the blowjob. I always liked these things, I liked the woman to be slow about the blowjob, at least make me think she loves doing it by going slow, eye contact, and for the blowjob to be more of a tease than anything else. That is just my opinion on what I liked, even though most women never do these things and one thing I always hated was when the woman went so fast and was so sloppy that she sounded like a fat man eating pizza. My first time I jacked off, I thought I'd invented it. I looked down at my sloppy handful of junk and thought, This is going to make me rich. - Chuck Palahniuk | |
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| 03-19-09 01:56pm - 5757 days | #4 | |
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turboshaft (0)
Active User Posts: 1,958 Registered: Apr 01, '08 |
I am afraid that is how a lot of porn strives to portray the blowjob -- a noisy, messy slop-fest of tears, gagging, and lack of true passion. These spit contests of degradation are fun to watch occasionally but they generally seem to take away from the scene and make the cumshot (assuming there is one) look weak and small. "It's incredibly obvious, isn't it? A foreign substance is introduced into our precious bodily fluids without the knowledge of the individual. Certainly without any choice. That's the way your hardcore Commie works." - Gen. Jack D. Rippper, Dr. Stranglove | |
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| 03-19-09 07:06pm - 5756 days | #5 | |
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pat362 (0)
Active User  Posts: 3,575 Registered: Jan 23, '07 Location: canada |
My advice to you is be bold and ask him how he would like his blowjob. Afterall he is the one that you are trying to satisfy. That should surprise him and maybe start his juices going. If he's unwilling to mention anything then please do not use any modern porn movies as reference. I could be wrong but I don't believe he will enjoy hearing you chocking or seeing you drooling during the blowjob. I can't speak about bonjela because I know nothing about that. Long live the Brown Coats. | |
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| 03-19-09 07:24pm - 5756 days | #6 | |
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turboshaft (0)
Active User Posts: 1,958 Registered: Apr 01, '08 |
I don't have any experience with Bonjela or Altoids, though my advice would be to just "go natural" -- no drugs or tricks. I always question the need for something in sex that can releive pain; that is, why do you need to make a part of your body numb, or simply not feel any pain, to enjoy the experience? I am not into BDSM or anything, but I would think that pain would be a way for your body to tell you not to do something because it is hurting you. Like those anal lubes that are also numbing, it sounds like a bad idea. I admire someone who is sweet enough to actually want to drive a partner crazy, but not at the expense of his or her own pleasure or comfort. Like pat362 said above, ask him what he wants, not what you think he wants, and then he could really be pleased (assuming he is not afraid to be honest with you), and you would not have to use any useless trick. "It's incredibly obvious, isn't it? A foreign substance is introduced into our precious bodily fluids without the knowledge of the individual. Certainly without any choice. That's the way your hardcore Commie works." - Gen. Jack D. Rippper, Dr. Stranglove | |
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| 03-24-09 04:19am - 5752 days | #7 | |
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HotMandy (0)
Suspended Webmaster Posts: 12 Registered: Feb 03, '09 Location: London |
Thanks so much for all your advice guys! This is all good chat - But still need to know what is it that makes GREAT head? I appreciate the advice to ask him what he likes but I would prefer to just be able to give him the best blowjob of his life out of the blue you know? I have spoken to a few guys, but nobody has been too helpful yet! I have been told there is nothing worse than a bad blow job, (and im sure i dont give any of them) but think to the best blow job you have ever had..... what made it sooo good? xxxx http://hotmandy.wordpress.com | |
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| 03-24-09 07:22pm - 5751 days | #8 | |
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pat362 (0)
Active User Posts: 3,575 Registered: Jan 23, '07 Location: canada |
Hi Mandy. You worry too much about this. Let me preach a little before I offer some technique. To begin, it's a BJ good or bad he's getting one. It's like offering someone 100$. Why bitch if it's all in 5$ bills? All right now to technique. The first thing and this is by far the most important thing. You have to want to give him a great BJ. Regardless of anything else, if you don't like doing that then it will show. The best ones involve the use of both hands as well as the mouth. go slow, do not at any point use porn bj as reference. That means no choking, spitting, drooling, deep throathing to the point of vomiting(I hope you get the point). I recommend you look at his face and see how good you are doing. You should be able to see whether you need to change certain things. If he has stupid grin on his face then you are on the right track. Long live the Brown Coats. | |
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| 04-07-09 06:57pm - 5737 days | #9 | |
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picdude (0)
Active User Posts: 107 Registered: Dec 26, '08 Location: Italy |
Lol Reminded me of a little 'incident' a few years back. I brought this stuff that was supposed to make you tingle and thus heighten the pleasure, it was mass produced by durex so thought it would be fine... she started mmmm was nice then, thats quite interesting feeling then, oh shit this fucking hurts she was laughing as I ran to the shower.... morale, be careful what you use, it might make things more memorable than you might want. Ok my tips for a good blowjob. Focus totally on the job at hand, make sure you act like theres nothing more you want than his pleasure and doing the bj makes you hot. Looking at him into his face is a must however do spend time looking at his cock. Lick all over it, down the shaft, lightly suck his balls, swirl your tongue round his head. BUT don't do this too often its like a song the guiter solo is cool but if it happens to often you end up getting fustrated not being able to hear the rest of the song, if you get my drift. Deep throat once or twice to show off and to show how much you are into it. Generally, don't suck to hard and go down half to 3/4 of the way down his shaft it should be the lips doing the work (ie you are wanking him with your lips) Make sure it is a little sloppy. Avy Scott has a great blowjob technique (i gave an old gf a dvd with her in it and my gf's technique improved a lot) Hope this helps summary: a little sloppy, act like you are really into it, let your lips do the work but throw in some licking at the beginning, look at him, don't be afraid to ask what he would like/does like - but make it sexy ("you like this? <licking his cock> or this? <sucking his cock>" ), and finally have fun and try new things. | |
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