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Loki (0)
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Night owl or morning person assumes a person sleeps somewhat regularly. I've had trouble sleeping all my life. I sleep 2-3 hours every day or two. About once a week I sleep about 5-6 hours. I've learned to adapt.
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05-30-17 01:01am
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Jay G (Disabled)
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REPLY TO #1 - Loki :
Adapting is the key to survival. I'm glad to see you don't worry about it.
I've had partners who worry about not sleeping, even when I see them sleeping soundly for hours at night and then tell me with total honesty that that had not "slept a wink" all night. They really believe it and are worried without reason, but I have learned not to even try telling them what I see because it is seen as being dismissive of their plight.
Me? If I can't sleep I get up and look at porn or talk on Chaturbate.
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05-30-17 08:10am
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pat362 (0)
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I'm actually both.
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05-30-17 06:07pm
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Loki (0)
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REPLY TO #2 - Jay G :
I've learned to deal with not sleeping normally, but it's hard on my relationships. Most women I've dated want to sleep together at night. I generally stay in bed with them until they fall asleep, get up and do stuff, then return to bed before they wake. I've been told it's "not the same as you being there with me" a lot, but it generally placates them.
I guess I don't sleep well with others. :)
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05-30-17 06:48pm
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rearadmiral (0)
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A bit of both, but less of a morning person.
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05-31-17 05:09pm
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Jay G (Disabled)
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REPLY TO #4 - Loki :
But you "play well with others." That's what counts.
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06-01-17 11:41am
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Loki (0)
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REPLY TO #6 - Jay G :
Thanks for the support!
I'm a natural pessimist but still think it is important for people to make the best of what life gives them. That includes being responsible, dependable, behaving well, and living up to one's failures openly and honestly.
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06-01-17 11:59am
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Jay G (Disabled)
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REPLY TO #7 - Loki :
I'm a natural optimist and feel lucky about that.
When I was in 3rd grade and a miserable pessimist, I remember thinking to myself, "If you're so smart why aren't you happy?" That was a revelation (61 years ago or so) that changed my life. My motto since then has been, "appreciate the good, deal with the bad." And when I say "deal with the bad" it only includes things that have ACTUALLY happened..... not what MIGHT happen.
I once wrote a short story about a guy filled by worrying about what might happen who is then finally literally hit by a bus. As he's dying he is actually relieved...... none of those many horrible things he thought MIGHT happen would happen now....
Best wishes!
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06-02-17 06:51am
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Loki (0)
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REPLY TO #8 - Jay G :
Optimism is for people who lead normal lives. People who don't have that luxury see the world very differently.
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06-02-17 02:16pm
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qvtta (0)
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Night owl. Used to be totally opposite back when I was kid.
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06-02-17 02:36pm
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Jay G (Disabled)
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REPLY TO #9 - Loki :
Yes, I admit when one is lucky and wins life's lottery by pure chance it does mold one's opinions. Best wishes that you win a few yourself.
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06-03-17 04:04am
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superjank (0)
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I'd live nocturnally if I could.
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06-10-17 06:56pm
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Homegirl (Disabled)
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Early bird. Sex before noon is the best followed by afternoon sex. Night sex is ok too.
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05-19-20 06:05am
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