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Disclaimer: I am a happily married straight man. My wife and I have been using porn to keep our sex life from becoming stale. She joins a site every few months that she knows I wouldn’t join. I have been a member of Kink before and several times at that. I hadn’t ever viewed the site, Divine Bitches. I had an unfair belief about what the site is about. It is not a site about women being cruel or terrible to men. And my belief was the women would be from the diva personality. Some of the guys in these scenes probably wish I was right!
My disclaimer is not there because I’m concerned about my masculinity. It’s there because I am mostly ignorant to this type of porn and lifestyle. I was raised mostly conservative and the idea of gender role reversal during sex would normally be denied by me.
The basis of these scenes is a dominant female tries (and succeeds) to flip the gender role during sex. I received a warm-up to this content when we joined a site called, Forced Crossdresser Fantasies. I am an enthusiast-level cartoonist in my free time. Forced CrossdresserFantasies is an artwork-only site. It was interesting enough and my wife loved the drawings.
Imagine my surprise (laugh if you will!), when I saw Divine Bitches on the Kink network. I know this niche won’t appeal to most males, but for those that it does, this is a really good site. I am even going to call it respectful which I think is extremely important in this niche. The scenes play out with the female seducing the male to let her use a dildo, strap-on, in his ass. These scenes do a really good job of keeping at least a little playfulness from the female. I believe if the females really were “bitches” or divas, I would have cried while watching the scenes!
Instead, you see consenting adults having fun and exploring the gender role reversal. The good news for the guys is they all get to get off. And the women are sexy and hot. Some of the women do seem to be more experienced and even dominant. The scenes end with the male and female talking about the scene and you see the laughter and playfulness. I guess that makes these scenes pioneering or planting the seeds in a male viewer’s mind. You get to watch the guy look like he’s having a great time even if it’s not his preferred sexual role. It opens doors and minds (butts) to exploration and how that can help a couple trust each other more.
Watching these scenes made me think about how boring mainstream porn scenes are to me and now, I have a whole new niche to start looking into. I think this is how we’re supposed to evolve as sexual human beings, but I wouldn’t bet on it.
I do like the site and my wife loves it. It at least gives me an easy clearance for joining Kink Networrk for a year on a holiday deal. It’s a super value even when not on a holiday sale. |