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Denner (0)
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Roseman got a point here. Funny poll.
Are we back in the liberated times of the hippie-area or are we just seeking amusement in our sex-life.
Had this "friend" once who was into somebody else fucking his wife (at that time) while he was watching - and jerking off.
At another time my ex-girlfriend had this even more beautyfull friend and the four of us (two couples) was getting things going. (Well, folks this was back in the early 90th)
But when I started to "mess" around with this girl, she (my ex-girlfriend) got mad - and I got a slap in the face - it could have been fun though, but my girlfriend didn't want sex with the male part of the other couple.
Needles to say that this other specific girl and I got it off later in a great way of just sex all around...it lasted a year or so - with sex only, but wow, she was probably the best "piece of ass" - no offence.
Today my marrige is too good - and I do not think my wife would appreciate that "behavior"...and I don't really need that anymore (sad, isn't it)...I get my appetite at pornsites and eat at home. And getting older....
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05-17-08 07:35am
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Jay G (Disabled)
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NO, never. When I was younger and wilder I did things like that and found that no matter what women said ahead of time it messed them up, at least in my experience. It led to unhappy experiences if you care about women's feelings.
I wouldn't take a chance at that with my spouse whom I love way too much.
Porn is wonderful for fantasies that in the real world too often have unhappy consequences.
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05-17-08 07:46am
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PinkPanther (0)
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REPLY TO #2 - Jay G :
Good point. Fantasies are fine. Reality's much tougher and the two don't combine all that well a lot of times. I had a girlfriend and we used to talk about what female friends we wanted to have sex with together. We decided that we were mutually hot for one girl in particular and so we got her over and got her clothes off and I was going to fuck her, but that felt weird, so I fucked my girlfriend instead. The girl slept with us and we went out to breakfast together, but I can't say that it brought any of us closer at all - more the opposite. We had more sexy fun together, actually, on an earlier occasion when we just had an impromptu dance party together.
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05-17-08 08:50am
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Goldfish (0)
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I selected No, I'd never do that because in general that seems odd to me. I'm not against it but I usually like to focus 100% on my partner during sex. Even in porn I'm not big on three ways or group sex -- too much going on.
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05-17-08 08:54am
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apoctom (0)
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I think that Jay G and PinkPanther have an interesting point. While it may be a common fantasy, in reality, threesomes and swinging often involve a lot of hurt emotions.
On the other hand, I would like to be able to believe my partner at face value if she said that she would be okay with it. But, I know my partner and she would never agree to it, so it's a moot point for me.
I think it is an interesting dilemma, but not one that will likely need to be addressed in my lifetime.
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05-17-08 05:39pm
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messmer (Disabled)
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To me strong emotional attachment and good sex always went hand in hand. I could never go to a prostitute for that reason. Or have a threesome even though it's a nice fantasy. I do love to look, though! :-)
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05-18-08 08:43am
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nygiants03 (0)
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No I find that to be wrong. i think being faithful is important in a relationship. Also I seriously doubt my partner would want such a thing.
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05-19-08 11:49am
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