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graymane (Suspended)
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This'll Probably come off as being an odd-ball poll, but acted on because of recollections going back to the 80s, living the good life in thriving Atlanta Georgia, where any needs I had was remedied by the simple stroke of a check.
Atlanta Women, unlike those living here in the military town I was brought up in, were more approachable.
Of those with whom I'd become sexually active, there was one who stood out, one with whom I was having heated sex, but also one who bought a special joy and showed an art of communication unmatched by any and all the others.
But she was also one to whom I'd nixed pleas for any kind of commitment.
That ultimately led her to announce that it would be an end to any further intimacy between us.
My following pleas were met with the same determined silence I'd chosen to commitment.
Hence .... the mpetus to this odd-ball poll .
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06-10-13 08:36am
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Capn (0)
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I haven't been in that situation since the late 1970's!
Cap'n. :0)
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06-10-13 10:14am
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messmer (Disabled)
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I have never had a casual sex partner. It is psychologically impossible for me. I tried a few times in my youth .. but without love or emotional bond, there can be no sex for me.
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06-10-13 10:39am
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jberryl69 (Disabled)
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I'd be beggin if she was delivering good sex.
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06-10-13 11:16am
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jberryl69 (Disabled)
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REPLY TO #1 - graymane :
say there Graymane - any regrets?
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06-10-13 11:18am
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Cybertoad (Disabled)
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REPLY TO #3 - messmer :
I side with you on this one Messmer, there was some fun times as a youth, but never was anything there in the way of lasting. Did not take long when I was younger to realize Sex is AWESOME....... but its not pleasurable in the long run for the emotional side of us that likes the connection. Having a lady able to suck a golfball through a straw makes for fun, but when the fun was over I think there was some depression in all honestly without intimacy.
I have that now and can say there is night and day in reality of what sex is and is not for me.
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06-10-13 11:48am
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graymane (Suspended)
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REPLY TO #5 - jberryl69 :
Good question, jb.
The night Joan pulled the plug was one I'd made an excuse for as to why I couldn't escort her to an important function to which we both were associated. I'd made the fatal mistake of rather choosing to go out with a babe I'd just met who was free on that night.
The affixed, burning image I've maintained of the physically super endowments bestowed on this lady I'd turned down on that fateful day, leaves me not surprised that on that same evening and at the same function, she'd meet a well-heeled gentleman who was so smitten with her that (while carrying out business in Atlanta) hardly let her out of his sight ......and who later had her airborne on the way to his home in California.
This news was delivered on the next day when I called her.
All my smooth talk and released anguish, in an effort to revive our relationship never came out ....'cause as painful as it were, even at the expense of going the marriage route, it was clear this guy had all the aces, as well as her heart, and would give her a better life.
Being the bright gal that she is......she innately read all this in my voice. Her reply: "Gee, hon, if you'd only showed me you cared enough."
That brings up my own thought on the matter: "if only I had gone with her as she'd asked?
Does that answer your question, partner?
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06-11-13 12:06am
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jberryl69 (Disabled)
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REPLY TO #7 - graymane :
Why yes it does, thank you very much. I've had a similar (only in I didn't get the girl) experience and while I regret the "at the moment" decision, it still perplexes me as to what would have happened had I made another choice. At least in porn, you know what's going to happen - there are no surprises.
I've oft thought that in one of these, "guy fucks the babysitter" setups wouldn't it be a nice and surprising change to have the wife walk in.
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06-11-13 07:51am
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graymane (Suspended)
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REPLY TO #8 - jberryl69 :
Hey big guy....... I trust don't take my parting comment the way it might look.
Your humorous response ("Why yes it does, thank you very much")
got me thinkin' how a less perceptive guy might've taken it.
I knew, however, you'd take it in the spirit that it was intended .
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06-12-13 05:44am
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jberryl69 (Disabled)
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REPLY TO #9 - graymane :
:wink, wink: :nudge nudge: Ain't life grand?!
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06-12-13 07:02am
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YankeeBastard (0)
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Bye-bye.
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03-25-14 10:47pm
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Homegirl (Disabled)
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No problem with casual sex partners. There are plenty more where she came from.
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05-29-20 12:49pm
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