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| 04-28-12 10:52am - 4583 days | Original Post - #1 | |
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Luther (0)
Active User Posts: 7 Registered: Apr 28, '12 Location: Missouri |
How to present something new to the wife. My wife and I have been progressing from lovemaking to fucking, which is great. She likes it when I slap her ass while we do it doggystyle and hold onto her hair, but now I want to pull out and cum in her mouth. I just do not know how she would react. I do not want to talk about it first I just wanna do it. Should I present it in an adult video first? WE havent watched (together) any hardcore porn before..just playboy. I want to elevate the sex but am just maybe thinking too much. We do the 69 and the typical oral sex stuff, however I have only been able to cum in her mouth like 3 times in the last ten years. I know I wanna cum in her mouth and know the only way I can is to fuck first then pull out and cram it in her mouth. Any thoughts? | |
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| 04-28-12 03:45pm - 4583 days | #2 | |
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jberryl69 (0)
Disabled User  Posts: 1,000 Registered: Nov 27, '10 Location: neverland |
Eat Pineapple prior to having sex. Stay away from garlic and savory foods. If it ain't grits, it must be a Yankee. If you're going to lay her head over the pool table and fuck her throat, get your fucking hand off her throat! | |
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| 04-28-12 04:26pm - 4583 days | #3 | |
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graymane (0)
Suspended  Posts: 1,411 Registered: Feb 20, '10 Location: Virginia |
I'm editing my initial post, because I kinda lost it when I'm seeing what you were asking us to agree to here; some heady stuff, presumably with a loving wife of over a decade of faithful marraige who's placating her husband's wishes to do these things he's proposing. My initial reaction could be construed as a tad acrimonious -- so in an attempt to withdraw from anything capable of it being taken out of context, allow me to start all over. So Let me get this straight: You've now "progressed from lovemaking with your venerable wife of ten years "to fucking." I can only decipher from that is you're shooting for "rough sex." If that's true, I can only ask why! You say she likes getting slapped and having her hair in your grip? OK, I guess if it ain't broke, why fix it. The mare thought, however, of your wanting to "cum in her mouth" is patently appauling. Judging from your words, She doesn't appear to be in favor of that kind of stuff, anyway. Of course, the fraternity of husband and wife certainly opens the door to just ask her. But, the fact you've already cum in her mouth three or more times leaves me to wonder if there could be some force at play here. "Cram it in her mouth?" You've got to be one of the luckest men on earth if (only out of love) she submits to that..... as well as giving you the green light to some of the other porn-related inquiries. Leave it to the porn-peddlers, my friend. They're gettin' big, big bucks for what you're advocating. And I really don't think they themselves practice on their wives what they're dishing out to subscribers. But that's just my opinion. Some of my PU colleagues may well be otherwise cemented in your corner on this one.  Edited on Apr 29, 2012, 03:11pm | |
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| 04-28-12 04:37pm - 4583 days | #4 | |
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Cybertoad (0)
Disabled User  Posts: 2,158 Registered: Jan 01, '08 Location: Wash |
There is so many ways to go with a question like this. Bottom line it will be how much she trust you and you her in the bedroom of whether it is worth a try. There is the gag factor to which she may not like or might like the domination. Maybe try the opposite as a lead in. ?  Since 2007 | |
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| 04-29-12 02:09am - 4582 days | #5 | |
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slutty (0)
Active User Posts: 475 Registered: Mar 02, '09 Location: Pennsylvania |
Perhaps I am too much of a feminist, but I'm guessing pulling it out and "cramming" it in her mouth will not be met with much approval. I don't know why you wouldn't want to talk to her about it first, in fact if you just did it as you propose, I think that is borderline assault. If you can't get off from oral alone, jerk yourself while she is going down on you, or have her do it. Either way, it is always better that your partner knows what they are getting into... If you wanted anal, would you just jam it up her ass, or ask first? I would hope ask. Maybe I am just misunderstanding your tone. Bunny Lebowski: I'll suck your cock for a thousand dollars. Brandt: Ah hahahahaha! Wonderful woman. We're all, we're all very fond of her. Very free-spirited. | |
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| 04-30-12 09:31am - 4581 days | #6 | |
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t9chome (0)
Active User Posts: 78 Registered: Oct 30, '10 Location: usa |
Agree with slutty.  If she doesn't object to a mouthful while blowing you, and that's not good enough for you, then some domination forces might be at play. If she doesn't want a mouthful, then get used to it and cum where she wants it. Lovemaking should be about pleasing each other, not ourselves. | |
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| 04-30-12 10:00am - 4581 days | #7 | |
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pat362 (0)
Active User  Posts: 3,575 Registered: Jan 23, '07 Location: canada |
This is the kind of post that makes me scratch my head and wonder if someone is just screwing with us. This may not be the case but I'm cautious when the first thread from a brand new member who we know nothing about except that he is 32, from Missouri and has been married for a decade is on to present to his loving wife that he would like to jam his penis in her mouth to cum in it. I will pass on commeting beyond this because I feel this is just BS. Long live the Brown Coats. | |
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| 04-30-12 01:03pm - 4581 days | #8 | |
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steffj (0)
Active User  Posts: 6 Registered: Apr 29, '12 Location: USA |
Why not pull out and shoot on her boobs? If she does not mind, then talk about other options. Do not surprise her unless you want your dick bit off. SteffJ. | |
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| 04-30-12 01:16pm - 4581 days | #9 | |
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Toadsith (0)
Active User  Posts: 936 Registered: Dec 07, '07 Location: USA |
Wise words. "I'm not a number, I'm a free man!" Second Grand Order Poobah in the Loyal Order of the Water Buffalo | |
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| 06-30-12 09:40am - 4520 days | #10 | |
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Luther (0)
Active User Posts: 7 Registered: Apr 28, '12 Location: Missouri |
I have done this act you speak of....I may have come off a little odd in my initial post. | |
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| 06-30-12 09:42am - 4520 days | #11 | |
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Luther (0)
Active User Posts: 7 Registered: Apr 28, '12 Location: Missouri |
No man it is not bs just thought I would pass on my issue to a group that would have a professional opinion. | |
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| 06-30-12 09:45am - 4520 days | #12 | |
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Luther (0)
Active User Posts: 7 Registered: Apr 28, '12 Location: Missouri |
My wife is loving...I do not see why that means I shouldn't do what I want with her in bed. Should I find someone else? My friends and I talk about sex and how difficult it is to have rough sex with the mother of our children. When I say rough I do not mean anything gross or animalistic. | |
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| 06-30-12 09:47am - 4520 days | #13 | |
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Luther (0)
Active User Posts: 7 Registered: Apr 28, '12 Location: Missouri |
She is in favor of swallowing my cum while performing oraling however with her I have found difficulties reaching that point orally. So the only way I can think is to pull out just before I cum while fucking and do it. Is that crazy? | |
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| 06-30-12 09:52pm - 4519 days | #14 | |
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slutty (0)
Active User Posts: 475 Registered: Mar 02, '09 Location: Pennsylvania |
As long as she doesn't have a problem with it, and you tell her beforehand I think it is fine, from your original post it sounded like you intended to 'surprise' her with it, which would not be right. Your original tone sounded somewhat misogynistic to me. If you can get off from jerking off, than one would think you should be able to get off from and oral/hand combo. I agree with pat, these posts seem more and more bullshit to me, but perhaps folks in Missouri just use different terms for a blow job than I do, 'oraling'? Perhaps your question is better asked to a sex advice columnist like Savage Love or something, although I'd work out the wording a little better before asking them. Bunny Lebowski: I'll suck your cock for a thousand dollars. Brandt: Ah hahahahaha! Wonderful woman. We're all, we're all very fond of her. Very free-spirited. | |
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| 07-01-12 08:34am - 4519 days | #15 | |
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Drooler (0)
Disabled User  Posts: 1,831 Registered: Mar 11, '07 Location: USA |
You say you have cum in your wife's mouth 3 times. Just say, "Remember that last time I came in your mouth? Sorry about that. I don't think you liked that." Then if she says something to the effect that it didn't bother her, give her the big surprise next time! Otherwise, you're SOL, pal. I wanted something new, so I left England for New England. | |
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| 07-05-12 12:41pm - 4515 days | #16 | |
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HeatherMcXxx (0)
Suspended  Posts: 73 Registered: Jul 30, '07 Location: Providence, RI |
Wow -- I'd be careful with this one. If she's open to more primal sex, then build up to it and gauge her reaction. Start with some dirty talk, then, if she's open to that, be a little more adventurous until you have the courage to tell her what you want. Maybe you can save it for a special occasion -- your birthday, for example; tell her how sexy she is and how much it would mean to you to do this. Keep this in mind: if you try it, and she's not into at all, it won't be worth it. It won't be a positive memory, and it won't be an image that excites you in the future (i.e., your wife recoiling in horror). I thus strongly encourage you not to simply do it. Sex is a shared experience, and while some women enjoy being used like props, that doesn't appear to be the case with your wife, and the ramifications for you may be entirely negative. That doesn't mean you can't have a fulfilling sex life. In fact, I think guys give up too soon if they sense hesitancy. But really, sometimes the idea has to sink in before we respond to it. You married her: do everything you can to make it work. The idea that you're so casually saying, "Should I find somebody else?" is troubling, to say the least -- and pretty immature. (Sorry to be so harsh.) Heather "Whoever has the vagina is in charge." - Megan Fox | |
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| 07-05-12 06:47pm - 4515 days | #17 | |
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pat362 (0)
Active User Posts: 3,575 Registered: Jan 23, '07 Location: canada |
^I think you advice is excellent and someone else can use it but I wouldn't bother offering it to luther. I get the strong vibe that he is more into trolling than actually participating in the forum. My spider senses went in overdrive with his first post and I haven't read anything to make me chnage my mind. Long live the Brown Coats. | |
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| 08-06-12 07:19pm - 4482 days | #18 | |
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marcdc1 (0)
Active User  Posts: 139 Registered: Jan 10, '07 Location: New York |
 Drooler. Please forgive my laughter but this post had terrific comedic timing. If you don't agree image your favorite comedian reading it. (for me George Carlin, but Sam Kinison works too) thank you Drooler well said. | |
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| 08-12-12 08:54pm - 4476 days | #20 | |
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Luther (0)
Active User Posts: 7 Registered: Apr 28, '12 Location: Missouri |
I feel as though I made a mistake coming here for advice on sex, however I have gained an insight into why I am feeling the need to do what I wanna do. We have a fullfilling sex life, she says that when I please her orally I am just showing off because she cannot please me orally. I am just trying to cum while she performs orally. I know it sounds ridiculous but we all are adults who I assume have fruitfull sexlives, so any educated opinions would be appreciated. | |
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| 08-12-12 10:29pm - 4476 days | #21 | |
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slutty (0)
Active User Posts: 475 Registered: Mar 02, '09 Location: Pennsylvania |
You may have Luther, this isn't a sex advice forum after all. I think the tone of your questions and responses has been somewhat off-putting to us, any effort to spring a surprise of this nature on a loved one would be quite disrespectful to that loved one. With her permission you are welcome to do whatever the two of you please. If your only problem is getting off when she is going down on you my original advice still stands - use your hand, have her use her hand, have her use more tongue, too much suction/too little, tell her what you like and she will appreciate it. There are shitloads of sites, books, whatever on oral sex technique, buy and read some - see what you might like and pass it along. Cosmo has all kinds of this stuff, just google it. Bunny Lebowski: I'll suck your cock for a thousand dollars. Brandt: Ah hahahahaha! Wonderful woman. We're all, we're all very fond of her. Very free-spirited. | |
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| 08-13-12 08:01am - 4476 days | #22 | |
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BadMrFrosty (0)
Active User Posts: 124 Registered: Mar 05, '10 Location: Prague (Czech Republic) |
Easy, during a casual conversation you ask her if there is anything you don't do in bed that she would like to try. After listening thoughtfully to her response you then tell her what you would like to try. Then you start to barter. Bish bosh, job done. The problem with the world is stupidity. Not saying there should be capital punishment for stupidity, but why don't we just take the safety labels off of everything and let the problem solve itself? Frank Zappa | |
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| 08-13-12 04:25pm - 4476 days | #23 | |
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pat362 (0)
Active User Posts: 3,575 Registered: Jan 23, '07 Location: canada |
Maybe something got lossed in the transaltion but are you trying to tell us that your wife giving you a BJ will not make you come? Long live the Brown Coats. | |
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| 08-14-12 04:31am - 4475 days | #24 | |
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HeatherMcXxx (0)
Suspended Posts: 73 Registered: Jul 30, '07 Location: Providence, RI |
Haha ... so smooth. Note, however, that when a guys says, "Is there anything we don't do in bed that you'd like to try, dear?" (a) 99 percent of us will say "no" (listen thoughtfully to that) and (b) we're probably all thinking, "Uh oh, what does he want me to do now?" Nice try, though. "Whoever has the vagina is in charge." - Megan Fox | |
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| 08-14-12 06:46am - 4475 days | #25 | |
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BadMrFrosty (0)
Active User Posts: 124 Registered: Mar 05, '10 Location: Prague (Czech Republic) |
The response in that situation is: "Well, as we are on the subject I would like to try...." Or maybe I am just lucky enough to have found myself one of the 1%  The problem with the world is stupidity. Not saying there should be capital punishment for stupidity, but why don't we just take the safety labels off of everything and let the problem solve itself?Frank Zappa | |
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| 08-14-12 02:38pm - 4475 days | #26 | |
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HeatherMcXxx (0)
Suspended Posts: 73 Registered: Jul 30, '07 Location: Providence, RI |
Yup.  Congrats on that! "Whoever has the vagina is in charge." - Megan Fox | |
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| 08-14-12 06:10pm - 4475 days | #27 | |
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messmer (0)
Disabled User  Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Boy, if I had ever come out with a question like: "Is there anything you would like to try that we haven't done before" I would have found myself in the presence of a silent, turned off block of ice. Things were always spontaneous, unplanned, done in the heat of the moment, so to speak, and a question similar to the one above would have been a sure fire mood killer. But that was us. Regrettably all too long ago.  | |
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| 08-16-12 12:29am - 4473 days | #28 | |
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graymane (0)
Suspended Posts: 1,411 Registered: Feb 20, '10 Location: Virginia |
This mole-hill has now grown into a mountain. Initially, I have to say, I was having the same vibes as Pat about this guy's loaded pitch and awkward inquiries ... However, buying this story and Giving luther the benefit of the doubt, I believe the fellow ultimately is gonna do what he wants to do dispite what goes down from those here who's really poured out for this guy. And assuming that is true, I think the short answer to luther's plight is to find a local professional, wherein emotions aren't involved, and clandestinely carry out all those little off-beat lusts that's buggin' him so.... ON SAOMEBODY ELSE! | |
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| 08-23-12 07:54pm - 4465 days | #29 | |
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Luther (0)
Active User Posts: 7 Registered: Apr 28, '12 Location: Missouri |
That is exactly what I am saying. | |
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