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| 04-30-09 11:49am - 5715 days | Original Post - #1 | |
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littlejoe (0)
Active User Posts: 49 Registered: Jan 25, '07 Location: earth |
busted by SO...gift card for secrecy? so my SO doesnt approve of the occasional adult website, so ive been good. long enough! at the gas station today i saw prepaid visa debt cards. can these be used at adult websites? id still have to put my name and address in the form, but at least thered be no credit card statement | |
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| 04-30-09 11:57am - 5715 days | #2 | |
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Wittyguy (0)
Active User  Posts: 1,138 Registered: Feb 04, '08 Location: Left Coast, USA |
x Edited on Apr 20, 2023, 01:10pm | |
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| 04-30-09 12:03pm - 5715 days | #3 | |
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littlejoe (0)
Active User Posts: 49 Registered: Jan 25, '07 Location: earth |
ive thought of that, but ive never had any kind of mail sent to my home so im not too concerned also, i believe u have to register them online b4 u can use them. can u confirm this? | |
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| 04-30-09 12:13pm - 5715 days | #4 | |
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Drooler (0)
Disabled User  Posts: 1,831 Registered: Mar 11, '07 Location: USA |
Somehow I'm reminded of a joke about 2 guys that saw one of the gas stations just outside of town was having a contest. The sign said: "Fill up to enter our contest & win free sex!" They filled up their tank and went inside to pay. "How do we enter?" asked the first man. "Well, I'm thinking of a number between one and 10," said the attendant. "If you guess right, you win free sex." "OK, I guess seven, " said the first man. "Sorry, I was thinking of eight," replied the attendant. "Come back soon and try again." The next week, the two men returned to the same station to get gas. When they went inside to pay, the second man asked the attendant if the contest was still going on. "Sure," replied the attendant. "I'm thinking of a number between one and 10. If you guess right, you win free sex." "Two" said the second man "Sorry, I was thinking of three," replied the attendant. "Come back soon and try again." As they walked back to the car, the first man said to the second man "I'm beginning to think this contest is rigged." "No, I don't think it is," said the second man. "What makes you so sure?" "Well, my wife won three times last week." I wanted something new, so I left England for New England. | |
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| 04-30-09 12:45pm - 5715 days | #5 | |
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GCode (0)
Active User  Posts: 386 Registered: Feb 23, '09 Location: USA |
I can tell you that epoch and ccbill does accept prepaid VISA DEBIT cards. I have paid for 3 adult sites using these prepaid from rebates I got from other purchases. These were all purchases within the past month or two, with even one recently as 4 days ago. If it is a card that is prepaid, but shown as a credit card, you should have no problems with these two types with these two billing companies. As far as your question about the address stuff, there are sites that you usually need to activate the card at which has an area where you fill out your information such as address, name, and so on. I've only gotten visa debit cards from rebates and so on, so they were pre-registered with my information and I'm not sure if you fill out this info when you buy the credit/debit card when you purchase it. As far as the online sites for these cards, they also let you view your balance, activity, and so on. I'll be glad to answer any type of other questions about them as well if you have them. Sexted From My iPad Edited on Apr 30, 2009, 12:49pm | |
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| 04-30-09 01:05pm - 5715 days | #6 | |
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littlejoe (0)
Active User Posts: 49 Registered: Jan 25, '07 Location: earth |
thx all, ill try it this weekend. the worst that could happen is itd not work and id just use it to buy groceries if it works with ccbill ill be really happy! | |
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| 04-30-09 04:08pm - 5715 days | #7 | |
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messmer (0)
Disabled User  Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Words of wisdom, Wittyguy! My wife knows that I am an incurable ogler but I am never tempted to go farther than that. I told her a loooooooong time ago: "Honey, you can't stop a man from looking." And she's all right with that. Resigned to that? :-) Even though she has no taste for porn, she understands the human male and makes allowances for it. I, in turn, steer away from borderline "unfaithfulness" like personal emails to favorite models or having erotic chats via cam. That would make for a good subject, wouldn't it? When exactly are you crossing that fine line? | |
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| 05-01-09 12:18am - 5714 days | #8 | |
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turboshaft (0)
Active User Posts: 1,958 Registered: Apr 01, '08 |
If your significant other has a problem with your love of porn, then I don't think a prepaid Visa could solve the problem. You could still wind up being "caught" (sorry for the quotes, but I can think of at least a couple of things worse than looking at porn) and there would just be more disapproval, or maybe even something worse. If she can't move on when it comes to what is a pretty innocent habit, then maybe it is time for you to move on instead. Wittyguy even called it "sneaking around" earlier, as if you are committing some sort of a crime or actually cheating on her. If you are still intent on fulfilling your wishes with prepaid plastic, I think the Visa gift cards just use your address but don't actually send a statement or receipt; you just check the balance online or over the phone (discreetly, of course) and keep the card hidden. "It's incredibly obvious, isn't it? A foreign substance is introduced into our precious bodily fluids without the knowledge of the individual. Certainly without any choice. That's the way your hardcore Commie works." - Gen. Jack D. Rippper, Dr. Stranglove | |
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| 05-01-09 12:19pm - 5714 days | #9 | |
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Wittyguy (0)
Active User Posts: 1,138 Registered: Feb 04, '08 Location: Left Coast, USA |
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| 05-01-09 03:39pm - 5714 days | #10 | |
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Goldfish (0)
Active User  Posts: 265 Registered: Jan 19, '08 Location: Boston, MA |
Assuming there is no moral component I'd tend to agree. I'm sure most men don't like shopping but it doesn't bother them when their wives/girlfriend go shopping to the point of considering it a "dastardly vice". (With some exceptions!) I don't consider the inadequacy vice legitimate. If the SO doesn't enjoy the porn you can always keep it to the PC monitor in the bedroom and not keep DVDs laying around when not in use. If it STILL bother's her I'd say it's more her problem than the guy's problem. Women usually win out in the argument to rid porn from the house because even if the inadequacy argument doesn't fly they can throw the sex addiction and moral arguments at you. | |
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| 05-01-09 03:48pm - 5714 days | #11 | |
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littlejoe (0)
Active User Posts: 49 Registered: Jan 25, '07 Location: earth |
the problem is with the money aspect, not of any "morals" | |
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| 05-01-09 06:42pm - 5714 days | #12 | |
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messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Sorry, littlejoe, sometimes we get carried away and stray afar from the original question. :-) I am using a prepaid Mastercard that I fill with a certain amount of money from my checking account on a monthly basis and pay all my porn bills with that one. No statement ever comes to the house and your SO would only get suspicious if she looked over the monthly statement you get from your Bank very carefully and saw that there was a payment from your account to a pre-paid card. As to pre-paid debt cards purchased at a store, I am afraid I don't know the procedure with those. | |
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| 05-11-09 02:11am - 5704 days | #13 | |
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lk2fireone (0)
Active User  Posts: 3,618 Registered: Nov 14, '08 Location: CA |
I remember reading about a few divorce cases where male actors were accused of viewing porn on their computers. The inference is that they are morally degenerate, and possibly unfit to have custody of any children in the marriage. You expect lawyers to use any arguments available in a divorce, especially in high-profile, big-money cases where actors are involved. But I would assume that the same arguments could be used in any divorce case. So being open about any porn that might be on your computer with your SO could come back to bite you in the ass if there's a breakup down the road. That would be a weapon that could be used against you. Edited by Staff on May 11, 2009, 04:43am (Khan: fixed quote) | |
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| 05-28-09 07:31am - 5687 days | #14 | |
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littlejoe (0)
Active User Posts: 49 Registered: Jan 25, '07 Location: earth |
nvm... Edited on May 28, 2009, 10:08am | |
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| 05-29-09 04:50am - 5686 days | #15 | |
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asmith12 (0)
Active User Posts: 79 Registered: Oct 17, '07 |
Ironically, anti-porn websites provide some defense against such accusations. Anti-porn site here: http://www.provenmen.org/ says on it's very home page: "Nearly one-half of all men struggle with pornography and lust. Many spend hours a day chasing after these things. " . But well, if it's "nearly one-half of all men", doesn't it mean that it's normal for men (another argument would be that 50% of all the men are deviants, but I hope it won't fly)? On the other hand, in a divorce case, there is no such thing as somebody being right, in divorce case there are just 3 things: bad lawyers, good lawyers and prenuptial agreements. (BTW, when somebody "high-profile" doesn't write prenuptial agreement, later he gets exactly what he asked for). Bottom line: I still prefer my SO to know about my habits; it's still better than trying to hide it (won't work in the long run anyway); and BTW argument that she knew about it from the very beginning AND didn't object, can probably be used in divorce case too (obviously depends on your lawyer being a good one :-)). Motto: "All niches except for boring one!" | |
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| 05-29-09 01:38pm - 5686 days | #16 | |
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turboshaft (0)
Active User Posts: 1,958 Registered: Apr 01, '08 |
Ahh, the religious war on porn -- we, and our morals, are right, you are wrong, but join us and you will be "cured!" Couldn't the "Many spend hours a day chasing after these things" argument be applied to religion as well? It could also be argued that religious fanaticism is, and always has been, causing a lot more suffering in the world than the "struggle with pornography." And if it's 50% of all men who are in need of this so-called cure, then we have quite a problem on our hands, don't we? 50% of men might be deviants, but I like to think that 100% of human beings are, it's just that most of us will not admit it. "It's incredibly obvious, isn't it? A foreign substance is introduced into our precious bodily fluids without the knowledge of the individual. Certainly without any choice. That's the way your hardcore Commie works." - Gen. Jack D. Rippper, Dr. Stranglove | |
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| 05-30-09 01:54am - 5685 days | #17 | |
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asmith12 (0)
Active User Posts: 79 Registered: Oct 17, '07 |
Right, but I prefer to look at it from a bit different angle. What about establishing (or to be exact, reviving millenia-old, see for example cult of Dionysus, see http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dionysus) cult of genitalia? With it officially recognized as a religion, people would have much less trouble viewing porn. Unfortunately, these days trying to pray to those gods openly requires about as much courage as it was required to pray Christ in Roman Empire; ironic, isn't it? Motto: "All niches except for boring one!" | |
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| 06-02-09 12:40am - 5682 days | #18 | |
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PinkPanther (0)
Active User  Posts: 1,136 Registered: Jan 08, '07 Location: Oakland, CA |
In the Bay Area, people are pretty out there about their sexuality if they are so inclined, but that's certainly unique. The Bay Area's pretty much made for weirdos, which is why I like it as much as I do. | |
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| 06-02-09 07:44am - 5682 days | #19 | |
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Cybertoad (0)
Disabled User  Posts: 2,158 Registered: Jan 01, '08 Location: Wash |
The Bay Area wasnt wierd enough for me, so I moved :-P Since 2007 | |
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| 06-07-09 10:19pm - 5676 days | #20 | |
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Cybertoad (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,158 Registered: Jan 01, '08 Location: Wash |
PS been using a card for a month not bad. Since 2007 | |
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