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| 05-21-13 02:31pm - 4233 days | Original Post - #1 | |
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messmer (0)
Disabled User  Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
I know I will lose all respect .... ... but I am turning into a sissy and need a testosterone shot in a hurry! Proof? 1) I get teary eyed with gratitude and love every time I look at my beautiful wife or contemplate my loving family. 2) I am starting to like chick flicks! Forget about Bruce and Arnold and Vin ... give me Tom and Meg and "Sleepless in Seattle" any time. 3) I download Romance books from Kindle. No, not the Harlequin type .. they've got to have some action to them .. but still? Romance? 4) I long for sexy videos with a bit more tenderness in them, rather than the mindless rutting one normally gets. More foreplay, more afterglow. Actually, forget about the testosterone shot .. I sorta like the way I feel in my dotage. Just wanting to share some of the benefits that come with old age to many of us. Of course some of you youngsters will see the above as something negative, that's why the title of this post ... but for me it's nice not to have to be macho any more.  | |
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| 05-21-13 02:40pm - 4233 days | #2 | |
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Advent (0)
Active Webmaster  Posts: 103 Registered: Aug 13, '09 Location: Tampa, FL |
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| 05-21-13 02:59pm - 4233 days | #3 | |
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Capn (0)
Active User  Posts: 1,740 Registered: Sep 05, '09 Location: Near the Beer! |
You never had to be macho, my friend. There are more than enough Alphas in the world.  Cap'n.  PS: Losing respect?  Quite the reverse! Admiral of the PU Hindenburg. 2009 PU AwardHilarious Post of the Year 2010 PU Award ( I would have preferred it to be Helpful Post of the Year for Guys who Hate 'Retail Therapy' ) :0/ Sanity is in the eye of the Beholder! | |
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| 05-21-13 03:55pm - 4233 days | #4 | |
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messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Thanks for the thumbs up, Advent!  | |
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| 05-21-13 03:57pm - 4233 days | #5 | |
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messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Your comment means a lot to me, Cap'n! Thanks.  | |
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| 05-21-13 11:22pm - 4232 days | #6 | |
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graymane (0)
Suspended  Posts: 1,411 Registered: Feb 20, '10 Location: Virginia |
Golly, mess, I think you lost me on this one. Except the reference to your adoring and devoted partner, to whom you always unfailingly spotlight so affectionly in terms of the kind of endearment that truely sparkles. | |
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| 05-22-13 09:11am - 4232 days | #7 | |
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Cybertoad (0)
Disabled User  Posts: 2,158 Registered: Jan 01, '08 Location: Wash |
Messmer, I think you said what many probably think more often then they care to admit. I think in my opinion you are more comfortable with your manlyness then the rest of us. I hit the 1/2 century mark last year, and my T has been affected to a point think it started a few years ago when I stopped drinking in 2005. My S/O has said she noticed the Romantic part in me coming back out where it was lost since the early 80's . I admire you Messmer, for being open to be what life brings. You may have helped inspire me even more too. Since 2007 | |
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| 05-22-13 10:10am - 4232 days | #8 | |
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messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
 Well, old friend, I think I probably lost quite a few on that one which is what I expected. I just find that old age is making me more sentimental, romantic and mellow, with no more desire to prove anything to myself and others ... and I like it. The only thing I don't like about my current state is the fact that my Libido takes a hike entirely too often and is slow to return home after it does!  Edited on May 22, 2013, 10:29am | |
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| 05-22-13 10:27am - 4232 days | #9 | |
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messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Thanks for that kind reply, CT. I think I am more comfortable with my manliness because my wife has always loved and accepted me just as I was, warts and all. That made it very easy to be myself, no matter what stage of life I was in. And I am sure your wife (or S/O) is very happy about your romantic part making a re-appearance! Mature women like that, while most young girls, on the other hand, swoon at the sight of an Alpha male, especially with well developed abs ... or so I am starting to find out through my Kindle books ... no, once again NOT Harlequin Romances. Just romance with lots of loving sex ... with the usual complications!  | |
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| 05-22-13 12:28pm - 4232 days | #10 | |
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Cybertoad (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,158 Registered: Jan 01, '08 Location: Wash |
Try 50 Shades of Grey, pretty provocative book . Since 2007 | |
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| 05-22-13 12:52pm - 4232 days | #11 | |
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messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
LOL. Got it lined up in my library already, CT! It will be interesting to see eventually how well I like it. One of my daughters, not knowing my liking of Romance/Sex stories, heard all the hype about this book, bought it and was thoroughly disgusted. Didn't like the writing, didn't like the BDSM theme .. thumbs down all around. So, we'll see! In any case, it's been waiting in my library for some time because I actually like Sci-Fi stories best and have been gorging on those. You know, some of those self-publishing authors are not bad at all. Romance or Sci-Fi. And the price is right. | |
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| 05-22-13 02:19pm - 4232 days | #12 | |
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biker (0)
Active User  Posts: 632 Registered: May 03, '08 Location: milwaukee, wi |
I've been an emotional person, all my life. My favorite film is "A Tree Grows in Brooklyn". I cry every time the mother is giving birth and she tries to explain herself to her daughter between the pains of contractions. Warning Will Robinson | |
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| 05-22-13 09:46pm - 4232 days | #13 | |
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graymane (0)
Suspended Posts: 1,411 Registered: Feb 20, '10 Location: Virginia |
More specifically, I meant "losing me," in my latter post, to mean that -- as a fellow geezer whose interest in porn, associated with your being on my heels in age -- simply says I can't fully identify with these rather dramatic visitations you're describing in your thread. My take on what I'm discerning here?: quoting a hackneyed expression: "whatever floats your boat" my friend. But I hasten to add: I see nothing but positive elements shining through the full contents of what you've conveyed here . Summed up in your usual eloquent manner. Me? book-reading languishes in waiting of things I need and ought to do ... but don't. Alas, still relentlessly peddling on the treadmill of porn. Unlike your more proper course of action, mess, gotta say porn's gotten itself paramount to the extent I'm thinkin' of little else .... good or bad. This thread serves as a good lesson .....you've given those of us who're aged, now abiding perpetual wear-an-tear, and, who might be facing similar fates, something of value to think about. | |
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| 05-23-13 11:58am - 4231 days | #14 | |
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messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
^ You could do worse than constantly thinking of Porn, graymane, it keeps you young. To me it was almost like death when my libido packed it in first time around because Porn was the only hobby I had. Books had been taking a backseat for years but I was pretty well forced back into reading for lack of having something better to do. TV sucks and I am pretty well house bound so what else was there? I am pleased to say that my mojo does return now and then, and during those days I subscribe to a site and enjoy it, but in its absence I have rediscovered my love of reading and it is no longer a little death for me if it (libido) doesn't rear its alluring head (no pun intended) during a few weeks a month. You also wrote: "More specifically, I meant "losing me," in my latter post, to mean that -- as a fellow geezer whose interest in porn, associated with your being on my heels in age -- simply says I can't fully identify with these rather dramatic visitations you're describing in your thread." I did get what you meant, GB, and agreed with you. I don't know of too many geezers (or younger males) who would prefer a romantic novel or movie to an action movie. This is something recent for me ... maybe the emotions expressed in these books bring back fond memories and make me feel younger for a few hours. | |
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| 05-23-13 09:03pm - 4231 days | #15 | |
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pat362 (0)
Active User  Posts: 3,575 Registered: Jan 23, '07 Location: canada |
This is one of those novel that was written for women and I don't think most men can enjoy it. Not that they shouldn't enjoy it but more that the way it's written is truly meant for one gender. I know many women at the office have read all three novels and they seemed to enjoy them but their description of what happens makes me think that I wouldn't and I was a huge reader of romance novels. My favorite author is/was Johanna Lindsey but I used to get a kick at reading Harlequin romance novels when I was younger. Mind you I was already an old fart by the time I reached my 20's. Long live the Brown Coats. | |
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| 05-24-13 03:20am - 4230 days | #16 | |
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graymane (0)
Suspended Posts: 1,411 Registered: Feb 20, '10 Location: Virginia |
Upon reviewing the hodgepodge of ramble I've so far thrown at you, partner -- precipitated by my feeble attempt to get a handle on your description of this phase you're going through with your libido, and how you choose to deal with it -- I figure warrants a little further input. While you have my heartfelt admiration for the uplifting approach you took finding a practicable; workable: a viable alternative for your fickle, wanderlust libido .... romance novels and the like stepping in to pinch-hit completely threw me.... hence launching this verbose volley of attempts to better make my point. Being the odd-ball that I am, I perceived that romance books isn't the direction most would take under circumstances related to yours. But that prompted a conception that would later garner some thought, concluding all your choices begins to make perfect sense. I'm leavin' you with the news that I'm shopping, just for you, to acquire the following: young and mature beauties adorned in the finest of Intimate Apparel, so stunning that you'll need sunglasses to protect your Dilated Pupils. Exquisite Babes, sporting the loveliest of satin or silk underlings; mouth-watering Sexy Lingerie, and silk panties emblazoned with your name across a loosely fitted crouch, surrounded by wraparound garter and belt clipped to stocking covering legs to die for. All at your command, and in ready mode to follow your every desire on how she parts with each item; A guarantee of satisfaction, documented on your options, extending beyond the limits of conventional striptease. All and perhaps more are gearing up to put on a show that'll have your mojo burning rubber to get back home. | |
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| 05-24-13 07:20am - 4230 days | #17 | |
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Cybertoad (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,158 Registered: Jan 01, '08 Location: Wash |
Wife read it and for two weeks while she read, it was a every night affair. There was an article suggesting the release of the book increased pregnancies. Since 2007 | |
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| 05-24-13 09:55am - 4230 days | #18 | |
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messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
A series of four books I am just finishing up was written for women as well, Pat. The constant references to hard abs and six packs and ribbed torsos seem to be a good indicator of this! Yet, they grabbed my attention and emotions more than anything I have read recently. Oh God, maybe I am turning bi (not that there is anything wrong with it) on top of getting old???? So, I am curious to find out how I will like "Fifty Shades Of Grey." Maybe I'll read it next. Edited on May 24, 2013, 10:04am | |
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| 05-24-13 10:02am - 4230 days | #19 | |
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messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
You are trying your darnest to undermine my newly found feminine side, aren't you? And I will be very happy to go along with you on that one, so please start shopping and give me the site url as soon as you come across it. | |
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| 05-24-13 06:03pm - 4230 days | #20 | |
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pat362 (0)
Active User Posts: 3,575 Registered: Jan 23, '07 Location: canada |
Do you know if there was an increase in sex toys for women after the books became so popular? I didn't see anything about this and I'm rather curious. Mind you unless I'm way off then the sex in those books is very kinky to the more intense bsdm kind. Long live the Brown Coats. | |
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| 05-24-13 06:19pm - 4230 days | #21 | |
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messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
I think I'll start this book next. Maybe it'll do something for my libido???  | |
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| 05-25-13 09:28am - 4229 days | #22 | |
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messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Well, I made good on my promise to read Fifty Shades Of Grey next and agree that this one is indeed for women only. Quite disappointing to me because it is written in the first person from the woman's perspective so there's no way I could identify with anything. I stopped reading after about a 100 pages. One other annoying thing for me was that it is written in the present. I seem to be one of the few who cannot stand this. Anyway, thumbs down! | |
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| 05-25-13 09:39am - 4229 days | #23 | |
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Drooler (0)
Disabled User  Posts: 1,831 Registered: Mar 11, '07 Location: USA |
Men and women really are mixtures of the masculine and the feminine. I guess I can say that here without being called a faggot by one side or a wimp by the other. And isn't it time for the return of The Sensitive Male? When was the last time? Some time in the 1970's, wasn't it? But as for 50 Shades of Grey, I'm sticking with #666666, #666667, #666665, and so on ... I wanted something new, so I left England for New England. Edited on May 25, 2013, 09:46am | |
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| 05-25-13 10:30am - 4229 days | #24 | |
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messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
You are right about us being mixtures, Drooler. I have never tried to suppress my sensitive side (except in my foolish youth) and it seems to get "worse" as I get older which is fine with me. And you will be wise to stick to your colors, the book really was a disappointment. I've read quite a few books by women authors lately but they were always in the third person, past tense which allowed me to immerse myself in the story. But with 50SOG you have to identify with the woman and that I can't quite do, sensitive or not! | |
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| 05-25-13 06:41pm - 4229 days | #25 | |
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Drooler (0)
Disabled User Posts: 1,831 Registered: Mar 11, '07 Location: USA |
It seems to me that 50SoG is more hype than anything else. It's the trendy book that "EVERYONE" has been reading! Count me out. Last time I was on a bandwagon, I was carrying a Sousaphone. Same goes later for the spinoffs. D'ya think there are gonna be spinoffs? And what about the movie, for which some work has already been underway? And/or the racy TV series? And let's not forget the adults-only interactive online game. And the coffee mug, t-shirt, and "Sadomasochist On Board" car sign. I wanted something new, so I left England for New England. | |
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| 05-25-13 08:58pm - 4229 days | #26 | |
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Dracula (0)
Active User  Posts: 183 Registered: Jan 27, '13 Location: Romania |
That sounds like me too. You're in good company. A true neck-lover. | |
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| 05-26-13 10:02am - 4228 days | #27 | |
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pat362 (0)
Active User Posts: 3,575 Registered: Jan 23, '07 Location: canada |
I don't think so and that's mostly because I've talked to quite a few women who have read the novels and the general consensus was that they all enjoyed it. The strange thing is that we are talking about a series of novels where the female protagonist plays the role of a sub to her older male counterpart and you'd think that this would be less popular with younger women. I'm sure someone has thought about making a tv series using the novels has reference but I'm not too sure that even HBO can manage to get this done. We are talking about some pretty intense sex so the best a studio can expect is to get a show that is considered midcore porn. HBO is able to do some really amazing things but shooting porn of any kind may still be beyond their ability. I'm sure the first novel will be done has a movie but the producers have some significantly hard work ahead of them. Good luck finding an actress willing to shoot the kind of scenes necessary to do justice to the novel. The role must involve a high level of nudity that most known actresses are generally not comfortable with. Good luck shooting the sex scenes without crossing the line between acceptable sex and nudity and into porn. That one may be the hardest to do because so much of the interaction between the main characters involves that. Good luck attempting to get an R rating because I don't believe it's possible. That means an X and you automatically lose large portions of your target audience because they are under 18 and you also lose many theaters because they refuse to show x rated movies. The last and this may be something that no one has thought about. Reading about a woman playing a sub is one thing but seeing it on a large theater screen may be quite another Long live the Brown Coats. | |
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| 05-26-13 10:05am - 4228 days | #28 | |
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messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
There have been TONS of spin-offs, Drooler, many of which I actually enjoyed. It was a series of 4 books of one of those spin-offs that tempted me to try 50SOG. I think what really threw me was the first person thing. Many authors got into that habit and I hate it, for me it has to be third person, past tense. And the book on TV? Boy, would they have to water the story down! | |
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| 05-30-13 10:49pm - 4223 days | #29 | |
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graymane (0)
Suspended Posts: 1,411 Registered: Feb 20, '10 Location: Virginia |
Still "shopping" , sir messmer......so far no luck. Reflecting..... Not surprisingly, I might've bitten off more than I can chew. | |
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| 05-31-13 10:17am - 4223 days | #30 | |
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messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Could have told you, graymane. Why do you think I keep baying at the moon? Now get back to work and keep looking! That's an order! | |
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| 05-31-13 12:41pm - 4223 days | #31 | |
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graymane (0)
Suspended Posts: 1,411 Registered: Feb 20, '10 Location: Virginia |
Quote from messmer ...... Could have told you, graymane. Why do you think I keep baying at the moon? Now get back to work and keep looking! That's an order! end of Quote I'm on it, boss-man!!!!! I'm on it. Procured a crew of web rainmakers who, as we speak, are tooling up at warp-speed to get the job done. | |
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| 05-31-13 03:23pm - 4223 days | #32 | |
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Drooler (0)
Disabled User Posts: 1,831 Registered: Mar 11, '07 Location: USA |
It seems that you did not understand the vein in which I meant my comment to be understood. Oh, well. I wanted something new, so I left England for New England. | |
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| 06-01-13 10:47am - 4222 days | #33 | |
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pat362 (0)
Active User Posts: 3,575 Registered: Jan 23, '07 Location: canada |
^I guess I did. Mind you that was not the first time and it probably won't be the last. Long live the Brown Coats. | |
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| 06-02-13 07:41am - 4221 days | #34 | |
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Cybertoad (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,158 Registered: Jan 01, '08 Location: Wash |
I saw what ever trend works for you after all. There was a day for many of us will took a peak and out first Playboy and the trend was started for us. Remember its what you enjoy in your own personal erotica,it is why massages, and oils, and hot tubs are popular for some. Its why PC's and porn are popular for others. Its why I can got many days at my age and never think much about porn but still find conversations about it interesting. Since 2007 | |
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