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11-05-16  01:52am - 2927 days Original Post - #1
CharlieSkyward (0)
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Pornocize

I wanted to share a little of my 'weird porn watching ritual'.

I found years back, for me, that porn and masturbation combined can function like a mental short circuit: the shortest path to orgasm is to put on a porn movie and jerk off frantically. Getting myself out of that habit took some work, but essentially revolved around jerking off away from porn, and watching porn whilst exercising, or practising something, much as people put on background music to work out to.

For example, I used to find it hard to get myself to exercise, but by getting an exercise bike or cross trainer, and then telling myself 'you can watch for as long as you like so long as you keep pedalling', I can easily knock out a good hour or so on these machines with ease and enjoyment. Further, the enjoyment of porn then gets associated in my brain with the exercise.

In general, it is important to be aware of what, from the point of view of brain learning, is being rewarded. Porn has the capacity, for those who respond strongly to sexual fantasy as I do, to give you a direct line into your brain's reward centres. Using this sensibly can work wonders.

11-07-16  12:13pm - 2924 days #2
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Hah! That's clever! Suddenly VR Goggles make a lot more sense to me.

I've been using podcasts to keep me interested in exercising, pretty successfully. I've been catching up on "The Adventure Zone" by listening to an episode each day while exercising. I'm about to run out of that pod cast though, so I need to switch to something else soon, maybe your solution would work! "I'm not a number, I'm a free man!"

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11-07-16  04:13pm - 2924 days #3
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It sounds a bit like the B.F. Skinner theory on conditioning that I dimly remember from high school.

But I agree that the brain can make connections between an activity and a response, that becomes automatic.

Which can be useful, if you can control the response.

11-07-16  04:47pm - 2924 days #4
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And your biggest mistake was in telling us your secret for free!!!

Seriously though, this is an excellent idea. Now how to sell this to the wife...

11-08-16  09:50am - 2923 days #5
CharlieSkyward (0)
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I have been a massive fan of free software and open source since before most people had heard of it (mid 90s). I'm not that interested in making money, or selling stuff, but rather my passion is making stuff work, especially if it works for people other than just me.

The more general principle is what I call 'harness it instead of hating it'.

Another explanation is that if struggling with a desire to watch porn is akin to playing tug-of-war with a shire horse, why not make friends with the shire horse, feed it, exercise it, and develop a more symbiotic relationship.

Amusingly, one of the wonders of porn is that it takes essentially zero intellect to understand and enjoy what is going on. Indeed for the intellect it is akin to watching paint dry, except that there are naked people getting in the way of the view of the paint. What my intellect does to keep itself amused whilst body gets its daily workout and nether regions get their daily fun, is another thing.

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