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| 09-12-18 10:07am - 2293 days | Original Post - #1 | |
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merc77 (0)
Disabled User Posts: 291 Registered: Apr 17, '16 |
I must be getting old...(Porn Post 1) I still enjoy gay porn but my focus has been on the models themselves and looking at their bodies. I also like to watch them shower afterwards (which is rare these days). I have tried to convince the sites to add these little things to no avail. Some respond and say they will look into it. Watching anal sex is boring to me these days. Most gay sites focus on it these days. I wonder if I'm getting old when it comes to watching sex itself. I still enjoy oral scenes, just not the other types of penetration. Are there straight porn watchers out there who feel what I'm saying? You want to watch the beautiful model undress and admire his or her body? Photosets are rare these days on most sites. I prefer videos myself and like it when the models undress and stand in front of the camera completely naked. It takes the place of those photosets and is nice to watch the model turn around. Most sites don't do the above. The model is already naked and getting into the action. There is no thought or eroticism involved these days. Then again maybe I'm getting too old... *Porn Post is what I will be doing from time to time to discuss my thoughts on what is going on and current trends. "Dogs think people are Gods. Cats don't as they know better." - Kedi (2016) Dogs have masters; Cats have staff. | |
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| 09-12-18 11:25pm - 2293 days | #2 | |
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biker (0)
Active User  Posts: 632 Registered: May 03, '08 Location: milwaukee, wi |
My opinion is that you're not getting old, but porn is stale and your tastes are changing. I'm turned off by gonzo porn that just has a couple pounding away. I bought my first Penthouse back in 1970. A refreshing change from Playboy and the low budget porn sold at the local NEWS shop. Penthouse had created a complete scene and had really beautiful models. It spoiled me. Now when I look for porn on the internet searching for creative scenes with exotic sets and the women wearing seductive attire. What arouses me is a lesbian scene with one of the women being dominate. No whips or spankings, just one woman holding her partner down while enjoying her. The taste for this did not happen the moment I opened that first Penthouse, but developed over time. My taste got more refined over the years. It actually is a detriment to have a narrow this refinement. Just like yourself, I asked sites to cater to desires to no avail. So I have searched out a few sites that will lean towards my interests and I subscribe to each for a month each year. A month is actually to long. I download all I'm interested in a couple of days. But it is still cheaper then the price of the magazines I used to buy to get the same content. My tastes are still evolving. I have spent a lot of years looking for that perfect scene that doesn't exist. If watching models undress and pose is what you enjoy more then sex, then enjoy it. The short reply is you're my first statement. You're not getting old. I like your thread. Gave me a chance to express my desires. I need to to do occasionally. I going to edit this to add a a scene that might give you an idea what my taste in porn is like. The scene from Barbarella XXX where Riley Steele and Asa Akira munch each other. I really enjoyed that one. Warning Will Robinson Edited on Sep 12, 2018, 11:37pm | |
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| 09-12-18 11:30pm - 2293 days | #3 | |
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lk2fireone (0)
Active User  Posts: 3,618 Registered: Nov 14, '08 Location: CA |
Photosets are rare these days. There are plenty of sites that focus on photography instead of videos: the glamour sites like MetArt, Femjoy, MPL Studios, etc. etc. They also have videos, but the main focus is on the photo sets. And they try to add an element of eroticism to the photos. Not a lot of strip tease, but the images themselves are supposed to be erotic: most photosets are partially nude or completely nude photos, but some do feature costumes or sexy lingerie that is removed to reveal the feminine body. Also, heartcore or glamcore videos/photosets have been making a comeback for many years now: adding a storyline and emotions to make the sex more meaningful, instead of two or more bodies slapping against each other. As far as getting too old: past a certain age, it's only natural to feel less, to respond less: partly physical (your body is getting older), and partly mental (you are past the freshness of experience, what used to be amazing is no longer new or quite as exciting). You can either take a break from porn, and when you come back, maybe it will have a greater impact. Or you can stick with porn, realizing that, yes, you are getting older, but you're not dead yet. You state your age as 55. If need be, see your doctor for some Rx that will give you a brighter outlook. Hopefully, you still have a few good years before you are dead and buried. Enjoy life while you can. But feel free to ignore this, if you think I'm moralizing too much. Actually, I re-read some of your posts and reviews. They are useful, level-headed. So I think I took your remark of "Maybe I'm getting too old" too seriously. My apologies if what I wrote was overly heavy-handed. Perhaps I should delete this post entirely? Your opinion would be welcome. I don't want to come across as more foolish than I usually am.  Edited on Sep 12, 2018, 11:44pm | |
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| 09-13-18 09:47am - 2292 days | #4 | |
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merc77 (0)
Disabled User Posts: 291 Registered: Apr 17, '16 |
Thank you both for your replies. I guess the above is more like a rant than anything else on the state of porn. It seems more and more smaller independent sites are now owned by bigger conglomerates who care only about the bottom line. I do enjoy porn, but find myself getting off on the less hardcore stuff if that makes sense. As for my getting old, I do know my body is slowing down. I still work fine in the areas that matter the most   "Dogs think people are Gods. Cats don't as they know better." - Kedi (2016)Dogs have masters; Cats have staff. | |
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| 09-13-18 10:25am - 2292 days | #5 | |
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biker (0)
Active User Posts: 632 Registered: May 03, '08 Location: milwaukee, wi |
Hello Merc77: I'm 66 and can't believe I'm still walking and seeing the Sun rise in the morning. I guess I have a few years left. Just a oil change and a tune-up and I'm off down the road of life. Warning Will Robinson | |
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| 09-14-18 08:49am - 2291 days | #6 | |
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merc77 (0)
Disabled User Posts: 291 Registered: Apr 17, '16 |
 "Dogs think people are Gods. Cats don't as they know better." - Kedi (2016)Dogs have masters; Cats have staff. | |
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| 09-14-18 09:50pm - 2291 days | #7 | |
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Loki (0)
Active User  Posts: 395 Registered: Jun 13, '07 Location: California |
I'm with you merc77. I'm in my late forties, and most porn scenes aren't as arousing as they once were. But I'm not sure how much the problem lies with biology and how much comes from the ubiquity of porn. When it was less common, I seemed to get greater arousal from porn. It took effort to go out and buy magazines or movies or books with sexual content. Now all I have to do is fire up the computer and thousands upon thousands of images and scenes are right at my fingertips. I find myself less interested in watching the sexual acts themselves and more interested in the beauty and artistry of the scene nowadays. "A man talking sense to himself is no madder than a man talking nonsense not to himself." | |
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| 09-15-18 09:05am - 2290 days | #8 | |
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merc77 (0)
Disabled User Posts: 291 Registered: Apr 17, '16 |
I should take into account I am gay and grew up in a rather conservative household. Acceptance of gay people wasn't common at all unless you lived in a big city. There was a thrill of sorts back in those days when it came to buying a gay magazine or porn movie (when I could afford such a thing). There was also a certain thrill about a sexual encounter when I was in the military as it was taboo then as well. Most of that changed and I still was getting aroused by porn for the most part. But these past few years I have noticed how it all seems the same old thing. My body is slowing down and I can get remedies for it. I now take vitamins (which do help). But as others here have mentioned as well, the industry itself seems content to just make hardcore and are not interested in making it erotic. That is the point I am trying to make. That is the point Loki and others are also making. If anyone in the porn industry is reading this, I hope you understand we still like porn. We still buy it and join sites. But not as often as we used to these days. Bring back eroticism. Bring back undressing and posing a bit. Bring back taking a relaxing shower. I appreciate the beauty of the young man (and young woman). That is all we ask. Thanks for the many responses to my thread. "Dogs think people are Gods. Cats don't as they know better." - Kedi (2016) Dogs have masters; Cats have staff. | |
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| 09-17-18 01:28am - 2288 days | #9 | |
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exotics4me (0)
Active User  Posts: 664 Registered: Jan 12, '07 Location: USA |
I don't think it's got much to do with age. I'm a little more than 10 years younger than you and I too am annoyed by the same things. I can't stand scenes that start with nude models. I even try to note it in my reviews if the scenes have fully dressed models to start with. The main difference in our taste is gay/straight which is a rather small difference compared to porn becoming cookie cutter from the days of of almost "over teasing". It's like the industry can't and won't try a middle ground. I also have shower videos of my favorite models and some of my favorite "porn" doesn't even have full nudity. The old saying used to be "The key to staying young is learning something new everyday." The current porn industry isn't allowing that. It's just frustratingly repetitive. What the industry is banking on is there's a whole new group of porn viewers every year. I said this in a reply to a comment a few days ago, my ex-wife used to say I'm too hard to please sexually because "you don't get excited over nudity". It was a situation where every guy she had been with before me was more her age (she is 12 years younger than I am). She loved that I'm more experienced and more open sexually and knew when to be rough, when to be gentle but she couldn't get over the fact that walking into a room, completely nude, did nothing for me. I will share this it's from one of the ex-producers at Reality Kings. I originally talked to them because I lived (temporarily) in Miami, in 2013, for 4 months and one of my neighbors was well-known male porn star J-Mac who does a lot of work for Reality Kings. I was talking to him one day about their "misuse" of some of their models, might not interest you, but Veronica Rodriguez, was the main one. She looks 18-20, she's really in her early 30s. I was only asking why they kept playing to the "teen" part with her when she's a known seductive woman. The producer came by one day and talked to me about "porn analytics". He said that 90% of their videos when streamed were fast-forwarded to the "good parts". He said the most rewound parts were the cumshots. You can probably see where this is going. They didn't remove the intros but did shorten them by a lot so a "seductive woman" really doesn't fit like a shy, innocent, teen since that requires very little time to show. The sad part, the producer was in full agreement with me. He said he started producing porn for the erotic parts but if 90% are skipping those "why waste the money recording it?" He eventually left Reality Kings and is now working with Sex Art, so I have no reason to believe he was lying about agreeing, since Sex Art almost overdoes the erotic side. One part I'll end with is have you tried porn like CFNM or handjobs? I ask because I remember gaypornolover was really into those sites since it's a man being controlled and pleasured by clothed women. Or even transsexuals? An old member here named GCode has a ton of transsexual reviews on here. The last would be older straight DVDs that were in the 90s? I remember a lot of those having multiple men masturbating for a woman. I'm asking on those since solo women is still my favorite. I know some solo men content exists, my ex loved watching solo men and there had to be a certain amount of eroticism to it. She liked most solo men sets but her absolute favorites were the ones with men looking at porn or pictures while masturbating. She would imagine they were looking at her pictures or videos. My first time I jacked off, I thought I'd invented it. I looked down at my sloppy handful of junk and thought, This is going to make me rich. - Chuck Palahniuk | |
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| 09-17-18 09:52am - 2288 days | #10 | |
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merc77 (0)
Disabled User Posts: 291 Registered: Apr 17, '16 |
Thank you for bringing up those CFNM sites as I intend to check them out, exotics4me. Maybe a bit of change will do me some good. "Dogs think people are Gods. Cats don't as they know better." - Kedi (2016) Dogs have masters; Cats have staff. | |
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| 09-25-18 07:24am - 2280 days | #11 | |
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iknowwazzup (0)
Active User  Posts: 132 Registered: Jan 06, '16 Location: United States |
I'm a bit late to the game on this one, but I want to say that I love when a porn scene comes with posed photos as well as a video. I don't want to join a softcore photography site just to see some decent pics. I still want some hardcore action to watch, but I like the chance to save a few photos that are more erotic than explicit. Because sometimes you just want to admire the beauty of pretty face or the pleasing lines of an attractive figure without another person in the pic. And I just find that nowadays with Full HD and even 4K videos on the scene, you've often just getting photo-quality vid caps so you often don't get to see anything that isn't already shown in the corresponding video. Whereas in the past, photo content was added value. Oh well, times and tastes change. So it seems a lot of porn is very "wham-bam-thank-you-ma'am" or I guess maybe in the case of gay porn "wham-bam-thank-you-Sam" - but if we're all a bit tired of it maybe it'll eventually change again? | |
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| 09-25-18 12:49pm - 2280 days | #12 | |
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jook (0)
Active User  Posts: 325 Registered: Dec 22, '13 Location: jersey city |
Just noticed this. Remember newsgroups? Usenet? The original Internet? It seems to have made a comeback. There are tons of photo sets on there (as well as videos) - gay, straight and everything in between. All for the price of subscribing to a news service, cheap cheap. I joined on a week's trial a short time ago and ended up signing up for a year. It's still chaotic which I suppose is one of its charms. However, if you're technically inclined you can probably find things a lot easier than me. But I enjoy the hunt. | |
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| 09-27-18 06:47pm - 2278 days | #13 | |
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pat362 (0)
Active User  Posts: 3,575 Registered: Jan 23, '07 Location: canada |
I can't speak for anyone else but for me it's less that I'm getting older and more that I'm getting pickier. I've been watching lesbian porn since day one and while there are some gems from the early days of porn. All of my favorite movies and videos primarily come from Girlfriend Films and more precisely early 2000 to about 2012. That studios was able to capture the essence of what I think a lesbian scene should have. The studio is still producing lesbian porn today but they lost many of their best performers and I think they also lost some of their better porn producers in and around 2012 that made most of what came after that date unenjoyable to watch. Today you basically have Girslway and GFF producing lesbian porn on a regular basis and both do a piss poor job of it. They hire too many gay for pay performers who simply can't pretend to be into girls but who for whatever reason are only willing to do g/g porn and therefore often get booked. It doesn't help that they happen to be popular girls so the demand for more of their scenes means that they get hired more often as well. I have tried to watch girslway video but all I am left with is frustration over the finish product instead of enjoyment for what I have always liked. Long live the Brown Coats. | |
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