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Parsnip's Review
Superb review, Parsnip. Well written, perceptive, informative, believable. Let me exaggerate, but only a little -- you're the Leslie Halliwell of the porn-film world.
I'm coming from a similar viewpoint: trying to find material that my partner would enjoy. But I'm a virtual virgin when it comes to paid porn. Started with Abby Winters last week, but am ready to move on. So I need some suggestions.
If you happen to read this, Parsnip, or anyone else, I'm looking for a variety of adult material. Not much, maybe an hour or two of 1080P video in each category, and say, 200 stills. Here are the categories:
1. Under 25, amateur, male-female
With a fairly realistic depiction of how a couple in that age group would normally have sex. Abby Winters failed in that regard because virtually all the Girl-Boy videos appeared to be staged. If it's boring sex for viewers, as it probably would be, that's quite okay. My partner and I want a glimpse of what young people do together. You've probably guessed, we're no longer young.
2. Female orgasm
Real orgasms, please. I know -- how can you tell? Well, actually, there are involuntary physiological indications, but I won't go into that here. Prefer older than 25 because younger than that, as per Abby Winters again, I get the impression they are mostly copying the mannerisms, mouth contortions, yodelling and yelping that they've seen elsewhere. Don't suggest I Feel Myself. That site is definitely out of the running because of the attitude of the owner in responses on this site, and because of his belief that squirting during orgasm is real.
3. Male stills
Tasteful stills featuring good-looking, young, male bodies, solo or partnered with male or female. Erections quite okay, but not much more.
4. Older women
Older meaning up to retirement age, out on a fling, most likely with a younger partner. A fantasy type of thing showing a mature woman enjoying sex.
5. Professional actors staging realistic sex
Hard to describe what I'm looking for here. Combine the best production values out of Hollywood, with actors playing the part of two people having believable sex. Not hard core, but more intimate than what Hollywood could portray. Imagine passionate sex scenes between Rhett and Scarlett, Rick and Ilsa, Charlie Allnut and Rose.
Any suggestions as to suitable sites would be most welcome. I want to avoid sites that are focussed on, or have a preponderance of:
• Anal
• Squirting
• Facial cum shots
• Glamorous women who look like they've stepped from the cover of Vogue
The sort of thing that a woman who is feeling sexy with her man would not be turned off by. In case the word "woman" is not clear: your partner, wife, girlfriend, sister, mother, aunt. i.e. an ordinary woman who themselves would definitely not want to be seen in such a video, but who, in private, might enjoy watching a respectful portrayal of another sexy woman.
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09-08-14 08:32am
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Parsnip's Review
I appreciated your review, Parsnip, especially the comments regarding anal. Totally agree. I'm in this for myself and partner for showing in our home theatre (projected on a 3m screen) so the material I download has to appeal to her and be in 1080P.
I'm new to paying for adult stuff, only subscribed to Abby Winters so far, and am on the lookout for the next site. Thus my interest in Joymii.
Abby Winters was interesting (I'll write a full review sometime). A total of 6.7 GB of downloads and I'd seen enough. Cancelled after 3 days. Time to move on. I kept about 50 stills, 3 masturbation videos that looked reasonably convincing, 9 masturbation videos that I consider highly sus or fake (with my partner's help we'll come to a consensus on that), and only one video that I thought worth keeping –- and that will have to be edited from 35 minutes to about 10 minutes. $40 for a short video and a few dozen stills. But worth it as part of my learning experience.
The problem is the tendency, as you've identified, to slip into the depths of porn. The drive comes not only from male consumers demanding harder material, but paid females wanting to satisfy that demand. A woman may start out as the girl next door, or normal, or real, or any of the other euphemisms for non-professional, but when they start getting paid for performance, money almost immediately corrupts them into exaggeration or fakery. I suspect this would be a particular problem for sites that add the additional incentive of paying the woman per view (e.g. I Fell Myself, Make Love Not Porn). What woman could resist adding the extra gyration, that extra yelp, that squirt of urine, if it meant more money through increased viewers?
On a different topic: does Joymii show female ejaculation (read "urination")? That would turn off my partner as does anal.
Here's my take on the subject. I was going to sign up for IFM today. It was on my list from my initial research last week, when I choose AW to be the first. Before taking the plunge I thought I'd check the reviews once again, here and on Rabbits. I'm glad I did. I may have been convinced by IFM's spiel when I was a porn virgin last week. Not any longer. I'm reading Human Sexual Response at the moment (Masters and Johnson), and plowing through the Hite Reports. I was put on alert by IFM's 400 words under Female Ejaculation -- The Truth. The real truth is, in 7500 female orgasms monitored by Masters and Johnson in the lab, ejaculation basically didn't rate much of a mention except during the plateau phase: "Secretion of drop or two of mucoid material [from Bartholin's Glands] aiding in lubrication of vaginal outlet during long-maintained coital connection", p285. None of the Hite Reports say much about it.
AW has at least 20 squirting videos. IFM thinks it's real and, I would suspect, encourages any model who brings up the subject. How prevalent is it in Joymii?
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