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LKLK (0)
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In real life, versus porn fantasy, men masturbating before women is normally frowned upon.
The woman has to consent to the guy masturbating.
The best examples of men masturbating in front of women, in the news, would be Harvey Weinstein and that comedian, Louis C.K.
I guess that porn niches could include men masturbating in front of women.
A lot of hardcore sex scenes end with the guy jerking off into the woman's face, ass, or other body parts.
But for the entire video to focus on a man masturbating in front of a women might have some limited appeal, whether for straight or gay porn I wouldn't know.
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07-01-19 02:15am
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tangub (0)
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A very well written review and particularly interesting to read the female perspective on a porn site. Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us.
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07-01-19 05:21am
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rearadmiral (0)
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This is a well-written and informative review of a relatively unique site. Thanks for taking the time to write and upload it.
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07-01-19 07:16am
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mbaya (Disabled)
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This was a nice review that I enjoyed reading. I am into CFNM and we have discussed it here on PU. If you want I can revive an old thread on it.
What I see is CFNM for straight men and CFNM for gay men. The abusive sites appeal more to gay men and they are plentiful on the internet.
For straight men I think the appeal is that the non abusive CFNM sites portray women as assertively aggressive sexually and I don't mean in a demeaning way.
In much of straight porn women are objectified as objects of desire.
I think that for anyone who likes CFNM there is pure fantasy that is incredibly unlikely, something rare in porn. In CFNM men are objectified and that does have its appeal. It is as if the roles are reversed compared to straight male porn.
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07-01-19 01:48pm
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mbaya (Disabled)
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This was an interesting review of a genre that I like. We have discussed the topic of CFNM here on PU and if you are interested I can revive the old forum thread.
The abusive CFNM sites that you don't like are targeted at gay men.
How I see it is that the other non abusive CFNM sites have a lot more of a role reversal as regards men being objectified as objects of desire. Women are empowered to see men performing for them. I can see why you would find these sites appealing.
My advice is to accept that porn does fantasy rather poorly. There are very few CFNM sites still around.
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07-01-19 01:54pm
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mbaya (Disabled)
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REPLY TO #1 - LKLK :
CFNM is fantasy and men masturbating for women to see is very different from what has made the news. The jerks that you mentioned had power over women who had no interest in them or how they would perform sexually.
I can hardly believe there is a woman on the planet who would enjoy seeing a dumpy unattractive man forcing them to watch in order to get a job.
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07-01-19 02:00pm
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KayTBuffs (0)
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REPLY TO #1 - LKLK :
No one really knows how limited the appeal is. The estimations have 30% of porn viewers being women. The two most searched porn sites by women are "Lesbians" and "Gay Porn". There is not a category in porn for "Straight men solo" or "Men masturbating for women". If females made up a smaller group than 30% it would make sense not to try it, but considering there are sites focused on women using enemas, I do not believe that has the market potential of "straight men solo".
Like in the comparison you started with. Is it normal, in real life, for women to go up and masturbate in front of men? There are over 2,000 sites with women masturbating in full scenes on them. Even if the solo men category was based on percentages, that would mean there should be at least 500 solo men sites. I'm not one of the women that hates all porn or thinks the porn industry is unfair. I just believe until someone takes a chance and gives porn aimed at straight women a chance there is an entire market being left untouched. I can't say this for sure, but I believe gay men would also enjoy seeing straight men masturbating.
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07-02-19 07:18pm
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KayTBuffs (0)
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REPLY TO #5 - mbaya :
Maybe I am a little ahead of myself. My reply to LKLK linked to a site named Straight Guys! There are numerous reports coming out about women's use of porn. The percentages are still favoring the men 70% to 30%, however, women spend more time watching porn per day than men do. As money hungry as the porn industry is it seems like they would be trying to get in on the new audience. The sites I have seen for women are like the lovecore sites for men. It could be my own past of being a sexual recluse, but I do not know any woman that fantasizes about having regular sex. I don't like to discuss patients, but I can vaguely make a blanket statement that the regular sex is a big part of marital problems that I hear about. I don't know when it became more normal for women to masturbate for their boyfriend or husband, but I do think there is an obvious connection to porn. Maybe the boyfriend or husband likes watching women masturbate in porn? The wife or girlfriend wants him to be as into her and the woman in the porn.
I look at it that way. If porn makes it more normal for men to masturbate in front of women there would be something new for couples to improve their sex life with. I also think where using gay or even just smaller, thinner men, it does not strike the female's sexual instincts. Some (one on here on PU) high level psychologists believe we have created fantasies that only make us happy inside. That would not trigger as must lust as a fantasy should. Women, in my experience, have way more sexual triggers than men do. It just seems there is a large amount of content just waiting to be made. I do know some men are more aroused by watching their girlfriend or wife watching porn that turns her on more than watching porn aimed at the man. If only I had the money to start such a network! I will check the thread out.
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07-02-19 07:38pm
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KayTBuffs (0)
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REPLY TO #6 - mbaya :
I just noticed a lot of typos in my previous reply, but the site says I can no longer edit it.
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07-02-19 10:04pm
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Kody (0)
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The women are believably into the guy masturbating for them. More direction in the scenes would help. Some of the guys stand in one spot and go to-fro-to-fro-to-fro while the woman is in the background watching and teasing him. I want to believe if a guy was brave enough to pull it out from limp to hard, he would be brave enough to at least face the sexy, teasing woman. Is it just my own fetish to say the scenes would be better if the guy inexplicably tried to get cum on the woman? I would think that would strengthen this site for straight men. I believe most men would like seeing a guy land a facial -- 3 feet away -- on a snobby, teasing woman."
Agree with this. It would be very satisfying for me to watch a scene in which she is first teasing the guy "who I imagine to be me" for a long time, and then cumming on her in the end.
I also agree about the belittling part.
My girlfriend is a lot into watching guys masturbate. I've done it on many occasions for her and to me it always feels best when facing her directly, looking in her eyes. This would also turn me on when watching porn like this. There's an interesting tension when you are clearly looking at each other and feeling a connection, but at a same time have that "distance" where the woman is clothed and looks a bit unreachable.
The belittling that often happens not only makes it unrealistic like you mention, but it takes away that tension between connection and distance. You're only left with the distance and a bit of submission.
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07-05-19 04:09am
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KayTBuffs (0)
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REPLY TO #10 - Kody :
Your reply is one of the points I was making. I think porn directors are missing out on an entire audience. I know at least a couple of men that enjoy masturbating for women. I know it would be popular with straight women. I think gay men would like it from the voyeuristic side of watching a straight man masturbate for a straight woman. Porn tries so hard to make everything blatantly obvious and I think it is where porn is starting to fail. If it's supposed to be for gay enjoyment no one else is going to enjoy it that much. The same with straight sex. A gay man would need a lot of imagination to watch a man and woman have vaginal intercourse and see himself as the woman but a gay man could fantasize being the woman watching the straight man masturbate. I always thought straight men would have trouble with lesbian porn. There are no penises so what role do they see themselves in? Porn has to figure out that the world and sexuality has changed a lot over the last 10-15 years. Porn hasn't changed a lot.
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07-10-19 08:51pm
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