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lk2fireone (0)
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Not a member, not a lawyer. But the masked intruder(s) forcing a girl to have sex just seems like one more fantasy/fetish. The idea doesn't really appeal to me. TBP will be doing a review of this site very soon. From the TBP data, the site itself is tiny, with only 10 videos so far. The site is part of a network, and you get access to 26 sites if you join this site.
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09-30-10 07:06pm
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GCode (0)
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REPLY TO #1 - lk2fireone :
I totally understand the fetish/fantasy aspect of the site. I just feel that the whole forced sex thing or 'rape fantasy' is truly different and strange, almost wrong.
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09-30-10 08:33pm
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Jay G (Disabled)
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REPLY TO #2 - GCode :
Forced sex is wrong. The fantasy, for some women, of being overwhelmed and "forced" to have sex, is a very common one, however.
This is especially true in cultures where a woman's natural sexual desires are repressed by teachings that women are not supposed to enjoy sex, that sex is dirty, etc.
Being "forced" to have sex, becomes a fantasy where women are guiltless for doing the naughty thing. There also seems to be a desire on the part of many women to be "overwhelmed" in the sexual act. Women describe the desire to have sex with "bad boys" and very big men who are "passionate." Ugly bikers and idiot jerks often have no problem having women fawn over them.
My personal experiences, having been brought up to be a "gentle"-man, were that early on I was often passed over by most women for really nasty, cruel jerks. My gentleman-ness was seen as "weakness".
When I learned to be a gentleman, but one who was "stronger" and showed more "passion" in the bedroom, I became much more successful with women. I've done well ever since.
It's a fine line you walk, however. Every woman comes from a different background, and a man, even when horny, must be perceptive and meet his woman's individual needs. Generalizations will probably lead to disaster. Fantasies must remain only fantasies.
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10-01-10 03:40am
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GCode (0)
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REPLY TO #3 - Jay G :
Valid points you offer but I can guarantee NO women want random thieves to enter their home and have forced sex with them. While the fantasy is there and having knowledge of psychology (it's my work field), this fantasy is often over played by men and has a coined term called the 'Rape Myth'. I won't delve in to the actual studies much here, but many studies show that many men think women want forced sex upon them, when in reality, an extermely low (and I do mean extremely) amount of women actually want this. I don't want to get in to an argument or anything, but actual research has shown to not coincide with what you just said :( But, like all things, I'm sure some do but from a psychologist perspective, I do often agree with large research studies that have been pubilished and properly done. Interesting comment though.
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10-01-10 12:25pm
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Jay G (Disabled)
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REPLY TO #4 - GCode :
I really agree with you. It is important that fantasy (which has few or no consequences) is NOT mixed up with reality (which has extreme consequences).
I once had a very bad experience with a girl who said she wanted to be part of a group thing and participated in it. Later she was very upset and I realized that, for her, it was very wrong. I had misjudged the entire situation. Fortunately I had a very good relationship with her and we were able to get through the bad experience.
It taught me a lesson, however. Fantasy is so much better when it remains fantasy and doesn't interfere with reality.
Before I got into the real world I, also, had a background in psychology. I really appreciate studies when they have very good methodology. Beware, however. You have to really read the studies (not READ ABOUT THEM in magazines). Many so-called studies have very bad methodologies (poor sample groups, no proper "control" groups, bad statistical interpretation, etc.). The simple rules of scientific observation and interpretation are too often being bent, lately, by those who are sloppy, lazy, or have an ax to grind (drug companies, politically motivated groups, etc). Remember, it wasn't that long ago when the old DSM listed homosexuality as a mental illness.
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10-02-10 05:13am
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