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hodayathink (0)
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No need to be particularly rude. Carry out the date, state I'm not interested at the end, and that's the end of that. No need to end the date at that exact moment.
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10-25-12 12:15am
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Toadsith (0)
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Transvestite / Pre-Op Transgender: I'd try to finish the date and part amicably, if possible. It isn't a relationship I'd particularly pursue, however.
Post-Op Transgender: Why would I care? I don't particularly want kids anyway. I'd progress as normal. If I'm attracted to someone now, I don't really care what they looked like in the past. That would be like dumping a supermodel because she was fat when she was in high school.
* For these examples, I'm assuming the transgendered date in question is Male-to-Female.
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10-25-12 12:43am
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graymane (Suspended)
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Allow me to better qualify the intent of this poll question lest it might be interrupted other than what I'd entended.
Taken from an actual event that happened to a fiend of mine, I figured it would make an interesting poll. My friend choose to go along and complete the date and, subsequently, said he had a great time (agreeing mutually from the outset there'd be no hanky-panky).
In addition to a fun-filled evening wherein his date insisted upon picking up it's Horrendous tab, my friend also gained a wealthly new business client, which paid-off thereafter for his company in big, big bucks.
Note: The tone of the first three choices of this poll wasn't meant to cast any aspersions to anybody outside conventional persuasion -- but simply represents the attitude of many who're caught in that situation.
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10-25-12 02:53am
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jberryl69 (Disabled)
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I once kissed a guy dressed as a girl and when I discovered his stubble creasing my lips asked him to leave. Kinda creeped me out.
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10-25-12 05:12am
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gaypornolover (0)
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Hmmm. Well if it were me I guess we'd be looking at a F-T-M situation.
I'd carry on the date, but I don't think I'd want another one. From what I can gather, M-T-F transsexuals can successfully have their gentalia reassigned but I don't think it's medically possible for a F-T-M person to have a fully functioning penis yet.
I hope that doesn't sound mean, but I don't think I could go out with a guy like that.
I wouldn't be cruel though - just say I wasn't interested.
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10-25-12 06:41am
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gaypornolover (0)
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Incidentally I do drag and I was surprised at the amount of guys who were interested - even though as I was in drag, which is exaggerated and cartoonish, not a transvestite who tries to look like a real woman.
I got my ass grabbed a couple of times
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10-25-12 06:52am
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graymane (Suspended)
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REPLY TO #4 - jberryl69 :
Thanks, JB, for sharing that with the poll. Like the 'ol saying:
"A picture's worth a thousand words" ..... so it is on behalf of the excellent example you've so thoughtfully herewith provided ... It justifies like nothing else I could've added.
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10-25-12 07:00am
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graymane (Suspended)
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REPLY TO #6 - gaypornolover :
Many, many thanks, GPL for your enlightened response to this poll inquiry,...... Jus' cannot express how hard I labored over an effort to incorporate something here that would bring together straight and gays based on a single composition.
But it appears -- through the merit of your taking this on -- you've done a magnificent job for me as well as those following different paths.
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10-25-12 07:52am
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Toadsith (0)
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REPLY TO #5 - gaypornolover :
You know, if there was more money in it - I think they'd have cracked that problem by now. I think the M-t-F side of the industry has got all the cash right now. Some day perhaps; maybe if science can learn to grow arteries and veins...
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10-25-12 07:54am
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Toadsith (0)
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REPLY TO #6 - gaypornolover :
The appeal of the exotic is very strong, no matter what style it comes in.
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10-25-12 07:55am
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gaypornolover (0)
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REPLY TO #10 - Toadsith :
Indeed! Well it brought a whole new outlook on life to me! Though one of the gentlemen made a very improper suggestion which would have simply ruined my beautiful makeup!
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10-25-12 08:37am
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gaypornolover (0)
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REPLY TO #8 - graymane :
Aww graymane you're so sweet and such a good guy! I really appreciate the effort you make!
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10-25-12 08:37am
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pat362 (0)
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Never having been in a situation close to this then I really don't know what I would do but I'd like to think that I could be at least respectfull.
Of course I would probably be pissed that said person was not upfront about being a transvestite ahead of the date.
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10-25-12 10:02am
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messmer (Disabled)
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Transvestites are usually too obviously male so I wouldn't even contemplate a date with one. Transgender might be a different story if most of them were as beautiful as those found on porn sites. I would enjoy the date but would stop short of sex.
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10-25-12 11:14am
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RustyJ (Suspended)
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Act cool, carry out with the date and most likely politely refuse any further proposals. I mean, we are talkin about a person who is or used to be male?
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10-25-12 12:16pm
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Cybertoad (Disabled)
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REPLY TO #2 - Toadsith :
Id agree, besides why not? I mean if I had any questions or hangups about this gender question. Go hang out and get to know a person.
One being Transvestite / Pre-Op Transgender does make them a leper.
The are just different then me.
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10-25-12 01:09pm
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jberryl69 (Disabled)
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REPLY TO #7 - graymane :
It's just one of my life stories that holds itself out for it's singularity and novelty of the situation. One interesting side note, until I noticed, I actually was enjoying myself. One of those situations where had I not been able to actually process the information things might have been different.
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10-26-12 06:22am
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Drooler (Disabled)
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Actually, once I DID discover that. Ooops!
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10-26-12 10:23am
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gaypornolover (0)
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REPLY TO #18 - Drooler :
What did you do?!
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10-26-12 01:14pm
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Drooler (Disabled)
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REPLY TO #19 - gaypornolover :
Sorry, not telling!
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10-27-12 06:42am
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gaypornolover (0)
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REPLY TO #20 - Drooler :
Oh you little tease!
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10-28-12 09:02am
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