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| 05-11-11 05:26pm - 4974 days | Original Post - #1 | |
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rearadmiral (0)
Active User Posts: 1,453 Registered: Jul 16, '07 Location: NB/Canada |
This question is probably as old as porn itself (and if it’s been asked and answered here already, my apologies to all) On my way home from work today I made a pit stop in the usual grocery store I shop at to get a couple of things. I try not to let my porn use creep into daily life, but as I waited in line at the checkout I noted that the cashier was rather cute. She was maybe 19 or 20, blonde, slim, nice complexion, nicely proportioned breasts and bum. Maybe it’s because I’ve been watching a lot of ‘youth oriented” porn lately (mostly Jurassic Cock) where old farts like Ron Jeremy get to fool around with some of the freshest faces in porn, but my mind started to wander and think of her in a porn flick. So why do some 18-20 year-olds go into porn and some work as cashiers? Sure, some girls look born for porn with the tattoos and piercings (you know the look – they’re like deep-fried food. You KNOW they’ll be bad for you but you can’t resist) but many don’t. Why did someone like Aubrey Addams go into porn and not meteorology? Adventure? Money? Danger? I’m drawing a blank here. What stops my cashier friend from following her dream to be gangbanged in a porn flick? | |
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| 05-11-11 10:12pm - 4974 days | #2 | |
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anyonebutme (0)
Active User  Posts: 294 Registered: Aug 23, '09 |
Get to know the lives of pornstars, and across the board it is pretty consistent - they either (A) were abused as a child, (B) were abandoned as a child, or (C) were abused and abandoned as a child. And drugs are often involved. Aubrey Addams? Take your pick. Chances are very great she falls into one of those categories. Your young cashier? Not so much. | |
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| 05-11-11 11:35pm - 4974 days | #3 | |
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lk2fireone (0)
Active User  Posts: 3,618 Registered: Nov 14, '08 Location: CA |
The gangbang is probably more of a male dream than a female one. Though as time goes on and fems demand their equal rights, it could become more prevalent as a femdom right-to-life as well. | |
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| 05-12-11 12:37am - 4974 days | #4 | |
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RustyJ (0)
Suspended Posts: 79 Registered: Aug 04, '10 |
It seems that the smarter the girl is, the bigger the chance that her past is somewhat normal and she just likes what she's doing. They can often quit the career, go study, start directing or producing, go mainstream or whatever. The dumb, addicted, abused ones, what do they do after a decade in the business and no head for anything else? Go live with Charlie Sheen? | |
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| 05-12-11 03:04am - 4973 days | #5 | |
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rearadmiral (0)
Active User Posts: 1,453 Registered: Jul 16, '07 Location: NB/Canada |
I ahve to admit - with some embarassment - that I've been downloading and watching more Kacey Jordan scenes lately since she revealed a connection to Sheen. It helps that she's got what I like. Maybe Sheen can get a gig at Jurasic Cock now that his TV career has imploded. | |
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| 05-12-11 11:11am - 4973 days | #6 | |
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jberryl69 (0)
Disabled User  Posts: 1,000 Registered: Nov 27, '10 Location: neverland |
One of the few times I'd ever call into question the tastes of one rearadmiral. Kacey Jordan is such a slut and not a very good one either. Ever watch a scene with her and Rebecca Blue doing a guy? If you have, I can't believe you'd think Kacey was at all attractive. .... oh.. I remember now the word I think describes Kacey - skank. Sorry RA... just my opinion. If it ain't grits, it must be a Yankee. If you're going to lay her head over the pool table and fuck her throat, get your fucking hand off her throat! | |
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| 05-12-11 02:03pm - 4973 days | #7 | |
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EverlastingEdge (0)
Active User Posts: 31 Registered: May 01, '11 |
Just checked out her photo(kacey jordan). My god she looks rough. | |
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| 05-12-11 03:23pm - 4973 days | #8 | |
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messmer (0)
Disabled User  Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Strange how tastes can differ so much. I had never heard of Kasey Jordan until today so I looked her up in some of the DVDs listed at Video Box. She is a great looking girl, most comments accompanying her videos are quite complimentary, so please be kind and keep in mind that one man's skank can be another man's beauty! We are not all alike in our tastes, or anything else for that matter. That's why I would also be cautious about blanket statements that all porn stars have come from from a sexually abusive background. This may indeed be true in some cases but for many the quick cash is the big attraction, or even the love of casual sex without ties and getting paid for it. Or simply because of a streak of perversion that revels in doing these things. I remember well my youth and how hormones can be raging and causing one to do things (sexually) one would never consider later on. If the statement that all come from a dysfunctional family background were true I would not ever look at porn because it would feel too much like feeding off someone else's past miseries. | |
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| 05-12-11 05:20pm - 4973 days | #9 | |
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pat362 (0)
Active User  Posts: 3,575 Registered: Jan 23, '07 Location: canada |
I think that there are a variety of reasons why girls pick porn as a career. I suspect the main recuring theme is abusive/controlling parents. The abuse could be physical and/or sexual. I cannot imagine too many people waking up oine day and thinking that porn is a great career choice and even if one of them those then the first porn shoot should break that illusion real fast. It's possible that location has a lot to do with it. If you live in Los Angeles or Miami then there must be tons of newspaper ads to do nude photos and so forth. That's one way for a girl that considers doing nudity to slowly gravitate toward more rauchy shoots and then to porn. The fact is that many other girls from similar family situations choose to be cashier and what not. The major difference between them is money. Where else can a girl with a basic education and almost no work experience make 300$ to 1200$ for a couple hours work? Long live the Brown Coats. | |
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| 05-12-11 07:09pm - 4973 days | #10 | |
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Tree Rodent (0)
Active User  Posts: 708 Registered: Oct 29, '08 Location: UK |
I often agree with messmer. Some come from abusive backgrounds, and do it for strange psychological reasons, others just do it for the money. Nothing new there. If they were all suicidal tortured souls who were beaten to a pulp in relationships it would be an awful saddening experience to watch porn. If they don't mind having sex for money simply because they like the money, that suits me fine. | |
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| 05-12-11 09:51pm - 4973 days | #11 | |
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graymane (0)
Suspended  Posts: 1,411 Registered: Feb 20, '10 Location: Virginia |
I'm casting my vote for "cash." As the old saying goes: "money talks." And it talks big in porn. I'm reminded of a recent download of a stunningly beautiful gal, who was being sunjected to the usual, sundry, preliminary interview -- a numbingly boring chat-session that's unfortunately caught-on with small-time porn purveyors prior to turning the girls loose to get into their performances -- who had left her small-town Southern roots for the cornucopia of opportunities beckoning in California. She was asked: Why did you decide to do porn? Showing her viewers she had brains to go with her looks, she immediately answered: "Why not?" I make more in an hour than my girlfriends back home do in a week.....not to mention I have the luxury of doing it lying on my back. | |
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| 05-13-11 12:18am - 4973 days | #12 | |
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turboshaft (0)
Active User Posts: 1,958 Registered: Apr 01, '08 |
This reminds of something I heard in a doc about porn a few years back (sorry, don't remember the title)--something along the lines of "It's not like we all had a choice between doing this and an acceptance letter to Harvard." It's important to remember when people talk about "choices"--whether they are supposedly right or wrong--they are not the same for everyone. It irritates me to no end that people just simply think Well, why doesn't he/she just do that? All their problems would be solved! Because the world doesn't work that way, and this applies to a lot of things outside of getting into porn. Just as an example, take Pres. Obama and his path to becoming the first black president. A lot of people in the media go "He's a good role model to young black men in America," which frequently ends up being a subtle way of saying that where people wind up is simply because they didn't make the "right" choices. But the vast, vast majority of people don't have Harvard's law school in their future, or even college, and it's not simply because they just don't study hard enough, or on the other end, like people have said about porn, because they are being abused by one or both parents. I'm rambling here (as usual  ) but I too sometimes genuinely wonder why a certain girl isn't just doing porn, and it's usually when I'm watching a beer ad since they almost always have porn-ready actresses in them. I don't see it mainly as the end result of child abuse, but love of quick, easy (relatively speaking...) money. Like Graymane mentioned, money talks and bullshit walks, including the abused bullshitters. Some actually need the money for non-abusive reasons--Aurora Snow comes to mind here--and they are not so shy as to be scared away by fucking or at least masturbating on camera. So, many have a, uh, healthy appetite for sex + money, but I don't believe it's because daddy played doctor with them when they were in grade school or they are suffering from some imbalance in the brain and a quick trip to the pharmacist will "cure" them. "It's incredibly obvious, isn't it? A foreign substance is introduced into our precious bodily fluids without the knowledge of the individual. Certainly without any choice. That's the way your hardcore Commie works." - Gen. Jack D. Rippper, Dr. Stranglove Edited on May 13, 2011, 12:39am | |
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| 05-13-11 12:35am - 4973 days | #13 | |
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turboshaft (0)
Active User Posts: 1,958 Registered: Apr 01, '08 |
Uh, what about a stripper at a high end "gentleman's club" or an Emperor's Club VIP-style escort? Former New York governor Eliot Spitzer supposedly paid Ashley Dupré $4,300 for a day, which included travel and hotel booking, but Emperor's listed hourly rates up to $3,100 and day rates up to $22,000! (Both of those were for "seven diamonds" services, whatever the hell that means.) I don't know how a girl gets work like that, but you'd think she would have some skill beyond escorting if she's charging that much. Maybe resumes are involved at that level of adult entertainment?  Yet I still find strippers and prostitutes sleazier than porn stars (and there seem to be more laws involved too), probably because porn stars seem to do the most for the money. "It's incredibly obvious, isn't it? A foreign substance is introduced into our precious bodily fluids without the knowledge of the individual. Certainly without any choice. That's the way your hardcore Commie works." - Gen. Jack D. Rippper, Dr. Stranglove | |
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| 05-13-11 12:24pm - 4972 days | #14 | |
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rearadmiral (0)
Active User Posts: 1,453 Registered: Jul 16, '07 Location: NB/Canada |
I appreciate yuor compliment, jberry169. The bit about you not often calling my tastes into question, that is. Kacey Jordan is by no means on my A list of stars, but I have to admit to having a real-world liking for skanky women. | |
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| 05-13-11 12:28pm - 4972 days | #15 | |
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rearadmiral (0)
Active User Posts: 1,453 Registered: Jul 16, '07 Location: NB/Canada |
I hadn't thought of that, but you're right. Opportunity has a lot to do with it. That's probably one of the biggest reasons why more Canadian women in porn come from Quebec then anywhere else - it is just more prevalent there. | |
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| 05-13-11 12:29pm - 4972 days | #16 | |
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rearadmiral (0)
Active User Posts: 1,453 Registered: Jul 16, '07 Location: NB/Canada |
Ummm... my place?  | |
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