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12-07-10  02:35pm - 5129 days #2
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Originally Posted by Wittyguy:


The issue of people being able to snoop on your cyberporn habits has come up numerous times in poll questions and in forum topics. However, I hadn't seen any discussion about how good the "usual suspsects" (e.g. - standard internet cleanup tools) work in terms of hiding your tracks. I came across an article here that actually looked at how good the cleanup tools worked in terms of hiding someones visits to porn sites. The results were mixed. For the average person, it would be pretty hard to find evidence. For an IT person, it only takes a 1/2 hour max to resurrect the deleted cookies and other traces. The article does suggest a program that can permanently destroy all cookies.

This does lead to a related question I had know that the online version of porn tracking seems to be answered. That is, how secure is your porn on your hard drive if you password protect those files? Assuming the IT guy doesn't run a password cracking program is it easy to work around a standard password protect setup? If so, are there simple ways or programs that can provide better security?

Just thought I'd try and create a "hide your tracks" one stop shopping thread here.


I use two tools: One is CCleaner, this one not only clears up all cookies and temporary files but also clears your DNS cache, and shreds your deleted material by overwriting it.(I use "overwrite three times" because more takes too much time) It also has the capacity to wipe the free space on your hard drive. Do this on a day you have lots of time, however.

The second is a program called "True Crypt" it's excellent and I would defy any IT guy to crack the password and encryption. It would take Interpol and a lot of hard work and long hours to crack both. Both programs are free.

True Crypt has a bit of a learning curve to it but can nevertheless be easily mastered if one reads carefully and then follows the instructions.

I steer away from illegal material so wouldn't normally be all that concerned about proper security of my stash but at my age anything can happen and I wouldn't want computer savvy grandsons to run across their grandfather's Porn collection. They might be grateful, and yes, they are of legal age, but I'd be embarrassed about it even over there!

True Crypt creates a vault within a drive, completely hides it and its contents so all he/they would see would be an empty drive (in the case of externals) that appears to need formatting, or an empty partition (I think) on the hard drive of the computer itself.

12-06-10  09:01am - 5130 days #29
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Originally Posted by justme:


Hmmm, missed the connection, suggesting that buying extreme / abusive porn is the cause of the increased hospital visits


Yeah, but this was happening long before extreme Porn became so available so I never thought of that connection.

12-06-10  08:57am - 5130 days #30
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Originally Posted by pat362:


I only have one external hard drive and I'll have to get a second one very soon because I've run out of space on the first one and I'm about to do the same with the internal one. I'm procrastanating because I have to clean and organise my collection. I know that I have duplicates and I think that I've got duplicates of my duplicates.


Yeah, I come across duplicates of duplicates as well, Pat!

12-05-10  03:39pm - 5131 days #26
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Originally Posted by justme:


Someone I know who worked as an RN at a hospital was dead-set positive in her theory that all the freak accidents and what-not always occurred on the full moon each month. When they'd get all the really weird stuff come into the E.R.

Coincidence?


I really don't think it is a coincidence. The word lunatic was coined because mentally ill people always seemed to need extra attention at full moon time. At least nurses of my acquaintance told me so. Of course, all of us might also have fallen for an old wives' tale and Wikipedia might prove us wrong!

12-05-10  11:02am - 5131 days #24
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Good advice all around, user2000. I have been using True Crypt for years because it would take all the resources of my present Government to break my code. I keep nothing on an internal drive but switch the Porn I download from my download folder to the encrypted external drives almost immediately.

Great for your peace of mind, especially once you advance in years and could find yourself not waking up some morning.

Porn is a legacy I would not care to leave to my wife who is in "don't ask, don't tell mode" when it comes to my hobby, or to my children or grandchildren. So the thought that all they would find would be unformatted external drives is comforting.

I, personally, don't see the need to create a data base (even though it is extremely good advice) because I collect willy nilly whatever strikes my fancy. A couple of years later I look at it again, find that the times and advanced technology have not been kind to the material and delete to make room for the latest HD video / picture set. I'm more like an impulsive shopper than a true collector!

12-05-10  10:43am - 5131 days #28
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Originally Posted by Capn:


Collecting is, or can be, compulsive behaviour.

I am currently in the process of purging my collection to get it to more manageable levels.

I am forcing myself to be more selective.

It is a bitter-sweet process.

Cap'n.


Isn't it funny that I have started to do the same thing, Cap'n? Partly because I was being overwhelmed by all the accumulated material, partly because if I don't I'll have to get a FIFTH external drive. Enough's enough!

12-05-10  10:22am - 5131 days #22
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Originally Posted by pat362:


Abuse is a difficult term to apply to porn today. Some people consider that any type of BSDM is abuse while some limit this to the more intense BSDM(ie: leave marks).

My idea of abuse is anything that involves slapping in the face, spitting in or near the face, verbal abuse,
chocking where it's almost strangling, intense BJ where the performer is chocking on the penis, pile driving sex and not stopping when a performer is clearly not into what is being done to her.


I don't find the BDSM generally found online very exciting or abusive. The role playing in this case is too obvious.

And I completely agree with your latter paragraph .. provided .. that the "performer is clearly not into what is being done to her." I find real abuse of any kind abhorrent, disgusting, criminal, subhuman .. don't have enough words for that sort of behavior. When it comes to play acting ... see full moon! Edited on Dec 05, 2010, 10:26am

12-05-10  10:16am - 5131 days #21
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Originally Posted by Capn:


More likely to do with when folk get paid, rather than phases of the Moon.

Cap'n.


Ah, but they don't always get paid at full moon time, Cap'n!

12-05-10  10:14am - 5131 days #20
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Originally Posted by Basileus:


It is quite funny but I've noticed an exact pattern when there's a full moon more members tend to join the site... can't deny that there's moon does affect our behaviour somehow, me personally getting more active during the full moon

WeAreHairy.com Basil


There you go, Basil, theory confirmed! Our libido is tied to the moon .. or maybe Porn Users are mentally unstable because I hear that the staff of mental institutions get quite active during a full moon as well!

Must have a talk with my doctor!

12-05-10  10:09am - 5131 days #19
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Originally Posted by slutty:


hey messmer, it happens to me all the time. i don't typically like bondage material, but every once in a while when i'm looking at a bonus site or something i see a scene that just hits the spot at the time.

although hopefully i don't venture into your mature women niche anytime soon, my girlfriend can handle a lot, but that one would definitely freak her out... not that there is anything wrong with mature ladies or anything.


When I talk about mature, slutty, I am not thinking of "grannies" exclusively. In the past I have happily subscribed to All Over 30 whose models were 30, 40 and fifty. Even women in their mid to late twenties are happily looked at .. ask Basileus.

I sometimes think that my pre-occupation with truly older women has two sources: a) they are my age and are often ignored as sexual beings, and definitely don't look as old to me as they would to someone in his thirties, and b) they are a refreshing change (for me) from all those glossy, unmarked by life, Barbies. (Not that there is anything wrong with them) Edited on Dec 05, 2010, 10:27am

12-05-10  09:54am - 5131 days #16
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Originally Posted by gonzooprano:


There was a period in this business when new niches were being defined monthly. Then when those ran out of being reinvented for the web they stated one upping the intensity of them.

Max Hardcore embraced this move and made a ton of money off of it. Of course it helped that Max was really a scumbag to begin with.

Now hes in jail as he was the canary in the coalmine and the Feds came down on him hard.


Yes, I guess for some long time porn users there's an ever escalating need for stronger and stronger material to get the same kick. I guess that would separate the addict from the user. I'm sure Max Hardcore got himself a lot of addicts for subscribers before they shut him down.

I don't appear to have an addictive personality (unless you classify collecting as an addiction ) because this need for increasingly more outrageous material hasn't manifested itself yet. But who knows, maybe this acceptance of darker material at certain times means it's lurking underneath, being kept in check by my gentler nature until .. and here, once again, we are back to the full moon theory!

12-04-10  06:29pm - 5132 days #9
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Originally Posted by justme:


It's just a cycle, as time goes by the fantasy builds and builds and builds. Then when unleashing the urges to watch the hard abusive porn, seeing those scenes immediately sends reality rushing back - thus completing the cycle


Then for many others their attitude is "I'm all against abuse & such... BUUUUTTTTTT... as long as the video already exists, well, there's no harm in watching it now"


There can be a dark fascination in connection with some subjects. We may abhor them but yet are strangely drawn to them at times. (That cyclical thing I'm talking about again) But then, as you wrote, your true self manifests itself, gives you a slap across your temporarily perverted face, and sends you back to your normal gentler self!

But I have never had a fantasy that would even remotely lead me to imitate it in real life as my friend lk2fireone seems to imply.

12-04-10  06:20pm - 5132 days #8
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Originally Posted by Drooler:


I don't find abuse pleasurable. "Pleasure" and "abuse" are two different words and concepts. When people go on pleasure cruises, you don't hear them being asked, "Oh, you mean an abuse cruise?"


There's abuse and there's abuse, Drooler. If the New York (or Kent U.K.) BDSM Club goes on a cruise it could very well be pleasure mixed with pain!

12-04-10  02:31pm - 5132 days #5
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Originally Posted by Capn:


Different sides to our characters coming out, I suppose.

I think experiencing something we don't normally go looking for gives some balance & refreshes our thirst for that which we like.

A juxtaposition?

Cap'n.


Cap'n, you're a wise man!

12-04-10  01:05pm - 5132 days #3
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Originally Posted by lk2fireone:


There are some porn niches that I once thought outrageous, or perverted. And the idea of those niches now seems more enticing. But I don't even want to get into that, because I think our fantasies, if they get too fucked up, can fuck us up as well.


I'm not so sure that sexual fantasies would fuck me up, they could, I suppose .. maybe they did already without my realizing it!

As to outrageous and perverted niches .. what I am talking about is that at certain times I wouldn't go near them while at other times I find them quite erotic. That's why my facetious reference to the moon!

12-04-10  11:08am - 5132 days Original Post - #1
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... or something? Recently we've been discussing "abuse" of models and our hatred of it, as well as our contempt for certain other actions and niches but my question is:

Is our dislike/contempt/hatred a constant thing or do our inbred/acquired dislikes and contempt for certain niches / actions get beaten down during certain stages of the moon, or by some sort of cycle when it comes to our libido?

I know that I am the softcore, solo, mature woman type. This is what I am looking for, basically, yet when the moon is right or whatever I have strayed into many an area that I usually dislike and have found material that would normally turn me off quite arousing. Does that happen to others as well or are their likes and dislikes eternally fixed, body rhythm or not?


12-04-10  10:36am - 5132 days #33
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Originally Posted by mistresskent:


Poo fetish?

I've always found that one hard to swallow.


GROAN!!!

12-02-10  09:27am - 5134 days #45
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Originally Posted by lk2fireone:


My personal opinion is that guys that are in their 70s and older have had their day in the sun. Now it's time to let us younger guys take over. Move over, gramps, before you fall over. +


Go pound sand, young 'un, before I teach you what "grumpy old men" is all about!


12-01-10  10:40am - 5135 days #3
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Originally Posted by graymane:


During one of countless video f..k scenes, I counted no less than forty times this porn actress screaming out the word "SHIT."
Could anybody tell me what malodorous body waste has to do with a pussy and a penis? Does it intensify sensations between the two performers? Does it do anything for you?

And with all due consideration, those reading this who might be entertaining the thought I'm nitpicking, then I say you can call it what you want; I call the association abborrently filthy, deplorable, and completely incompatable with anything at all having to do with copulation.
I'm not even comfortable with this word being used in routine conversation, but, obviously with respect to the First Admendment, I'd be as guilty as the user if I made a big deal out of it.
Speaking of the First Admendment, I say to my detractors to resist rattling your sabers... cuz I have the same rights.
it's also my rant for the day.


I agree, graymane, it's a strange way to express your enthusiasm! I like a bit of dirty talk but it has to be related to sex and not to bodily functions!

12-01-10  10:32am - 5135 days #41
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Originally Posted by Denner:


THANKS A LOT FOR THIS ONE, MESSMER....- and to others who replied to this in very positive ways...

This user too!!!!
Been thinking about it several times.....have not been happy at some/several occasions here to 'sail under false colors' - even if it's only the age...but age is also experience, growing up in different times ect. And with age you can also rely to some common deals with other older PU - deals from way back THEN....

So it's another time for confessions:

I break down now and admit LYING about my age here - for ONE reason only: To stay somewhat anonymous in this small country where I during my - NOW - former employment had some thoughts about 'getting too close'...

I'm now a FREE BIRD - and so I am able to give a damn about colleagues and others who 'might' recognize me...

So fellow PUs and Khan: Kindly put ten years to my age! (I have NOW edited my profile concerning age).

https://www.pornusers.com/profile.html?id=870

.........ahem... feel much better now. (And then some may understand why I at one time spoke about been an 'old geezer' in relation to some inputs).

But really: I my mind I'm still 28.........



Hey this is great, Denner!! In my mind I'm about 39 so I'm still older than you. But I'm really happy that you joined me in 'fessin up, not only is it good for the soul but it also explains why our tastes are so often similar.

I've often wondered, when I wrote as a 54 year old, does anyone mutter to themselves, boy he's got weird tastes for someone so "young?" But now that I'm 74 it all becomes clear, doesn't it. I miss the girls and lingerie, and we believed in lingerie then, of my youth. That flash of bare thigh above the nylon tops when the wind took up that flared skirt or dress .. sheer erotic heaven. You could feed on that vision all day! Now I've been put into a corner under "niche!" Same with hairy pubes, it was so normal and right an sexy now it's disgusting! I better stop before someone says, boy, those old folks tend to ramble on about things!

In any case welcome aboard as a confessor!

And this is a great group for forgetting all about age discrimination. Maybe we should turn the whole world into porn users, it would certainly increase the general level of tolerance!

12-01-10  10:10am - 5135 days #40
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Originally Posted by Cybertoad:


Hey Messmer, Can we just call you Heff for short now?
A guy is surrounded by women all the time you have to be the resident expert . I do not see it a s downfall. Your expertise is awesome. Thanks Heff.


Oh, please don't, Cybertoad! I don't like Heff very much even though the early Playboys meant a lot to me! I think it looks silly for an old man in a brocaded robe to have young women hanging off his arms. It robs him of dignity and makes the young women look like gold diggers because there's no way an old man could look attractive to someone in their twenties. If you must call me Granddad instead!

11-30-10  07:45pm - 5136 days #2
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Originally Posted by graymane:


Search as I may, every site I come to with the empathisis on legs, the gams are always cluttered with nylons, thigh-highs, pantyhose, netting, or something covering the smooth natural skin of a woman's legs.
I want to see the "ankle bone connected to the knee bone, the knee bone connected to the thigh bone thigh bone, the thigh bone connected to the pevlic bone... all sheathed with unadulterated, natural skin.
Anybody know of any?


Make you a deal, graymane. You tell me the name of a site that features exclusively nylons .. not stay ups, not pantyhose, not netting ... but nylons held up by a garter belt and I'll find you a site with bare legs.

11-30-10  07:34pm - 5136 days #32
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Originally Posted by turboshaft:


I found this blog on The Daily Beast written by Aurora Snow about how she went from barely legal to MILF. At 24.

Apparently in the industry it's all a big numbers game, hence regardless of how young someone looks, it's her birthdate that really matters. There seems to a few short precious years from the time they turn 18 to their early 20s when they need to be replaced/retired.

What, do they think all of us porn fans are just a bunch of math nerds?! No offense to the number lovers out there (or the genuine math nerds) but come on! What are we going to watch a video and then see a hot 24 or 25 year old girl and go "Ewww! She's no longer 23! This sucks!"


Quite an eloquent lady, that Aurora Snow! It's sad that there should be such a premium on being "barely legal", because I don't see any porn star in her mid to late twenties who looks as if she has been ravaged by time.

They even look delicious in their thirties and later years unless they let drugs get to them. And I stand by that! Down with age discrimination!

11-30-10  06:26pm - 5136 days #36
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Originally Posted by turboshaft:


And now we know your true age, you're a confirmed man (or so you say...) but if you had been born a woman you would be a lesbian, or maybe you just be an "enthusiastic" masturbator. Seriously, if you are born as a Lexi Belle or Faye Reagan why would you even waste your time with anyone else?! What I would do is I would go buy a set of wrist exercisers, set up a regular shipment of lube, and then never even leave the house!


I never even thought of that, turboshaft. You are brilliant. I wouldn't have to worry about commitment, relationships, differing tastes .. everything I need would be within arms length, so to speak! Why bother complicating my life with another woman around! Brilliant, I say!

11-30-10  06:19pm - 5136 days #35
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Originally Posted by PinkPanther:


I don't believe it! It's pretty obvious that you're really 18 - posing as an old guy for fun!


Am I? Boy, then I must have a serious Oedipus Complex because I prefer older women, PP! Naw, can't be, I just got back from looking in the mirror, it's the old me alright!

11-30-10  12:47pm - 5136 days #31
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Originally Posted by lk2fireone:


messmer, did you just have a bunch of birthdays without inviting any of your PU buddies? I see that your PU profile now shows your age as 74, which is entering gray beard territory.

What is this talk about your having lesbian tendencies? Are you going to have one of those sex-change operations without first discussing it with your good friends at PU?


Just call me the "Incredible Aging Man" lk2fireone! It was a painless process and I feel a lot happier now that anachronisms won't have a chance to sneak into my posts!

And, no, no sex change operations for me ... ouch! Just saying that I am a fan of womankind and if I had been born a woman I wouldn't consort with the likes of you but pick another female instead!


11-30-10  11:16am - 5136 days #23
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Originally Posted by Denner:


Messmer.............THIS ONE'S FOR YOU!

Been a member of the british Vintage Flash earlier - AND gone back again...
Ok, no HC - but very fine matures in the right outfits - generally - AND another detail that I find great: Some decent dirty talk along with the vids - maybe you should try it...



Hey Denner, no hardcore is fine with me as long as it isn't underexposure like OnlyTease. I have flirted with the thought of joining this site for quite a while so, the moment some of my present subscriptions expire, I will take your advice! Thanks.


11-30-10  11:08am - 5136 days #29
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Originally Posted by Drooler:


Well, I'm just waiting for the day that Messmer reveals that he's actually a woman.


You can relax about that, Drooler. I am definitely male and enthusiastically heterosexual. I love women so much that if I had been born one I would be a Lesbian!

11-30-10  11:02am - 5136 days #28
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Originally Posted by turboshaft:


You're welcome, but why the fifties--got a hankering for some of Marilyn Monroe's early work? Or are you talking about your early fifties (your poetically licensed age )? Hell, why not go whole hog and back into your early twenties?


In the early fifties I was in my mid teens and with that came the earliest sexual experiences. They did influence my taste to this day, that's why the request!

11-29-10  06:33pm - 5137 days #21
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Originally Posted by graymane:


You had to know I was gonna show up at this confessional aftermath aye, Sir-Messmer....I mean, what with our elderly status now a proclaimation of our having so much more in common ... including, but not limited to, our proverbial interest in matters of libido, variety and conventional, sundry taboos.
An' let me say, in all things practical and sane, you've wronged no one, nor have you done, written or said anything to apologize about. You've caused not a nano-moment of grief or hurt to anyone. So I'd say, rather than take on chastisement, stand and be counted amonst the other gifted, exceptional PU comrades, who continually grace this site with their humor, intellect, and communicasional elixirs.
Tomorrow you just might be like me, messmer, for want of attention you could exaggerate your age being more than it really is >>>>>>>>>>>kiddin', of course. (I wish)


Thank you kind Sir, very gracious of you! And three cheers for the libido which always stays younger than the body!

11-29-10  12:06pm - 5137 days #19
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Originally Posted by exotics4me:


No big deal messmer, we're porn fans where models stay "barely legal" until they're 35 and 28 year old models show up as "mature".

Just claim confusion and blame the porn sites for it



And don't forget about the 18 year old "MILFs!"

In any case, I am sorry, but who are you? Have we met before?

11-29-10  09:30am - 5137 days #17
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Originally Posted by turboshaft:


You lied about your age? What?! Zero tolerance--yer outta here!!

As punishment you will be excommunicated to a ultra-modest land of early Victorian-like prudishness where catching a glimpse of a bare woman's ankle could keep you going for weeks.

Okay, just kidding! On PU age really seems to be just a number since we don't have to see each in person (minus RagingBuddhist and his former lovely photo avatar) and it's not like we checking IDs. In other words, Traci Lords you are not and no one's hurt (or in jail for underage entertainment) because of your little stretching of the truth of your age.

Just don't lie about your weight and measurements--that I could never forgive!


Thanks, turboshaft, you made my day. One request though, if you have to banish me to a previous age could you make that the early fifties?

BTW, thanks to everyone for being so understanding. To most of you it wouldn't be a big deal and for that I'm grateful, but it really bothered me that I misrepresented my age.

Somehow it seemed a greater offense than using a nic, don't ask me why I felt that way but all I know is that it is off my chest now and I'm glad!

11-29-10  09:19am - 5137 days #16
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Originally Posted by RagingBuddhist:


I lie about my age all the time. I tell people, "I look good for 62". They don't have to know I'm 51, do they?


Something to remember, next time I meet someone new I'll have to try your method, RB!

11-29-10  09:17am - 5137 days #15
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Originally Posted by Khan:


I'll start by saying, it's no biggie, really ... don't sweat it.

I wanted to start by getting that on the record so nothing else I say here will be misunderstood as any kind of chastisement.


The sky is blue.
Water is wet.
Women have secrets.
People lie.

These are all facts of life I've come to know a long time ago.

I'll freely admit, I'm always confused at the lengths some folks here go to in their effort to "hide" ... I mean really, what *are* you afraid of (rhetorical question, no need to answer that one). That said, if it makes you feel more comfortable, then I have no problem with it.

The one aside I'll add is that if you (or others) want to use a fake DOB, that's ok with us. I'd just suggest you pick a date you'll be sure to remember since verification for password recovery is tied to providing the DOB you gave.

Oh yeah, and if you pick an age younger than 18, don't be shocked when the system locks you out ... but I'd think that one would be obvious.

So messmer, sleep well tonight knowing that you've done no harm here so there's really nothing to forgive.


Thanks, Khan. It was that DOB thingie that really made me do what I did when first I registered here. I am extremely reluctant to give out my real birth date to anyone, so I did what you suggest above and picked one that I would find easy to remember except with a different birth year. I felt okay about all the other questions .. so those facts truly represent me. I am going to go in a couple of minutes to change my birth year so it will accurately reflect my true age. My conscience is really a very tender thing so thanks for stating there's nothing to forgive.

11-29-10  09:07am - 5137 days #14
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Originally Posted by pat362:


Well I'm not going to be as nice as the others. You have been a bad boy and that means no cookie for you tonight and you can't stay up to watch the Grey Cup.


Ouch, that really hurts, Pat!

11-28-10  06:17pm - 5138 days #9
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Originally Posted by mbaya:


Nothing wrong with being a bit older. You are forgiven.


Thanks, mbaya!

11-28-10  06:17pm - 5138 days #8
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Originally Posted by Drooler:


I've gotten into "age" discussions here, but I don't usually pay that much attention to or even know what the real or declared ages of the other PUer's here are. It's only when someone says something relevant to their own age, and then of course it has been brought to my attention.

So to me, it's about as bad as when you snuck cookies from the jar -- even if you were 90 years old when you did it.


Thanks, Drooler, I started out not wanting to give away anything about myself but the closer I got to the people in this site the more my conscience bothered me about this falsehood until today I thought, damn it, if graymane can reveal his true age then why should I keep up this charade if it bothers me so much? I know, we all conceal and hide behind pseudonyms but for some reason this age business really kept nagging at me. Now I'm breathing easier.

11-28-10  04:20pm - 5138 days #5
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Originally Posted by Monahan:


Old? You're a kid in my opinion.

I was jerking off to the pix in Esquire when you were born. (Yep, back in 1956 that magazine had some "racy" stuff - Petty Girls & Vargas Girls.)


Thanks, Monahan. But I'm not quite the kid you think I am. I have five years on you!!! And I remember the Vargas girls well!

11-28-10  01:51pm - 5138 days #3
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Originally Posted by Capn:


Consciense purged.

You are now guilt free.

Cap'n.


Thanks, old friend (not literally old). At least you are one I don't have to feel guilty about any more!

One consolation to all younger PUs, don't be afraid, the libido lives on, as I and Graymane can testify!!

11-28-10  01:14pm - 5138 days Original Post - #1
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... but I have to confess that I am considerably older than my profile indicates. This was not an attempt to deceive a fine group of people but rather an effort to stay as anonymous as possible. All other data in my profile are correct.

This has really been bugging me since Sept. 2007 because I am not happy to be sailing under false colors .. so I had to get it off my chest and ask Khan plus the gang for forgiveness for not being entirely honest.

And now you know why I am able to find women in their fifties and sixties quite attractive!

11-28-10  01:01pm - 5138 days #26
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Originally Posted by lk2fireone:


Think about what you wrote. That description applies to a large segment of the PU members as well. I am more of a pack rat than a connoisseur of porn. I download a lot of material, much of which is stored on my hard drives and not even looked at more than once.

So why store it? In the chance I can look it over again sometime in the future. But in the meantime, I am constantly looking for even more material to download.

So the chance that I will be able to leisurely look over my collection grows smaller and smaller, as my collection grows larger and larger.

That's why I say I am a pack rat. I imagine the same applies to many of my fellow PU members.

It would be more intelligent to be a collector, and to keep only the finest and best photos and videos. But I don't operate that way.

And deleting porn content, unless it's really crap, is difficult for me.


I just saw your comment for the first time lk2fireone. What you are describing is exactly the way I do things, so count me in when it comes to that type of pack rat! I was talking about ripping a site: getting all the material without even looking if you might like it or not! There is a difference.

I usually watch a video in flash or open a picture set while I'm on line to see what's inside before I download it I really think there's moral divide between that sort of behavior and "emptying" a site of its contents just because you can.

BTW, the reason I returned to this subject is an article I read today that might be of interest to all:

http://news.cnet.com/8301-1023_3-2002391...mp;tag=2547-1_3-0-20

11-24-10  10:12am - 5142 days #26
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Originally Posted by Ed2009:


Sounds like the "Housewife" niche from the 70s-80s (and probably much earlier) which seems to have been forgotten now. That's what I assumed the MILF niche loosely replaced.


Very loosely. I just saw a DVD titled Teen MILF (or Teenage MILF?)!!!

11-24-10  10:08am - 5142 days #112
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Originally Posted by Capn:


I haven't given up yet!

Cap'n.


Well, I'm depending on you then to let us know when you've found our site because I am starting to get tired of looking!

11-23-10  07:55pm - 5142 days #41
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Originally Posted by pat362:


That's what I meant. A Jenna hardcore shoot usually involved anal and often DP. Neither Faye or Lexi have really done these acts. Maybe a finger or a tiny toy but that doesn't compare with Jenna's work. Add the fact that Faye has only recently started doing a few B/G shoots with other guys than her boyfriend. It's hard to tell if Lexi is still active because it's really hard to find any new stuff from her.


Boy, we'll need even more sub categories if you guys keep redefining things. I just downloaded one of Faye latest videos from RK where she is doing a gg/b. Is that soft core?

11-23-10  12:55pm - 5143 days #3
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Hey, Pat. Nice going. Congratulations!

11-23-10  11:28am - 5143 days #17
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No use looking for answers, graymane. We won't have enough time to ever figure out human sexuality and the things we respond to.

How do you explain all the spitting and squirting and slapping in DVDs made in recent years.

How do you explain fetishes like BDSM, or within that category, latex wear or leather masks or the need to dominate or to be submissive?

Your question addresses the latter. Some folks just get off on being verbally and physically humiliated. Why? Only a psychologist or psychiatrist would know. But it's an outlet for them so I'm glad niche sites like that exist even though I'm like Pat. I'm not built to take insults lightly, not even in sex!

There are smoking fetishes (the latest) or getting off on sucking on toes, as well as the thousands of niches we might find strange if we are lovers of main stream Porn only.

I still don't know why a woman wearing erotic lingerie turns me on so much .. I'm just glad it does!

11-22-10  10:36am - 5144 days #35
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Hey, great news. Welcome back, WeeWilly!!!

11-21-10  09:36am - 5145 days #36
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Originally Posted by pat362:


Lexi Belle or Faye Reagan could easily repeat what Jenna did but it will require them to go hardcore and neither of these girls has chosen that approach.


I am a bit puzzled by this remark, Pat. I have all kinds of hardcore scenes with Faye Reagan (Valentine).

11-19-10  10:38am - 5147 days #21
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Originally Posted by WeeWillyWinky:


See ya guys. After I post this I'm deactivating my account. I will not give another single red cent to the porn industry. I can't in good conscience support an industry that fattens itself on the continued and increasing dehumanization and defamation of women.


Sorry to see you go, www. I've always enjoyed your company. But I do have to point out that the "Porn Industry" is not monolithic. There are plenty of sites that do not abuse women. I am subscribing to two of them right now and am still desperately seeking for a site where the models do nothing but get undressed out of erotic lingerie, so not all fans of Porn are alike either. And, as someone else suggested, you could actually help "cleaner" sites that are less misogynistic survive if you kept supporting them rather than withdraw altogether.

Along with you I dislike the gorilla "actors" and their brutality with / and degradation of women. I don't get quite as outraged as you because, not being able to look behind the scenes, I usually assume that there is willing co-operation. Be it out of greed, sexual need or masochism, who knows?

If I ever thought there was coercion on the part of any producer then I hope he would be treated like a pedophile or rapist and locked up for a long time.

In any case, be well and I shall miss you.

11-19-10  09:55am - 5147 days #15
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I could never see myself kissing a nipple that has a metal stud in it! Or have oral sex with someone with a pierced clitoris hood. The thought is distasteful. Not that I would ever be in a position to do the above.

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