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Jay G (Disabled)
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No, I'm faithful, but not because I've always been that way. In younger days I was wild and went after anything pretty. I knew lots of strippers, etc., as well as many other pretty women and wasted enormous amounts of money chasing girls. The tragedies and tears of those casual relationships wasn't worth it.
Lesson learned? It's better to have one wonderful sex partner and not get involved in the messy and expensive business of promiscuity.
Porn is a great outlet for fantasies and actually MUCH BETTER than promiscuity with all its negative consequences.
I wouldn't ever judge anybody for promiscuity because I've beeen there, but I do hope they'll someday get to enjoy the pleasures of fidelity.
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06-20-08 06:12am
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Davit (0)
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I went for 'No I'm faithful' also. My missus is such a great girl, I have no desire whatsoever to do that to her, much as I might be tempted. I know I would feel too guilty to be the same with her afterwards.
Having said that, she has no idea I watch porn, so I already feel guilty enough about that (you never know how a woman will react if she discovers something like that) - but my love of lesbian porn predates our relationship by many years and I ain't about to give it up now. But as for actually fucking another girl - nah, that's a whole other ballpark and I wouldn't do that.
And like Jay G said - I agree, porn is actually better than promiscuity. It's physically safer (no STDs) it's cheaper, and in my case the women in porn are hotter and nastier than anything I would ever find in real life! Having said all of that - I'm reminded of the phrase: chance would be a fine thing! Easy to be moralistic about gluttony when your pantry's bare!
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06-20-08 07:25am
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williamj (0)
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I was lucky enough to be with a porn star and it was a good time. She roleplayed PSE like a pro and I had a great time.
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06-20-08 11:57am
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badandy400 (0)
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I would love to just for the experience if nothing else. Also, I would love for a chance to have a real conversation with a star. I think it would be great to actually be able to get to know someone I have seen in many of the porn movies. The only problem would be that then I do not know if I would want to watch the movies anymore, I think it would be different if I actually knew the girl in the scene.
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06-20-08 12:55pm
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Wittyguy (0)
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I voted yes but at the prices you'd have to pay for the experience I would be a little wary of a possible letdown or "punching the clock" experience. From what I've seen in a brief internet check it looks like a night with your dreambabe would probably cost you $2,000 on up.
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06-20-08 02:21pm
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PinkPanther (0)
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I'm single, so I don't have a wife to have to explain it to or lie to. There's condoms to prevent STD's. If I could arrange it in a way that I could afford it, sure, I'd do it!
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06-20-08 05:24pm
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pat362 (0)
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I'm single so can't use that excuse. My biggest fear is catching something. Condoms do exist but that doesn't mean that you won't catch something. It just means that you greatly limit the risk. One more reason is that my expectation is never likely to be met. We watch these girls for the fantasy aspect.
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06-20-08 06:57pm
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apoctom (0)
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This is something I've discussed with my gf. While I would normally be faithful, the opportunity to be with a pornstar or glamour model (Keeley) would be something that I couldn't pass up. As such, she has given me permission, should the situation arise, to enjoy myself.
God, I love that woman!
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06-21-08 05:33am
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roseman (Suspended)
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Of course, yes.
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06-21-08 06:34am
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Denner (0)
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Ten or 15 years ago, sure!
But at this age with a good (third) wife, I would not risk it.
Had adventures before and the cost was divorces (twice) - ok and some of those "One-Night-Stands" were great and went futher (not with a pornstar, though, but among others a pro call-girl, as we called it back then - almost married her, thank the Lord , I did not).
Think those kind of adventures belongs to the younger PU's - go for it, guys!!!!
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06-21-08 06:53am
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Drooler (Disabled)
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This question reminds me of that movie "Dumb and Dumber."
Well, I can't have sex with the model of my choice because, well, I just can't schedule it somehow. But I know a bunch of guys over at PornUsers. Maybe you could ask around there.
I'm fucking through with marriage, so I'd have no issues of fidelity.
I do admire you gents who wouldn't because you're faithful to your partners. I was, too.
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06-21-08 09:21am
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Jay G (Disabled)
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REPLY TO #11 - Drooler :
My deepest sympathy, Drooler. I've had more than my share of bad relationships and it wasn't always my fault, either. Loyalty is often unrewarded on both sides...
After being burned (really bad) the last time, I went for a year and a half avoiding relationships completely. Porn was a great relief when I was alone.
I only lucked out completely when I wasn't looking at all, I was even avoiding looking. When I met my present wife several years ago, I told her I'd go with her to an event that had been arranged by my sister-in-law, but made it very clear it "wasn't a date." I probably sounded like an ass about the no date thing, but I made it very clear I wasn't interested in a relationship.
Somehow things clicked even when I tried to avoid them.
Ironic isn't it?
However, I repeat, most of the pretty women I spent time with were an expensive and tragic waste of time.
Wait for the right person. It's better to have no one than the wrong one. If you're with the wrong one, you'll probably miss the right one.
Anyhow, my sincerest best wishes.
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06-21-08 05:07pm
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HeatherMcXxx (Suspended)
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I vote "No, Because I'm afraid it will be Ron Jeremy."
=)
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06-21-08 07:14pm
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SAJIB (Suspended)
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I will be very glad to pass with a porn model.
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06-21-08 10:43pm
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SAJIB (Suspended)
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I want a sexy porn lady.
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06-21-08 10:45pm
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Drooler (Disabled)
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REPLY TO #12 - Jay G :
Thanks, Jay G. I appreciate your supportive words. Getting burned is painful, but at least there are good lessons to learn from it. People have to find partners who have their hearts in the right place. That's the key: Understanding that that's where the other person is as well as oneself.
In my experience, dating is a kind of training in learning to identify the tell-tale signs of major trouble in the future. And you're not really "with" the person until all of the pretenses come down.
Well, take care, and thanks again.
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06-22-08 04:20am
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Jay G (Disabled)
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REPLY TO #16 - Drooler :
Drooler,
You really know what you're talking about.
Best wishes,
Jay
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06-22-08 09:24am
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Pinche Kankun (Disabled)
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Not married... So hell yeah!
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06-24-08 11:12pm
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