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hodayathink (0)
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No more than watching porn should be.
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12-18-11 02:02am
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Capn (0)
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I am undecided on this one.
On the one hand it is interaction on an intimate level.
On the other, it is only a virtual medium.
I certainly think it is a couple of steps nearer cheating than viewing pornography.
Cap'n. :0/
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12-18-11 03:18am
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elephant (0)
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I don't think its totally harmless and wouldn't say it was cheating either, it is one step beyond porn I agree. But not actually cheating on them, depends also how far it went, if it was a regular thing I'd become a little more worried.
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12-18-11 05:35am
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Jay G (Disabled)
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If large amounts of money are involved (as they sometimes are), it's cheating yourself and your spouse. My monthly porn costs less than a night out with the boys.
I would never again spend huge amounts of money on sexual pursuits like I used to. The spending can become like an addiction (that is, having a significant negative impact on your life) because of the money spent.
I haven't spent any money on cams and don't understand the attraction myself. It seems more expensive than real women or porn and far less fulfilling, but that's just my opinion.
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12-18-11 05:52am
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Cybertoad (Disabled)
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Its in the eye of the beholder, if it still fantasy? Then it would be no more Fantasy then anything else. I agree with Capn it does begin to push the envelope, but I see it more as i would a stripper. Its more intimate, buy the model is not just there for you. A private one on one Cam? Hmmm perhaps would grey the lines.
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12-18-11 08:26am
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gaypornolover (0)
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If you're just watching a regular cam in a chat room then no way. Even a one-on-one encounter, it's just like watching a stripper except they respond to your individual requests - but they're paid to do so, it's not like they actually care about you on an emotional level.
No, it's not cheating in my opinion.
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12-18-11 08:41am
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pat362 (0)
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I picked other because it's pretty borderline cheating. Afterall you are interacting with a woman who isn't your wife and I don't think your discussing the weather with her. It's not like getting turned on by a picture of a model or the movie just reacting to what she's doing.
I think the moment it truly becomes cheating is when you repeatedly go back to the same model instead of picking a different one.
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12-18-11 08:54am
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Capn (0)
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REPLY TO #6 - gaypornolover :
It is a level of interaction though, which I feel does step beyond fantasy, watching a video or looking at pictures.
Cap'n. :0/
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12-18-11 10:05am
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otoh (0)
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I'm not sure if I can call on it being cheating or not - I don't think so, my best reply is to agree with Cybertoad that it's ideologically the same as going to a lapdancing bar - whatever you think about the strippers there, then spending time with cam models is no more or less cheating than that.
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12-18-11 10:26am
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Drooler (Disabled)
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It depends. If you interact with the cam model to discuss, say, politics, history, science, or literature, then it isn't.
However, after the session is over, if you find that you've creamed your pants, then maybe it is (?).
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12-18-11 03:21pm
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slategrey (0)
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REPLY TO #10 - Drooler :
Agreed. Only would change the maybe to a definite yep.
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12-19-11 07:36am
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Wittyguy (0)
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I say no. How is this different from phone sex only you get the visuals as well.
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12-19-11 03:36pm
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slategrey (0)
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REPLY TO #12 - Wittyguy :
This statement is only valid if you dont think phone sex is cheating. Which i do (it got the word sex in it :s, gotta be cheating)
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12-19-11 05:40pm
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RustyJ (Suspended)
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It's not personal. No real emotion or physical contact.
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12-21-11 07:12am
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yote78 (0)
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Because it's pretty expensive, it depends on how much money you're throwing at it. If you're taking food out of Mom and the kids' mouths than I say it's the wrong thing to do. Guess you can't really call it "cheating" in the sense we mean here, but you are cheating those close to you if you get too wrapped up in it.
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01-02-12 11:03am
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Homegirl (Disabled)
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I would love to cheat with a cam model. When can we meet?
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05-31-20 07:41am
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