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Advent (0)
Active Webmaster  Posts: 103 Registered: Aug 13, '09 Location: Tampa, FL |
Why do girls gag themselves when giving blow jobs? There has been much discussion about this in the office for the past week or so. In the last 2 months I have reviewed over 600 scenes for the new site so I have seen this on many different occasions. When I asked some of the guys in the office if they liked it, I got mixed reactions, of course. Those that did not like it simply said it was gross. Those that did like it said it made them feel like the woman was trying really hard to please the guy. What are you views on it? I personally do not like it. Being a girl I think it is just gross to make yourself almost throw up while giving head and I think, how can that be attractive to the person you are giving head to? I am a very open minded person but this is something I just do not get or maybe it just has not been explained to me in the right context before. Let me know if this IS something most guys like. Owner Kick Ass Pictures CumEatingCuckolds, FootFetishDaily and Kick Ass Pictures Please feel free to contact me with concerns or comments, I would love to hear from you. | |
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| 09-04-09 10:49am - 5588 days | #2 | |
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lk2fireone (0)
Active User  Posts: 3,618 Registered: Nov 14, '08 Location: CA |
I don't like it, think it's abusive behavior. But apparently some guys do like it, gives the impression of male dominance over the woman. Also, the sado-masochistic element. Sasha Grey, in a lot of her scenes, slaps her sex partner, spits on him, gags when giving head, and gets slapped in return, that's part of her act. She's a very pretty woman, but I don't care for that type of behavior, doesn't turn me on at all. Like I said, apparently there is a market for it, though. The more you look at porn, you realize there are a huge number of fetishes, and different people will get turned on by different things. But those fetishes can leave other people cold or irritated or disgusted, as well. | |
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| 09-04-09 11:08am - 5588 days | #3 | |
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BabyGetReal (0)
Active User Posts: 39 Registered: Jul 26, '09 Location: Western Massachusetts USA |
I agree with both Advent and lk2fireone. Gagging, like facials, semen in the hair and eyes and nose and mouth, and jacking off to end a porn video, are all, for me at least, simply un-erotic behaviors demeaning to both parties. | |
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| 09-04-09 11:31am - 5588 days | #4 | |
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RagingBuddhist (0)
Disabled User  Posts: 893 Registered: Jan 23, '07 |
I've always thought that gagging scenes started because the porn industry was running out of things to push the envelope. When I was young, not every porn star did anal. Now it's rare when they don't. It used to be rare to see a creampie, now that's been done to death too. It's like an evolution of the product. "Gotta keep it fresh, so what can we come up with?" That's how we wound up with crap like a site dedicated to cumshots in eyes held open. I've also thought that there are far too many women with self-esteem issues and, somehow, the whole facial/gagging/choking stuff ties into it. I've heard it from more than a few guys that, if you want a woman to pay attention to her, treat her like shit. Considering what I've seen in my dating life, I don't see that as being too far from the truth. Abuse is "fashionable". I guess that leaves me out of the loop - I think it's stupid, degrading and repulsive. I don't like to see it and certainly wouldn't have any parts of it myself. Sarcasm is a body's natural defense against stupidity. | |
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| 09-04-09 12:21pm - 5588 days | #5 | |
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messmer (0)
Disabled User  Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Regrettably, I have to agree with you, RB. Going way back to my youth I always seemed to be a "friend" to all the girls I liked while the guys that treated them like shit had all the success. It was so bad that I wrote to my mother after I had left home: "I think you gave me the wrong advice when you told me to always be a gentleman! Girls don't look for gentlemen, they prefer the "dangerous" types." Told you I was very young at the time. :-) As to all the gagging and spitting and slapping, with someone like Kelly Wells or Amber Rayne or Sasha Grey (already mentioned) I am sort of fascinated by their going overboard like that because they appear to do it enthusiastically. With most others I steer away from scenes like that because I find them abusive. | |
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| 09-04-09 02:44pm - 5588 days | #6 | |
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Wittyguy (0)
Active User  Posts: 1,138 Registered: Feb 04, '08 Location: Left Coast, USA |
x Edited on Apr 20, 2023, 11:38am | |
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| 09-04-09 06:55pm - 5587 days | #7 | |
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pat362 (0)
Active User  Posts: 3,575 Registered: Jan 23, '07 Location: canada |
I don't know why anyone would enjoy seeing and/or hearing a woman choking and almost vomiting during oral sex. Call me old fashioned but the fact that she's giving you a BJ should be more than enough reason to convince you that she wants to please you. Max Hardcore is not the first, but like many things we now see in porn these days, he made it a must for each scene. I think I know why he did it, but I'm still scratching my head as to why everyone else is doing it??? Porn is a fantasy so I guess some people must enjoy that but I refuse to believe that most of us do. Long live the Brown Coats. | |
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| 09-04-09 09:27pm - 5587 days | #8 | |
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exotics4me (0)
Active User  Posts: 664 Registered: Jan 12, '07 Location: USA |
Just a thought, from my own experience, not in porn, the girls that gagged were always inexperienced at giving oral sex. Could that be part of it? Another way to promote innocence? I'm guessing there is a strong likelihood that it has to do with the whole control aspect of it. Keeping in mind, most men don't have control sexually in their real relationships! Personally, I hate the gagging scenes, hate spitting, slapping all of that that falls under "rough" play. I don't like anal sex scenes either, but strangely, I do like female anal masturbation. My first time I jacked off, I thought I'd invented it. I looked down at my sloppy handful of junk and thought, This is going to make me rich. - Chuck Palahniuk | |
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| 09-04-09 09:30pm - 5587 days | #9 | |
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badandy400 (0)
Active User  Posts: 869 Registered: Mar 02, '08 Location: ohio |
Hum....I guess I am going to drag me feet here and say that I do not mind it. There is a different feel when your dick is in her throat rather than in her mouth. It is tighter and has a unique texture that can feel pretty good. The gagging part is not necessary, but it might add to the fantasy that the woman is inexperienced. Someone who deepthroats a lot might not gag during that, but many like the "virgin" style and need signs of inexperience. Plus when she gags it tends to go a bit deeper for a second and then it tightens around the dick. Sounds kinda gross but feels great. One thing is certain, it is only for the guy's pleasure! There are a few sits out there that try to get the woman to vomit. In this case that is exactly what they are trying to do though. Ghetto Gaggers in one of them. One might be able to cough that up as a form of food play, but it really depends on taste. Oh that sentence was just wrong! :) Some people just like seeing things done in porn that they would not ask a woman to do in real life. Throat banging a woman until she pukes all over herself is not typically the kind of thing you ask a woman to do on the first date. Porn being the fantasy outlet that it is allows people to see it without asking for it. "For example, badandy400 has taken it upon himself to become the one man Library of Congress for porn with a collection that surely will be in Guinness Book of World Records some day." ~Toadsith~ PU Interview | |
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| 09-04-09 09:34pm - 5587 days | #10 | |
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badandy400 (0)
Active User Posts: 869 Registered: Mar 02, '08 Location: ohio |
That is not that strange E. I like them too, so long as it is fingers. It is different to have a guy impaling her rather than having the woman playing with it. There is no reason to think that a woman would not like a finger or two just for the naughty factor or the feel. Also, in a masturbation scene it is the woman doing everything herself, by her choice. If she chooses to finger her ass than why not enjoy the show. I am willing to be that most of us would rather see a woman fingering herself than a man doing the exact same thing. So....not so strange there E. "For example, badandy400 has taken it upon himself to become the one man Library of Congress for porn with a collection that surely will be in Guinness Book of World Records some day." ~Toadsith~ PU Interview | |
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| 09-04-09 09:42pm - 5587 days | #11 | |
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lk2fireone (0)
Active User Posts: 3,618 Registered: Nov 14, '08 Location: CA |
If that's the kind of thing you ask for on the second date, I'm wondering how many of the women you find are sticking around for a third date? | |
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| 09-04-09 11:02pm - 5587 days | #12 | |
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badandy400 (0)
Active User Posts: 869 Registered: Mar 02, '08 Location: ohio |
Well it is all in how you present the idea. Tell her it is dieting and sex all rolled up into one! She looses weight and she gets credit for giving good head. :) "For example, badandy400 has taken it upon himself to become the one man Library of Congress for porn with a collection that surely will be in Guinness Book of World Records some day." ~Toadsith~ PU Interview | |
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| 09-04-09 11:21pm - 5587 days | #13 | |
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lk2fireone (0)
Active User Posts: 3,618 Registered: Nov 14, '08 Location: CA |
badandy400, have you ever considered trying out as a stand-up comedian? If you are able to come up with lines like that, I would seriously give it a thought. Or if you can't deliver it in person, then you might go for humor-writing as a sideline. Your response was witty, refreshing.... it impressed the hell out of me. Honestly. | |
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| 09-05-09 01:05am - 5587 days | #14 | |
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PinkPanther (0)
Active User  Posts: 1,136 Registered: Jan 08, '07 Location: Oakland, CA |
For me it depends - I like a lot of rough play porn, so if it feels like the woman is jumping in with both feet, then it can be quite fun and hot - Keeani Lei's scenes for example. There are a lot of girls doing that stuff where it just feels like a young girl being exploited, and that's not fun or hot to me. Then there are the porn stars like Devon, who don't seem to have ever learned how to suck cock, so shoving their head back and forth - or having it shoved - is their substitute for having any skill at it. As far as eroticism, though, I prefer a woman sucking a cock, not just impaling her skull on it. I saw a scene from Fashionistas: Safado tonight where Katsumi(now Katsuni) was giving an awesome bj - not gagging, not shoving her head back and forth over it, but sucking it splendidly - very hot! | |
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| 09-05-09 08:37pm - 5586 days | #15 | |
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GCode (0)
Active User  Posts: 386 Registered: Feb 23, '09 Location: USA |
The worst is when a model lays on her back on a bed or couch and gets literally screwed by a guy in her mouth with loads of gagging. Actually, all gagging is straight up lame in my opinion. I've always been the type who enjoys sex scenes that's somewhat like reality. I also hate it when the people in the background are like rooting on the dude whose having sex. Keep it simple, sexy, and sensual - then I'm a fan. Then, when it comes to getting head from a women in my sex life. I just like it slow and with lots of tongue. Gagging would be nothing I'd ever request. If they want to do it, I think I'd be somewhat compliant, but she'd have to egg me on to do it. Something like her saying it's the ultimate turn on for her. I'm more in to eye contact when I'm getting head. Actually, I think the eye contact aspect turns me on more than the actual bj. Sexted From My iPad Edited on Sep 05, 2009, 08:40pm | |
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| 09-05-09 11:30pm - 5586 days | #16 | |
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badandy400 (0)
Active User Posts: 869 Registered: Mar 02, '08 Location: ohio |
Honestly of all the people here I have been wondering where Wittyguy comes up with his stuff. He always is coming up with something different. I can see some of it coming from hearing elsewhere, but some of it is to highly directed to something here it must be original. The trouble is that not everyone finds my humor funny. Of course you would find it funny, I mean look at your avatar. If you ever leave PU I am stealing it! Personally I love stand up comedy. I wish I could see more of it. Many people come up with some pretty good stuff and some of it even makes sense. I think you set that little line up with your first reply. I got a good laugh out of that. Usually when someone gets the ball rolling I can come up with something. Unfortunately I can not always get the ball rolling myself. I all just depends on the mood and topic. Anyway, thank you for the compliment. I try to make forum funnies every now and then. "For example, badandy400 has taken it upon himself to become the one man Library of Congress for porn with a collection that surely will be in Guinness Book of World Records some day." ~Toadsith~ PU Interview | |
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| 09-06-09 02:47am - 5586 days | #17 | |
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Colm4 (0)
Active User  Posts: 117 Registered: Sep 22, '07 Location: Holland |
Well, I'm not afraid to say I like to see girls gagging. First of all, I don't see it as abuse; If that was the case, the girl would not do the scene in the first place. I'm sure they're told upfront what to expect of them. And if it's too rough for them, they can always stop it during the scene. In most scenes, I don't see her feeling bad, maybe a bit uncomfortable, but not feeling abused. Second, which is a bit hard to explain, I see it as the girl getting really into it with her partner; Doing whatever the man wants of her and just doing it for the sake of pleasuring the guy. And third, some girls just do like it rough. I've seen enough interviews where they confirm that. Having said that, my preference are extremely wide; One day I want to see a rough scene, the next day I like to see a non-nude lesbian scene. For me, it's all about the chemistry between the performers which can show itself in both rough and soft scenes. | |
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| 09-06-09 03:13pm - 5586 days | #18 | |
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mbaya (0)
Suspended  Posts: 891 Registered: Jul 07, '08 Location: new jersey |
I don't mind gagging at all, as long as the girl doesn't overreact or visibly shows a lot of discomfort. I like gagging, but draw the line at vomiting, so I am not 100% tolerant. The reason is that for me porn is completely fantasy. I like all kinds of forceful sex, BDSM, etc. in porn. In real life, I am gentle and would never do that to a sex partner. Another example is gangbang scenes. In real life I would probably die of embarassment and couldn't get it up. But in porn, the more participants, the merrier. If porn resembled what I do or prefer to do in real life, no one would pay to watch it. Porn is there as a contrast. Just call me a weird pervert, like all of us here. | |
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| 09-07-09 09:33pm - 5584 days | #19 | |
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badandy400 (0)
Active User Posts: 869 Registered: Mar 02, '08 Location: ohio |
At least you are honest mbaya. In the situation of another guy being there I would feel like I was being threatened. If the guy had a bigger dick than me, which is not saying much, I would just want to go home! Vomiting is one of those thing that for me can be really erotic, or really gross. It just depends on how it is done. If the girl looks very uncomfortable or makes sick faces it becomes less fun for everyone. If she thinks it is fun or knew it was the goal than it can be a very interesting addition. I have a scene somewhere of a good looking girl deepthroating this dude and vomiting repeatedly. This scene is okay because the girl was into it and made it seem sexy somehow. The above is for porn. Now in real life I am not so sure about vomit. I think once it crosses to my side of my LCD screen it might be a different story. That is the beauty of porn, we can fantasize about all kinda crazy shit and not have to clean it up. Remember, it is still food even if it comes back up, in which case it is still fun to play with. Once it starts in the intestines it stops being food and is reclassified as poopy. Poopy is bad! Poopy is meant for flushing or throwing during riots, that is ALL! "For example, badandy400 has taken it upon himself to become the one man Library of Congress for porn with a collection that surely will be in Guinness Book of World Records some day." ~Toadsith~ PU Interview | |
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| 09-08-09 11:55pm - 5583 days | #20 | |
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shooterbo (0)
Active User  Posts: 185 Registered: Apr 25, '07 |
She is giving the man the ultimate compliment of making him momentarily think he is so large and long, she cannot handle him orally, but will sacrifice her dignity just for him. That's how I see it. | |
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| 09-09-09 11:30am - 5583 days | #21 | |
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Cybertoad (0)
Disabled User  Posts: 2,158 Registered: Jan 01, '08 Location: Wash |
I tend to delete those or edit them out, seems over the top for me. I do not like when it tend to appear to be abusive Since 2007 | |
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| 09-09-09 09:12pm - 5582 days | #22 | |
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turboshaft (0)
Active User Posts: 1,958 Registered: Apr 01, '08 |
"[T]hrowing during riots"? I will have to remember to stay away from you that dark day in the future when some mob forms and riots to take control of your collection! "It's incredibly obvious, isn't it? A foreign substance is introduced into our precious bodily fluids without the knowledge of the individual. Certainly without any choice. That's the way your hardcore Commie works." - Gen. Jack D. Rippper, Dr. Stranglove | |
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| 09-09-09 11:42pm - 5582 days | #23 | |
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badandy400 (0)
Active User Posts: 869 Registered: Mar 02, '08 Location: ohio |
Oh my, riots are coming for my porn collection!?!? I better start eating more fiber! Forget the shotgun, I will fend them off with a shitgun. "For example, badandy400 has taken it upon himself to become the one man Library of Congress for porn with a collection that surely will be in Guinness Book of World Records some day." ~Toadsith~ PU Interview | |
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| 09-10-09 12:00am - 5582 days | #24 | |
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lk2fireone (0)
Active User Posts: 3,618 Registered: Nov 14, '08 Location: CA |
turboshaft, what do you say we visit badandy400's porn collection while he's off somewhere? The guy sounds like he might do serious damage to the collection before folks realize he might have lost a few marbles. Even if we were caught by the authorities, we could always say we were hunting for National Treasure (I'm Nic Cage, you can be my sidekick). | |
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| 09-10-09 12:38pm - 5582 days | #25 | |
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Wittyguy (0)
Active User Posts: 1,138 Registered: Feb 04, '08 Location: Left Coast, USA |
x Edited on Apr 20, 2023, 11:38am | |
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| 09-10-09 01:31pm - 5582 days | #26 | |
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turboshaft (0)
Active User Posts: 1,958 Registered: Apr 01, '08 |
Sound's great! Let's hope it doesn't have some sort of self destruct booby trap hooked up to it. (I doubt it does -- he could never come to terms with destroying his collection.) Maybe he will even start his own Masonic society; the BadAndians or something like that, which revolves around the collection and organization of large amounts of Internet porn. :) "It's incredibly obvious, isn't it? A foreign substance is introduced into our precious bodily fluids without the knowledge of the individual. Certainly without any choice. That's the way your hardcore Commie works." - Gen. Jack D. Rippper, Dr. Stranglove | |
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| 09-10-09 05:16pm - 5581 days | #27 | |
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WeeWillyWinky (0)
Active User  Posts: 243 Registered: Jun 03, '07 Location: Havasu City, AZ USA |
Porn has been gravitating towards brutality for quite a long time, and accordingly I am even more out of the loop than RB. I'v stopped watching hardcore completely and don't even bother looking for the good stuff, because it's just too much work. Sex, for a lot of men apparently, is more about aggression and control than sensual pleasure. I'm beginning to think it might be like that for a lot of women as well. I don't think that based on my observations of porn, of course, but on the few relationships with women I've had and my conversations with women over the years. I've lost faith in the notion that women are interested in gentle, sensitive men. You know what I hate the most about selfish people? It's that they don't think enough about MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!! | |
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| 09-10-09 05:38pm - 5581 days | #28 | |
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badandy400 (0)
Active User Posts: 869 Registered: Mar 02, '08 Location: ohio |
That's right, I am good for the economy. When doomsday comes and porn is outlawed I will be in a very deep hole with a geothermal generator. No one will get there hands on my collection. I will throw those loose marbles at them. Wittyguy is correct, I would never hurt my collection. I have way too much invested into it. This would be a great, unforgivable sin and the porn gods would damn me to using the Sears catalog as jackoff material. I recently got three lab quality printers. Used they are about $500 a piece, I got them free because the store I work for is retarded and thought they were broken and are too lazy to reinstall the software. So when porn is outlawed and the world is in ruins I will have largest collection of porn and the ability to print it off and use it as black market currency. One day my porn will buy me food and body guards. Remember, it is only paranoia until it actually happens. Nope I am not not a founding father. I have no kids. But I have found a lot of internet porn! "For example, badandy400 has taken it upon himself to become the one man Library of Congress for porn with a collection that surely will be in Guinness Book of World Records some day." ~Toadsith~ PU Interview | |
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| 09-10-09 05:42pm - 5581 days | #29 | |
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RagingBuddhist (0)
Disabled User Posts: 893 Registered: Jan 23, '07 |
Hey, Wee - You don't have to jump out of hardcore altogether - you could just stay away from the gonzo sites and go with the amateur stuff. You'll find considerably less people playing to the camera and less trying to give people what they think we want. But, yeah, it's almost too much work, looking for the right sites. I've seen it said on some other forums I'm on that brand-name porn has just gone to shit, and I'm in total agreement. Unfortunately, I think it's going to be a long time before something changes. As long as people continue to pay for whatever garbage is being put out, the people making money have no reason to change anything. I watched some classic porn the other day and starting thinking about the VHS rip quality. Then the thought occurred to me how nice it would be if someone revived the same stupid plots and dialogue they had in the 70s and 80s and shot it in hi-def. But I guess it's easier and cheaper to pay a few people to fuck, suck and run amok for an hour, rather than have to hire a second-rate writer and a crew of performers. Sarcasm is a body's natural defense against stupidity. | |
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| 09-10-09 06:41pm - 5581 days | #30 | |
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lk2fireone (0)
Active User Posts: 3,618 Registered: Nov 14, '08 Location: CA |
There's a new movie opening October 16, 2009, titled "Black Dynamite". There's a trailer for the movie on Yahoo: http://movies.yahoo.com/movie/1809959827/trailer The movie itself is a new blaxploitation movie that is very similar to what was being made back in the 1970s. Back then, the movies were low-budget (with no big stars, about black men and women heroes (and anti-heroes) fighting crime, white criminals, black criminals, showing the power and purity of the black race. Get down, honky, kapow with a bullet in the face. Anyway, some of the blaxploitation movies became cult classics, like Shaft and Superfly. But this new blaxploitation movie, "Black Dynamite", looks like a piece of dog-doo. The kung-fu action in the clip looks fake, the humor is lame. So just reviving the lame plots and dialogue they had back in the 1970s doesn't work that well at times. This new movie does not look like it's high definition, but a low-budget waste of time. This is not porn, but an attempt to make money off the old-style movies from the 1970s. | |
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