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badandy400 (0)
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It is not really my thing. I can go for light stuff, and it has to be all girl for it to have any appeal to me. The heavy stuff is a turn off for me.
Women dressed in tight leather or PVC outfits can be very attractive if done properly. Beating the shit out of someone is another story. I do not see much sense in sex being painful.
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03-17-09 12:26am
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Jay G (Disabled)
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Love spanking, handcuffs,rough play, domination.
Don't care for cruelty, excessive rope & knots, debasement.
BDSM is a balancing act that allows a thrill of the fantasy of totally giving up control for the sub, and total pretend (but only pretend)control for the dom.
Just like sky diving, bungee jumping, scary rides, or scary movies pump the adrenaline and thrill many people, in sex BDSM is a fantasy ride that is not for the faint of heart.
It's running to the edge of the cliff and stopping, and is only for those who understand the "stopping" part very well. It's also unexplainable to those who don't get that kind of thrill.
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03-17-09 01:12am
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exotics4me (0)
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I put "not for me". I think a big part of the interest in bondage and the very rough sites and their enjoyment of their viewers depends on how the viewer was raised, type of environment, etc..
Growing up in the Belly of the Beast, South Central, Los Angeles in the 80s, has turned me completely against most things that even approach violence. I still hear women screaming from being assaulted or finding their son with his head blown off, so I have trouble with any site that could even start to make me think the woman is in any pain.
And similar to what Jay G says, I don't ride thrill rides, I've never bungee jumped or sky dived. As a kid, I used to have to go to the pharmacy to get my grandfather's diabetic medicine, and it was a run for my life most of the time. Kid carrying a $50 bill in an impoverished neighborhood filled with crackheads with guns.
Once we moved out of there, I never looked for an adrenaline thrill again. Having said that, I have joined several of the kink.com sites, and do like their content, I'm not even for sure that it falls in much more than very light bondage though.
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03-17-09 01:34am
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Drooler (Disabled)
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I'm with the "pleasure-not-pain" crowd. Sure, I suppose there's pleasure IN pain for some, but not me, so I steer clear of bondage and S&M.
I've picked up a few photosets here and there with a bondage theme, but that's only because the girl was hot and it was just a fetishy thing -- not that I care for that, either.
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03-17-09 01:44am
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TalonIcefire (0)
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I pretty much agree with all comments made thus far. If I've kept any fetish themed photos, it’s for the woman only. The image needs to be tastefully if not artistically presented. I like role play so long as all partners know and adhere to the rules.
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03-17-09 02:36am
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GCode (0)
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After looking at several videos and pictures of the years, I cannot say that bondage or S&M is for me. As having a degree in psychology, I do understand the mix mashing of sex and violence as a turn on for some (in a scientific approach). However, for me the association just does not work for me. Hell, even in the light 'domination' department in straight sex videos when the male tends to be overly aggressive usually turns me off. But, I have noticed more n' more that an aggressive female can be a bit of a turn on as long as they do it properly. I dunno how I can describe properly, maybe being aggressive but discreet at the same time. I dunno if others can understand what I'm talking about fully cause I cannot think of a better description at this time. Although, any form of leather/whips/etc. and beating others up just does not do it for me...
-GCode
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03-17-09 10:19am
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messmer (Disabled)
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I can't stand the Latex and rubber hoods and all the obvious fakery that goes with these sites. I am more sympathetic when it comes to ordinary people who, for some reason, need pain to reach a sexual high. I don't understand it but if that's your preference who am I to judge.
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03-17-09 10:43am
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james4096 (Suspended)
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I've warmed up to it more recently. That is as long as the woman is in the dominant position.
The hard core stuff still scares me, but some of the lighter stuff isn't bad.
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03-17-09 12:53pm
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lk2fireone (0)
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"Not my thing", says it all, as far as bondage / BDSM in porn.
As for porn in the US Congress: AIG pays insiders $165 million in bonuses after taking over $170 billion in federal rescue money.
AIG reported this month that it lost $61.7 billion in the fourth quarter of last year, the largest corporate loss in history, and it has benefited from more than $170 billion in a federal rescue.
AIG would be bankrupt except for the federal monies being given to it. And the insiders (the top executives) running the company, instead of cutting their salaries, are giving themselves $165 million in bonuses. Is that pornographic, or merely greed?
A billion dollars is 1,000 million (in the US).
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03-17-09 03:43pm
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pat362 (0)
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I like some of it but some of the other stuff just doesn't appeal to me. I prefer the girl on girl BDSM. I don't know if this means that it's less intense, than the ones involving men.
The things that I don't like is anything involving face slapping, spitting, tight restraints, heavy
whipping, and anything to do with needles.
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03-17-09 06:19pm
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Torn4do (0)
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I kinda like it, but not when it goes waay too far. I usually prefer men dominating women. As long as it's on a consensual way it works for me. I kinda feel I'm still exploring my limits when it comes to this niche. I enjoy some of them, but then when it comes to a line when it's too much it just makes me sick to my stomach. This is exactly why I voted "Like some; don't like others".
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03-17-09 07:47pm
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TalonIcefire (0)
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REPLY TO #9 - lk2fireone :
figure that's a combination of rape and greed...
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03-18-09 02:27am
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Jay G (Disabled)
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REPLY TO #9 - lk2fireone :
"Obscene" is a good word for the AIG thing. It really represents what's been going on in most of the biggest Wall Street entities in the last couple of decades where the store managers (CEO's, top execs) get to take as much money from the cash register as they want and put it in their pockets whether the store is making money or not. The stock holders get ripped off for years before someone realizes it's too often a POnzi scheme.
Also, these people really believe they're the only few hundred people in the USA who can run a company, so they deserve hundreds of millions while they cheat workers out of health care, etc., even if the company is losing money.
This is not pornography which is good. It's obscenity which is bad.
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03-18-09 03:09am
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TrashMan (Disabled)
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Not my thing.
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03-18-09 08:47am
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Wittyguy (0)
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REPLY TO #9 - lk2fireone :
I prefer to think of it as bad porn. They sucker you in, rip you off and take your money to pay royalties to the producers who left long ago after turning in their worthless turd productions.
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03-18-09 10:22pm
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nygiants03 (0)
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I really enjoy the Kink sites
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04-21-09 08:18am
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