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06-26-10 09:53am - 5293 days | #13 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Re. the software: that's what I thought too. Still waiting for justme's answer before I put away my tin foil hat. As to the cash grab .. that might play a part. Somebody will get a lot of money for the registration of sites that most likely will never be used but I believe, like others, that it is primarily meant to make it easier to turn off that switch on porn when a Government feels that the time has come. The only thing that re-assures me is that one of my sites has already decided they will never use the xxx. Hopefully the others have enough sense to do the same. | |
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06-25-10 06:40pm - 5293 days | #28 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
I'm worse than that, not only do I need the visual stimulation but I need to feel some sort of emotional bond as well. I have never had a one-night stand or casual sex. This means that despite my love of porn I am an incurable monogamist. | |
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06-25-10 06:30pm - 5293 days | #8 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
I honestly don't understand because I'm not a tekkie. If a concerned parent can use software to stop his children from looking at porn couldn't software be created that refuses to translate any xxx site into an ip address? I would like to be re-assured on this. | |
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06-25-10 03:20pm - 5294 days | #3 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
I hope everyone will be as smart as you, Advent! Still a shame that so many will have to pay good money to register a name they have no intention of ever using. Somebody is going to make a mint out of this. PS. I just read some of the comments following CNN's article and am even more convinced than ever that there is a real danger hidden in that so-called "convenience" of putting the whole industry under xxx. PPS: Even scarier yet, reading between the lines: "The .xxx internet suffix, which was first proposed six years ago by ICM Registry, a group that sells domain names, "will provide a place online for adult entertainment providers and their service providers who want to be part of our voluntary self regulatory community," according to that company's news release. Adopting .xxx will be optional. However, some tech blogs speculate a push to make the domain mandatory for adult-only sites." Edited on Jun 25, 2010, 03:51pm | |
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06-25-10 03:10pm - 5294 days | Original Post - #1 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Seems as if the "xxx" extension for Porn sites has been approved. CNN says it's a big day for the Porn industry: http://www.cnn.com/2010/TECH/web/06/25/x...tml?eref=igoogle_cnn but I have grave misgivings about it and hope that most sites will opt out. How simple it would be for Government to give this directive to an ISP: In order to minimize the corruption of our children and moral values do no longer allow access to any site that has a xxx as a domain name. CNN, too, mentions that this could be a real danger if all Porn sites decided to adopt the new domain name. | |
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06-23-10 09:33am - 5296 days | #21 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Agreed! | |
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06-22-10 10:08am - 5297 days | #18 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
LOL. I guess, just like me, you're not a multi-tasker, www. I have no quarrel whatever with your argument and agree with you in most points. Just want to point out that I was specifically referring to scenes that come suspiciously close to dancing and that is models standing while swaying from side to side while they prepare to undress. If a masturbation scene takes place on a bed or if the stripping is done gracefully without the swaying then music is not necessary or even desired. It would help cover up the creaks made by the photographer's equipment but that's not my biggest problem. So, in those cases, no music .. no big deal. | |
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06-21-10 07:40pm - 5297 days | #17 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
I agree, Pat. Kindness in a woman is highly prized by me as well, as is gentleness. | |
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06-21-10 07:36pm - 5297 days | #14 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
You are right, of course, there are times when music is totally inappropriate, there are times when the music itself is inappropriate to what's being portrayed in a scene. And there is music that will bring back memories you don't want to associate with porn. However, I'm not talking generalities, exotics, I just want some music when it comes to a solo strip / masturbation scene because it simply seems unnatural and awkward to see a girl standing there swaying in complete silence ... except for manifestations of great excitement by her, something that is totally out of place because she has just started her sway and isn't even undressing or touching herself yet. Something is needed to cover up this embarrassing awkwardness. Not only that but as I have mentioned, the silence is made worse by the occasional interruption by the crackle and creaking of the photographer's adjustment of his equipment. Horrible .. eroticism goes totally out the window. | |
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06-21-10 07:01pm - 5297 days | #11 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
LOL. "Rumble, Screech, Crackle" describes it well, graymane! That or deadly silence, except for the inexplicable gasps of the models who weren't even touching anything at that particular point! Just as you can't have a party without some sort of music so you can't have a silent solo. Once the gasps turn sincere, okay, but not from the first frame. | |
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06-21-10 06:56pm - 5297 days | #10 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Exactly, dancing isn't a sex scene except in the sense that the girls in this case eventually stripped and probably masturbated. They actually didn't even dance but did more of a side to side sway. I found it deadly without some sort of music accompanying it. The girls you saved .. did they have music in their scene? And, yes, I like 'em, too. | |
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06-21-10 06:50pm - 5297 days | #9 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
To Drooler: I'm not particularly keen on techno stuff either when it comes to background music but would find even that preferable to no sound at all, or the pathetic sound of phoniness, or the creaking of the camera .. or whatever does the creaking in those silent movies! A tripod, maybe? What brought on the subject specifically was that I had downloaded three solo scenes from 21Sextury (I forget the site now because I don't normally visit their glamor section) and all three models were sort of swaying from side to side as they undressed, making gasping noises before their hands were near anything gasp-worthy and I was thinking, God, what I wouldn't give for some music to cover up that fake heavy breathing and gasping. Then ten seconds later the crackling and creaking of the photographer's equipment broke into the girls' efforts and really ruined the clips. They could have been nice otherwise but I didn't stick around to find out. All three got deleted. | |
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06-21-10 01:53pm - 5298 days | #5 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Don't have a single argument against yours, RB! I agree with you completely. So, ignoring the copyright issues mentioned by Advent, how do you feel about solo models doing a dance or sway without accompanying music? Does it look awkward to you? Or not? | |
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06-21-10 01:44pm - 5298 days | #3 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Yes, a photographer at AO30 told me the same thing, advent! I had forgotten. This leaves one option: compose a "one tune fits all" for your site and give the royalties to yourself! And if your models moan before they even touch themselves then tell them to cut it out! | |
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06-21-10 01:09pm - 5298 days | #19 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
What a mess! I understand more and more why you reacted the way you did in your responses to various posts. You somehow HAD to be involved in the business (even though it turned out not to be Porn). It got my back up because I saw myself as a Union Member complaining bitterly about Management while a fellow worker kept defending the scoundrels! Glad you salvaged some things out of that soggy mess and that you're alive! | |
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06-21-10 01:00pm - 5298 days | Original Post - #1 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
When reading some of the reviews I get the impression that many of our members dislike hearing music in a video. As a matter of fact, some even list it as a negative. I agree that it can be annoying when it comes to a hot scene where you want to hear every moan and grunt, but it seems that sites have taken our complaints too seriously and have applied a cone of silence to all of their videos. I looked at three separate solo videos downloaded from 21Sextury yesterday where models slowly undressed as they did their swaying moves, not quite dancing but close, and music would have really enhanced those scenes. Instead they were giving off those fake moans and heavy breathing before they even touched themselves, not exactly a turn on. There's also the fact that in too many of the solo scenes you can hear the photographer's equipment as he adjusts it etc. etc. It would be nice to see those noises covered up through some low background music. Rant over! | |
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06-21-10 12:28pm - 5298 days | #8 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Yes, that's basically what I do as well, Goldfish. I usually watch a few minutes and leave. I would never think of going "private" because to me, as a married man, it's always been a line I should not cross. | |
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06-21-10 12:07pm - 5298 days | #17 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Well, I wouldn't be too concerned because glitches do happen in the electronic world and I am aware of that, but I would expect them to send every subscriber an email explaining their difficulties, since my first thought during that day would be, oh no, not another site going out of business. | |
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06-21-10 11:51am - 5298 days | #37 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
I have seen this mentioned in another place (HBO's Cathouse) where the owner of the "Bunny Ranch" mentioned that he found it strange that most trans-sexuals actually preferred females when it came to sex. This really confuses me when it comes to my theory of TSs being women in men's bodies. You would think they would prefer men. Unless they are lesbians in men's bodies ... aw, forget it. As I wrote in another spot I guess I'll never understand human sexuality. | |
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06-20-10 07:01pm - 5298 days | #8 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
I know that for men, tall and dark (hair) is the prerequisite for being handsome, in the popular mind. Thank God my wife's taste didn't run that way. I can also tell you the universal standard of feminine beauty when it comes to Brazzers subscribers! | |
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06-20-10 04:06pm - 5299 days | #3 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
I agree with the Cap'n on that one because I see the wide divergence of tastes when I look at the comments accompanying some videos or picture sets. | |
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06-20-10 04:00pm - 5299 days | #12 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
And you wouldn't be wrong! | |
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06-20-10 11:53am - 5299 days | #9 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Thanks for the explanation and for not getting defensive! I can see now where you would get your unwavering objectivity even though you are not involved in adult hosting. I, too, am happy to get the material I am looking for and don't worry if a site experiences the occasional breakdown, however 21Sextury are driving me up the wall by consistently posting updates that are not downloadable until a few days later, (as one example) so I can't remain passionless when things don't work right. I guess you have the gift of being more detached and less anal when it comes to those irritating flaws. | |
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06-20-10 11:43am - 5299 days | #33 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
That's how I see it as well, GCode! And your previous explanation was just fine. | |
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06-20-10 10:08am - 5299 days | #31 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
And I agree with Christina! She is a girl even though terms like TG, Tranny, Shemale or Pre-op female are bandied about to describe her present physical state. See one of my posts above. | |
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06-20-10 09:59am - 5299 days | #5 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
You love playing the Devil's Advocate, don't you? Either that or you're a wolf in sheep's clothing pretending to be a Porn User. I have often wondered, just reading your various responses if you are not somehow involved in the porn industry because I've seen you take on one justified criticism after the other and make excuses for the various culprits on a regular basis under the guise of objectivity. I agree that some of our statements are spur of the moment and that some of our criticisms are occasionally unjustified or too subjective .. but to see you consistently take the side of the site owners or their C/S is baffling in a forum like this, to say the least. I am not the confrontational type, so I don't want to start a war of words with you but your reactions do seem strange and out of place. | |
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06-19-10 09:33am - 5300 days | #27 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Don't let despair overcome you, turboshaft. Rest assured that if one of my daughters had "come out" to us she would have been every bit as cherished and loved as she was before. I'm sure there are many other parents who feel exactly the same way we do. | |
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06-18-10 10:31am - 5301 days | #24 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
I never made a distinction between a tranny and a pre-op trans-sexual. To me they are the same. Unless you are thinking of Transvestites when you say "trannies." Come to think of it I've never seen a site devoted to transvestites, or a DVD, that's why, to me, trannies and trans-sexuals are synonymous. | |
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06-18-10 10:23am - 5301 days | #2 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
I seem to remember from way back that Abby Winters had some videos of groups of women exercising and their breasts bounced nicely. Try a tour of AW and see if anything like that is still present. | |
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06-18-10 10:08am - 5301 days | #15 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Large or small, the nipples should be reasonably prominent on all breasts and on augmented ones (especially the super-sized ones) they are flattened out in a most unnatural way. They also don't have that cute little sag to them. | |
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06-18-10 09:59am - 5301 days | #14 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Oh, no doubt. Even the most vociferous opponent of enhanced breasts would have no problem with a woman's desire to have implants for medical reasons. Most of us think of the super inflated porn stars when we suggest (in jest) that implants should be banned! | |
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06-16-10 06:25pm - 5302 days | #7 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
I too would go along with laissez faire when it comes to the subject: implants or not. To each his own, even though I'll never understand the husband or boyfriend who gives his wife/girlfriend a boob job for Christmas! Or the girl who is saving up for one in order to have more of a Barbie silhouette. How infantile can you get??? If it's artificial I don't even want to touch it. Natural breasts are fine with me in all shapes and sizes. I am not stuck on any particular size but must say that I love my "saggies." | |
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06-16-10 01:11pm - 5303 days | #11 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Thanks, turboshaft, I really wasn't sure if my definition was right or not. Your last sentence makes things clearer. Thanks. | |
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06-16-10 10:55am - 5303 days | #31 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Right! But I am honestly surprised that the new model survived because I was convinced that you would have to go back to a combined site within a year. Well, all I can say is, I was wrong and still wish you the best because you are a class site (class sites). | |
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06-15-10 06:14pm - 5303 days | #20 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
The beginning of wisdom: The older we get the less we know! I'll join you in saying I really don't know shit about gender or human sexuality either! | |
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06-15-10 02:12pm - 5304 days | #18 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Yes, your brain knows what gender you are supposed to be. Nature defeats nurture in this case. Concerning this child, he should have been allowed to grow up as a male even though the trauma of finding himself with a crippled sexual organ would have been major. But if you are forced to live a genetic lie the trauma is even worse. If you are male, you know it, if you are female you know it as well. And then there is the third gender our friend from Thailand mentioned. I have never looked at it that way, and still don't, but believe instead that there are girls and boys born who know from very early on that they are somehow in the wrong body. This is why I look at a trans-sexual (female) as a true woman, who might still have male sexual organs, and not as someone of the "third gender." And I would assure Baddrifter that to me and to many others she is not a fetish! | |
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06-12-10 01:40pm - 5307 days | #2 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
POV stands for Point of view. In other words, exactly what you are looking for ... except (see below): the girl talks to you, undresses for you, you even get to fondle her vicariously or get a bj from her except that it is through the photographer's very visible hands and penis, etc. which of course you don't want! MILF: Mother(s) I would like to fuck. Gonzo: what you see in most DVDs today, no pretense of a story, it's straight to the sex. Mostly shot by loud-mouthed, bragging morons who happened to get a hold of a camera. Very monotonous, very repetitive but the public must like it or there wouldn't be so much of it. The other terms I can't help you with. P.S. If my definition of Gonzo is wrong I am looking forward to being enlightened myself. | |
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06-12-10 12:47pm - 5307 days | #18 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
I finally got it, graymane, after very carefully reading your original post again, plus your latest response: you are not talking about masturbation at all! That's what had me confused because I automatically associate "solo" with masturbation while you were thinking of the model and your fantasy of having sex with her .. two totally different concepts and I can see where you would want nothing to come between you and the model, not even hands because they would indeed get in the way. Proper communication can be so hard at times. (coin dropping) | |
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06-12-10 09:46am - 5307 days | #29 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Hey Sevrin, I agree with everything you say when it comes to the health and safety of the performers, trouble is that this is in conflict with my fantasies (as you stated so well.) I don't want to think of them as working girls/guys even though they are. Same reason I never download or watch "Behind The Scenes" offered in the videos. I don't want to see reality because it interferes with my imagination. That's one of the reasons why I am being drawn back more and more to Solo and g/g sites. | |
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06-12-10 09:37am - 5307 days | #16 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Graymane, it's just hard for me to visualize a model going through the motions without actually using at least her fingers near her pussy. Unless clit massage is okay with you as long as her pussy is not obscured! Otherwise it simply conjures up, in my mind, a horizontal bump and grind and not masturbation. And all the previous remarks are meant in fun! | |
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06-11-10 03:46pm - 5308 days | #12 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Talk to you some other time, turboshaft, I am busy experimenting with pillows at the moment! | |
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06-11-10 09:35am - 5308 days | #28 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
The biggest change I would look forward to would be to see all three of the sites combined once again. AW was my very first pay site, as well as my very first review for which I got a non-confidence vote because I was so enthused about it that someone must have thought I was shilling for the site! Still wish that someone (and you know who you are) would remove that single stain on my otherwise unblemished record. | |
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06-11-10 09:29am - 5308 days | #10 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Thanks, RB, for inadvertently enlightening me. I was trying to puzzle out how a woman could masturbate without "getting her hands anywhere near her pussy," I honestly never thought of pillows or furniture or stuffed animals .. so many different ways of doing it and I missed out on all of them! | |
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06-10-10 04:08pm - 5309 days | #22 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
I've been trying for days to remember one of the most erotic movies I ever saw. Finally, after a long wracking of brain: La Chiave (The Key), Italy 1984. This is one film I will never forget. http://latemag.com/the-key-la-chiave | |
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06-10-10 01:26pm - 5309 days | #5 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
I think what happens to you when it comes to masturbation holds generally true across every category of porn. I subscribe to various sites yet have to wait for days, sometimes even weeks before the set or video that I've been waiting for finally shows up. Trouble is there are so many different tastes and they try to cater to all of them which waters it down for us. | |
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06-09-10 02:38pm - 5310 days | #10 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
I am convinced that they do know that we know. It's just a way of introducing another sex scene. I like it far better than 99% of the scenes found on DVDs where they jump right into the sex without any preliminaries. There are so many incongruities when it comes to reality sex that I just ignore and go along with the deception and am glad there's a bit of a story to it! I like Reality Kings for that even though their scenarios are far from real as you pointed out yourself. | |
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06-08-10 09:55am - 5311 days | #6 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Support Your Local Sheriff, Support Your Local Gunfighter, Maverick, all with James Garner. Not necessarily the best Westerns ever made but the most enjoyable for me! | |
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06-02-10 04:16pm - 5317 days | #38 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Well one thing about gynaecological shots (like in ITC), you can see if a model is genuinely excited or not. Nothing like a speculum to help you see if the shoot is done for money and fun or for money alone! Written in jest because I prefer shots from a bit farther away. | |
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06-02-10 04:05pm - 5317 days | #17 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Thanks, Witty. I am relatively new to DVDs and videos, having been a picture guy most of my life, so I didn't associate Stagliano with Evil Angel. If you feel like it could you refresh my memory what the reason for the charge was? Did he shoot in the wrong State as well? Or was he too excessive like Max? | |
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06-02-10 04:01pm - 5317 days | #64 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
This may sound improbable but I happen to think it's true: the politest forums by far are found in Porn sites and right here in PU's forum. Maybe it is because we feel like a persecuted minority at times, (see the thread re. AW), so we tend to band together a bit more. We are also reminded daily of how different we are from each other through individual reviews and comments when it comes to personal taste, and this creates a certain tolerance for views that are different from ours. The few times I have seen nastiness here has always been in connection with suspected spam. Out there, in the Usenet groups, as well as in the remarks following articles in the various newspapers or magazines like People or News Sources like CNN, there is a cynicism and nastiness that is breathtaking. I guess Amazon is no exception. | |
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