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08-21-12 03:31pm - 4506 days | #16 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Great advice because I have definitely developed that collector's mentality you write about and there's tons of material in my stash that I downloaded because I thought I would really enjoy it but then forgot in my eagerness to download the next scene/set that appealed to me. Maybe I can categorize some of the loose stuff I have a bit more and put it into different folders (mature, young, ethnic, slim, BBW etc.) Might keep me busy for quite a while, too. | |
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08-21-12 01:59pm - 4506 days | #2 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Thanks, Denner, you just reminded me to replace my signature. Oh, I almost forgot to mention the reason for it. Very loosely translated it could mean: "anyone who thinks porn is evil can't be trusted!" Edited on Aug 21, 2012, 02:02pm | |
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08-21-12 01:09pm - 4506 days | #6 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Now, see, if you simply looked for a solo strip sequence with some spread shots in your porn you wouldn't have to worry about condoms. I mean, who needs to see male parts, I know what they look like. | |
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08-21-12 01:04pm - 4506 days | #13 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Thanks, Claypaws. I am into my second porn-less day, so we'll see how it goes. I do take your remarks and those of others seriously so that's exactly what I will do: stop completely for a week, I won't even look at my stash. I've always been a bit skeptical about this method because I have a craving for more sites in a niche that appears to have almost disappeared, which is slightly different from being jaded, but what the heck, what's the harm? Right? Maybe teenies in short jean skirts and not much else will start looking good to me after the fast. | |
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08-21-12 12:54pm - 4506 days | #12 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
^ Thanks, CT. You always have something wise to contribute. Your remark that " I have never found anything better than the first scene I liked" is very true, I think. And so we keep hunting for something that will approximate the thrill we felt then. This is especially frustrating for someone older because times have changed so dramatically that we will probably never find it. Or, maybe, as others have pointed out, all the exposure to the vast offering of porn might also have made us a bit jaded and thrills are therefore are harder to come by. I think all these things are contributing factors .. but, and I can't stress this enough, I would be quite content with a thrill that isn't quite as powerful as that "first scene" if more than the one site I found so far catered to my niche which is so innocent it is almost non-porn: mature, fully clothed women, wearing lingerie, getting slowly undressed until completely nude. A bit of pink at the end of that sequence is, of course, always greatly appreciated! If I could subscribe periodically to three - four sites like that I would be in Heaven! | |
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08-20-12 07:06pm - 4507 days | #9 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
No offense taken, jb! I wouldn't doubt that I have become somewhat jaded. That can happen easy enough to a person after a life-time of looking at porn. But not entirely so, give me a model in erotic and alluring lingerie striking seductive poses and I become unjaded very quickly! | |
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08-20-12 02:01pm - 4507 days | #7 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
That would be the sensible thing to do, Cap'n, but the Hunter - Gatherer in me is so strong that I just have to have a site to look at daily (and download from) even though there are many sets and video clips in my archive I haven't even fully seen yet! Pathetic, I know! Who knows it might be the "gather ye rosebuds while ye may" syndrome! | |
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08-20-12 12:21pm - 4507 days | #5 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
I'll take anything, Micha .. from solo to coital result! Fetishist leaning? Twenty years ago it wouldn't have been, even ten years ago it would have been quite normal to see ladies take off their clothes and reveal sensual undies before getting fully undressed. Nowadays this is so scarce that the wish to see this has become a fetish of sorts. The overwhelming theme nowadays is wholesome, pretty youth. Healthy, outdoor-sy, matter of fact about nudity, while my preferred theme is sensuality, slinky, lace trimmed undies, candles, perfume, bedrooms, a slow teasing, an anticipation of great sex to come. I can't really put it into words. I guess it boils down to youth vs. mature. I know, rearadmiral, not in all cases! Thanks for asking, Micha! | |
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08-20-12 12:12pm - 4507 days | #4 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
That's not the first time I've heard that, lk2fireone but it is amazing how quickly the thrill comes back when I see some ladies in pretty lingerie before they get fully undressed! Does plain nudity leave me relatively unmoved .. the answer to that is an unqualified yes. I don't think a break would cure me of that. In this case you are absolutely right .. I have seen so much of it over a rather lengthy life time that what turns on a young male is fairly ho-hum for me. There's just no romance, no sensuality in a quick shedding of clothes. But that's me. Told you my tastes are different. | |
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08-20-12 10:56am - 4507 days | Original Post - #1 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
As of today, for the first time since 2007, I am not subscribed to a single porn site and it feels weird not to be going somewhere to check the latest updates. How did this sad state of affairs come about? I am too fussy, that's how! That's my whole problem. I no longer collect any videos that are less than 720p .. so goodbye Videobox and others like it because with only one HD video update a day (which is usually not to my taste) they no longer satisfy my rather narrow requirements. I no longer collect most picture sets because the formula has been reduced to cute little girls taking off cute little girlish outfits within seconds, to leave you with a sequence of repetitious nude studies. The sites containing mature women feature them in top, jean skirt or jeans, with most going without bra or panties, reducing THAT set to a sequence of repetitious nude studies as well. The way it's been going is like this: I sign up with a site, find an abundance of stuff that appeals to me during the first two days because I haven't been there for a year or so, gush over it, then get caught up and look at mostly boring updates for the next three and a half weeks. Right now I am desperately browsing for a mature site (again) that features women who dress, to start out with, like ordinary women. In other words, they not only wear outerwear but also underwear and all that in HD or crystal clear high resolution sets. I found one site among thousands that came close but I just finished with a subscription to them and will have to wait a while before I resubscribe. I am sure that there must be dozens of sites that would be suitable, what I need is someone who will point me to a quality MATURE site. It can be softcore, hardcore, solo .. yes I am getting less demanding, but it has to be quality and mostly HD and contain fully dressed women to start with. The most obvious ones: AO30, Anilos, Karups Older Women are out for now because I have to wait a little while longer before enough material that suits me accumulates. Right now they all seem to be going through a basic "four items of clothing without sexy lingerie" phase. Sad experience has shown me that by searching "mature" I will usually be pointed in the direction of some cheap Russian site that stopped updating two years ago. Sad experience has also shown me that I won't get many replies to this request because, as I wrote, my taste is too narrow. Edited on Aug 20, 2012, 11:02am | |
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08-18-12 10:08am - 4510 days | #4 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
I wouldn't worry about a law suit, rearadmiral. If you read and re-read the TOS, and things still aren't obvious, he hasn't a leg to stand on. In any case, he sounds like one of those small time operators who would go broke if he had to hire a lawyer. And, yes, I had two different web masters contact me by email after a critical review in order to tear a strip or two off me. They've also done it to me on this site as a public comment to an unfavorable review. Most are very good about it, though, and accept that reviews are subjective by nature and that some might not like what they offer. | |
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08-15-12 01:48pm - 4512 days | #13 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Sorry, I didn't find that funny! | |
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08-14-12 06:10pm - 4513 days | #27 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Boy, if I had ever come out with a question like: "Is there anything you would like to try that we haven't done before" I would have found myself in the presence of a silent, turned off block of ice. Things were always spontaneous, unplanned, done in the heat of the moment, so to speak, and a question similar to the one above would have been a sure fire mood killer. But that was us. Regrettably all too long ago. | |
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08-13-12 10:38am - 4515 days | #10 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
That would be a great way of doing free live cams, lk2fireone, may many sites imitate Metart in that respect! | |
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08-13-12 10:36am - 4515 days | #13 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Actually I wasn't alert. I just didn't know all that much about Frank Sinatra's (or Twiggy's) private life, graymane, and took your word for it. I did know about Mia Farrow but with those big stars you never know who else was in the line-up! | |
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08-12-12 10:15am - 4516 days | #12 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
I agree with your sentiments, EP, but not with your last sentence because, in my experience, many males are driven by their libido to seek out sex, with like/love playing no part whatsoever, otherwise we wouldn't have such a thing as the sex trade. | |
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08-12-12 10:06am - 4516 days | #8 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
That's how I feel as well, PP. Same with many people who leave comments on picture sets and videos. Some must be masturbating as they make their comments while others are just plain abusive. I get embarrassed for them and for the models. | |
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08-12-12 10:03am - 4516 days | #7 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Hi Toadsith and Elephant, thanks for your thoughts, however I was not talking about cam sites in general but the free live cam shows offered by various sites to their subscribers. I don't go to the regular cam sites, ever .. not my cup of tea. | |
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08-11-12 03:59pm - 4516 days | #9 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Drooler, what would we do without you? Your posts are hilarious! | |
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08-11-12 03:38pm - 4516 days | #3 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
I am not so sure about that gentleman business, Heather, but thanks. I grant you, however, that I am a gentle man who could never be verbally abusive to any woman (outside of play acting ) and that includes cam models and porn actors and sex trade workers in general. BTW, I agree with you about web anonymity. It horrifies me how brutal, aggressive and insulting so many of my fellow human beings can be. Totally contrary to what I always believed before the Internet came along. Edited on Aug 11, 2012, 03:42pm | |
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08-11-12 03:23pm - 4516 days | #10 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Hey, thanks for that bit of info, graymane. I had no idea that Twiggy married Frank Sinatra. What was wrong with that man. He was Italian after all and Italians like a bit of a cushion on their women. Or at least they used to. Times are changing so rapidly on me that I can't keep up any longer! | |
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08-11-12 03:19pm - 4516 days | #7 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Thanks for the compliment, graymane, but I can't take credit for the way I was built. It doesn't take any effort on my part .. I managed to luck into meeting the love of my life 52 years ago, and that's all there is to it. Maybe part of the credit can go to the fact that she's always allowed me to ogle other women (in life and on line) without getting jealous .. who knows, if that's not responsible for keeping me on the straight and narrow? | |
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08-11-12 01:58pm - 4516 days | Original Post - #1 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Some sites have introduced live cam shows for their members. On the surface that's a pretty neat idea but it doesn't work for me. I don't know how I managed to stay a prude all these years but I really get offended at the coarse requests made of the model of the day. It's live and I just squirm while anticipating her reaction. I must say, most of the time she will be a pro and not react adversely, but it sure makes me squirm inside. So one part of me wants to stay and watch a favorite model do her thing but the prudish part of me turns the show off after a couple of minutes. Are YOU ever offended by some of the comments or requests other viewers make, or do you say, big deal, that's part of the porn world .. put up with it or move on? Just curious. | |
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08-11-12 01:28pm - 4516 days | #5 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
^Hi graymane, for me it has to be an unequivocal yes, no matter how long I have been married because sex without love is unthinkable to me. Of course there wouldn't be the same sort of fire there is when you first start out, I grant you that, but nature hasn't given me a choice in the matter. I am monogamous for life. | |
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08-11-12 11:08am - 4516 days | #8 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Would require quite an adjustment by many present day males who are into the skinny, teenie look, wouldn't it? As I wrote in another place, I love them all .. skinny to so-called BBWs and anything in between. Skinny is my least favorite though because I prefer mature women. | |
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08-11-12 10:56am - 4516 days | #3 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Hi marcdc1, this romantic thinks that the subject has pretty well run its course! It is my personal feeling that the overwhelming majority of the members would give a resounding yes to your question. | |
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08-10-12 02:00pm - 4517 days | #21 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
How do you know they weren't in love? | |
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08-10-12 10:40am - 4518 days | #16 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
While the answer was obvious it still elicited some interesting responses, Pat. I am still amazed that people could hand money to a complete stranger, no matter how hot, and have sex with them. The moment it becomes a commercial transaction, sex (for me) turns into nothing more than the temporary appeasement of an appetite. Let me stress that this is purely personal, that I see nothing wrong with others availing themselves of escorts or prostitutes, but for me I would "wilt" the moment I handed money to a woman for a sex act. | |
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08-09-12 01:10pm - 4518 days | #9 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Strange question, after all, there is such a thing as the sex trade. If some of our users engage the services of an escort they are not looking for romance. We are all collecting pictures and videos where the performers do not have the slightest romantic interest in each other. Except maybe for Otto Bauer and Audrey Hollander! However, having said that .. I could never engage the services of an escort, I could never have casual "buddy" sex. For me, there has to be that combination of love and sex. That's why my life time batting average has been extremely low. And I'm not ashamed of it. There's nothing like holding the one you love, after sex, and feel that emotional, almost spiritual oneness that comes with a loving relationship. OTOH, can you masturbate without love? That's a definite yes! | |
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08-04-12 11:00am - 4523 days | #11 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
I didn't have much of an opportunity to get my hands on Porn in the eighties and early nineties .. so I can't say much about the general appearance of the actresses / models. As long as there was a site where the models wore pre-cotton, pre-pantyhose, pre-utilitarian lingerie, that would keep me happy! | |
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08-02-12 12:10pm - 4525 days | #16 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
I simply don't like that perfect "roundness" that seems to come with every implant. Those breasts really do look as if they have been bolted on. And being a nipple lover I also find that enhanceds tend to flatten out the nipples, at least with many of the models. I'll take Toadsith's "flapjacks" any time over the surgically "improved." | |
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07-30-12 10:58am - 4528 days | #15 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Thanks, Toadsith, I'll give Chrome another try! | |
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07-29-12 10:46am - 4529 days | #12 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
^ Locking my computer is an obvious answer but I am always afraid that if I have to get it fixed the technician would see all the porn sites I subscribe to, as well as my user names and passwords. The old Netscape had a password that would stop unauthorized people from using it and now Firefox appears to be the only one that allows me to delete browsing history, cookies etc.,yet keeps all my site info, user names and passwords, protected by the master password. | |
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07-28-12 07:23pm - 4530 days | #15 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Let me add my congratulations, CT! | |
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07-28-12 07:21pm - 4530 days | #9 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
I've tried Chrome a few times and liked it but always went back very quickly to Firefox because I could protect my user names and passwords to the different sites with a master password. Is there such a thing in Chrome yet? A simple password just to stop others from even opening Chrome would be good enough. | |
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07-28-12 02:10pm - 4530 days | #2 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Rearadmiral, you give yourself a good slap in the face right now. Remember your vows! And I will have to go after the Olympic Committee to see if those beach ball bikinis cannot be changed to a more modest one piece bathing suit. P.S. The girls from Brazil weren't too shabby either! | |
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07-28-12 12:51pm - 4530 days | #6 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
All the time with mine. Same specs as yours! Couldn't count the crash reports that my computer has submitted. Sometimes everything freezes when I'm in Firefox and I'm forced to do the ctrl-alt-dele routine in order to go to the taskmaster to shut it down. I've heard it's only a problem with the latest Firefox?? Could be wrong on that, though! | |
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07-28-12 12:39pm - 4530 days | #20 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Well, there you are way ahead of me, graymane. We didn't get Sears or any other kind of catalog where I spent my formative years. I took the odd magazine home from our store if it featured a "Vargas Girl!" Remember those? They were hot, yet all they wore most of the time was a one piece, quite modest bathing suit. | |
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07-28-12 12:34pm - 4530 days | #19 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Okay, I go along with the teddies, CT but cannot agree when it comes to long cotton t-shirts. They kill my libido as surely as does pantyhose. | |
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07-28-12 12:28pm - 4530 days | #14 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
I agree, especially in connection with your last sentence. What makes it worse is the fact that the few sites that feature "over 40 hotties" contain an awful lot of models with false breasts. | |
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07-27-12 06:48pm - 4531 days | #14 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
We were born at the wrong time, graymane. Censors decided just about the time you and I were born that things were getting out of hand. Before this, even in Hollywood, just about anything went. Many of the most famous early female stars performed in movies that would be considered soft porn these days. I remember seeing one Tarzan movie, before Johnny Weissmueller (sp?), where Jane was swimming, and swinging from tree branch to tree branch, completely nude. It's a good thing we got a second chance with the Internet! | |
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07-26-12 10:45am - 4532 days | #10 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Hey, guys, for those who took me too seriously, this was written tongue-in-cheek .. I was basically doing what I am always doing, except this time from a different angle: bemoaning the fact that so little erotic lingerie is featured anywhere! Apologies to Helen Hunt, I know she wasn't the first one to wear unappetizing cotton shirts. | |
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07-25-12 06:14pm - 4533 days | #7 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
But I told you already, Pat. You're not listening! They think dark, unpleasant thoughts to take their minds off the job at hand and let Viagra do the work! | |
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07-25-12 06:08pm - 4533 days | #3 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
But the temptation to be in the same bed is greatly reduced, RB! | |
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07-25-12 03:53pm - 4533 days | Original Post - #1 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
That's how it all started, with Mad About You, way back in 1992. With Helen Hunt going to bed in a long cotton shirt, Paul Reiser in boxers and t-shirt! Before that, women at least had the decency to want to look enticing to their men by putting on something silky, dab a bit of perfume behind their ear, give little signals etc. .. but along came that accursed show with cotton and little printed hearts and bears and bunnies, and things haven't been the same since! No wonder it is basically one child per family now! Oh, for the good old days! Give me back my sixties, seventies and eighties! Naw, I knew you wouldn't understand! Edited on Jul 25, 2012, 06:09pm | |
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07-25-12 03:30pm - 4533 days | #3 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
The male performers force themselves to think about something really sad, or disgusting, trusting in Viagra in the meantime! | |
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07-23-12 12:32pm - 4535 days | #5 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
Too bad you couldn't name the sites because it might have helped me zero in on who the culprit was in my case. A slim chance I know. I had subscribed to two new sites who did their own billing and shortly thereafter I was also being charged on a monthly basis by some outfit called Jacshelp.com. Look it up with Google. Bunch of scammers!! But I also cannot blame you for being discreet, who wants to wrongfully accuse anyone? If at all possible I would stick with CCBill, Epoch (my favorite), Segpay or Verotel. My credit card has never been touched, except for the purchase I made, by any of the above as long as I watched out for pre-checked cross sales. | |
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07-22-12 04:56pm - 4536 days | #6 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
You made me curious and I looked Kacey up and I would say she is not even voluptuous, except for her D cup breasts from what I can see in the preview. In pre-Twiggy days ( you won't know her but she was the first skinny model to gain fame) women who are now called BBWs would have been called statuesque or Rubenesque! She is definitely snuggle worthy even though I am not allowed! And will the real Heather please stand up: you've changed your Avatar again and each time you look a bit different from the time before. Not that there is anything wrong with any of them! Edited on Aug 11, 2012, 11:03am | |
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07-21-12 07:49pm - 4537 days | #13 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
I second that, Drooler. The one and only time I sent them an email I got a bit of an arrogant return. | |
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07-21-12 07:47pm - 4537 days | #19 | |
messmer (0)
Disabled User Posts: 2,582 Registered: Sep 12, '07 Location: Canada |
No way could you look worse, graymane .. unless you died somewhere along the way and they just dug you up! | |
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