I am not sure why you would use second person when just posting comments. Even if it is a model's personal site I doubt she would actually read much of the content. Beyond a chat or web cam, I have to agree that it is creepy.
Oh please, they believe in liberty and small government...except that usually only means taking liberty with the Constitution and making the government smaller when it comes to taxes.
You can take comfort that it is already illegal in much of the U.S., or it is on very thin legal ground that is getting thinner.
I say "A little of both" as keeping things passionate can involve getting a little rough. Frankly, wine and a fire are not fantasies of mine, whether it be in porn or real life. And ultimately isn't it always up to the female, since she agreed to be in the scene?
I can only tolerate a site with no download limits (though they can still limit the number of connections), but it really depends on the space limits of my hard drives.
I am sure I know where badandy stands on this one. ;)
Well, unless you live here (the U.S.) you probably don't know the half of it. In fact, even if you do live hear you still probably don't know the half of it -- ignorance really can be bliss!
To me, real obscenity is like the bullshit I saw in my local paper yesterday: a blurb about a freshman (and he's only 28) U.S. congressman posing in a $1700 suit for GQ. Disgusting. Every month thousands of Americans are still losing their jobs, and their part of the "best health care system in the world" along with it, and this asshole has the gall to prance around for a fashion magazine. But hey, it's not like congress has been getting much done anyway.
I like a little slap on the ass every once in a while, but most studios and sites seem to do either what PinkPanther mentioned -- the genitals-only contact -- or treat the sex as a full contact sport, where no part of the body is left untouched by a fist or some spit.
I am always amused by the way many guys start either very reluctantly or very aggressively. If there is any plot, it seems like it is either "Hey, what are getting naked for?" or "I'm going to punish you: now let me see that pussy!" Granted if I was on camera my voice would be cracking and I would be blushing heavily, but the fact that there doesn't seem to be a lot of middle ground is pretty funny to me.
I don't like taking pills, not even aspirin, so I have to say I never have, and (hopefully) never will!
It's just the newest product to pray on the age old male insecurity; promise, or just hint at enhancing the penis and men fork over the cash before you can even say Pfizer. It's sort of like how plastic surgeons pray on women, except that method actually works (sort of) as long as you're willing to go under the scalpel.
"Any, as long as she's pretty" -- and I mean it! I say I prefer red heads and brunettes with breasts on the small side, but my preferences go right out the door every time I start a new membership or simply meet a new girl. I think the demands of evolution keep me from being to picky. :)
I would also add 'as long as it looks reasonably natural' considering how I dislike the look of heavy makeup, hair dyes, and implants. I am like messmer in that I generally want them to look like real life women, and I find the goddess-like beauty of some models intimidating.
They can look cute, but as long as it is not taken too far with schoolgirl outfits, 'acting' like a child, and playing with the pigtails, then I am okay.
I am sorry, but on MILFs it just doesn't work, unless they are young mothers, but that's a different poll.
Yes, it seems the majority of my time is spent downloading, not enjoying, the many delights of the wonderful world of porn. This may really be a case of the chase being better than the catch.
I'm a collector so there are two things that keep me downloading instead of watching:
First, when I a member of a site I want to get the most out of that membership. Sure, I can watch whenever I want to, but I can only download when I am a member and so I feel the clock ticking away whenever I spend too much time looking at videos or photos and I still have a membership to use.
Second, I always have the nagging fear of an impending "Road Warrior"-style apocalypse in the not too distant future, though in my case I will be fighting over computer and generator parts, not fuel (beyond what I need to keep the generators running in order to power my end-of-days computer setup, of course). If this is the case, I need to stock up on as much material as possible now, because when it happens all the armed fringe groups will probably wipe out all the unarmed fringe groups (like pornographers and their open-minded models) and we'll be fresh out of updates for a few years at least.
I have lost count of the number of times I have read that "she's a party girl!" and "this model is crazy!" Then there is the all time classic: "this girl loves sex!" Really? My view of girls who pose nude and masturbate on camera is that they are all total prudes... Admittedly some performers look like they are having more fun than others, but really no model has to love anything in porn; she just has to give consent.
More importantly, I don't give a shit about what they really love, hate, eat, etc. since porn is pretty much total fantasy. If the bios/profiles were all accurate, I suspect I would have been too depressed after reading a few and given up porn a long time ago.
As people say, the thing about first impressions is you only get to make one. If you start in the forum and the first post is something like "Check out _____! Free ___ and ___!!" well...I get suspicious to say the least, but usually angry, and I don't even run the site!
I wish new users would take a few minutes to look around to see how the site is set up; no ads, pop-ups, or any other bullshit to think this is the place to unload some digitized death threat or spam sandwich. I love how I can come back here day after day and see a level of civility and tolerance not even found in American government.
I really get more suspicious of new users who join just to post short, super high scoring reviews for obscure sites, but maybe that's a different poll.
That sucks Jeffrey99! My thoughts are with you in the hopes that one day you will enjoy faster porn. I feel that it is part of our inalienable rights -- life, liberty, pursuit of happiness -- and we should all have it in this day and age.
500 kb/sec is acceptable in general, and usually not too frustrating. 200 kb/sec is okay if just for a few photos, but a whole set, or even a single video, and it is frustratingly unacceptable.
I have had speeds with at least one site at around 1.4 mb/sec -- nice! Even if I don't like the videos or photos I have downloaded, the sheer speed at which they landed on my hard drive is almost enough to make up for it.
That's always a great answer lk2fireone -- I think too many of us base much of our lives around how others feel, without ever seriously considering our own personal feelings. I am a little lost as to why we put so much judgmental weight on people's professions, but we shouldn't let others intolerance and ignorance dictate our happiness, even when (if ever) it comes to dating/marrying a porn star.
Honestly though, I am in the "Not sure, it depends" category here. There have been quite a few models I thought I liked only to watch one too many behind the scenes videos, or read one too many interviews, to realize I really don't like a lot of them...but I am picky. I would think the porn could be a shared interest, though the fact that we approach it as fans, and the 'stars' approach it as a job, could lead to some problems.
This sort of goes back to a poll from over two years ago: "Would you date someone in the industry?" This poll was done before I even joined, but I will admit at least dating one is somewhere on my bucket list. :)
It certainly is creepy Toadsith, but also very likely a necessity in the porn business. This seems especially true because it is a quantitative rather than qualitative aspect, and there are some bizarre obsessions with numbers in porn (age, measurements, weight, etc.). Of course porn is almost total fantasy, and much of what we consume as fans is pretty much made up -- from models' names, to their 'backgrounds,' to the various fetishes and genres available -- so making up a girl's age should not be a surprise to anyone.
I disagree with you a bit on the "23 to 26" aspect, because even though many models do look better at that age, if they started in the business in their teens then they may now longer look that great, or even 'act' that great. A few years working in the business can really wear some of these women out, and force them to adapt a very typical, and sadly bland, look and act. I think most regular members at PU have expressed their pet peeves about these in the forum.
"Slow download rates," because if I can't download the goods then I'm not too happy. I understand this may not be the fault of the site itself, but its is still a pain when I can go to other sites and fill up my hard drives quickly.
After slow downloads it's navigation, because I need to efficiently and effortlessly find what I am going to download. A well designed site is when you don't notice the navigation; that is, it is so easy and simple that you don't even think about it. When navigation is poor, you end up wasting a lot of time and energy, and a hot video or photo shoot will not mean as much by the time you get to it. :(
It needs to been an extremely thorough tour or preview, but you don't know how thorough it is until you are a member, so reviews and comments are a must! I guess somebody eventually takes the plunge for the rest of us, but it's not me.
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